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Blonde
How about a job that has working all hours, then you wont have time to smoke lol :lol:
I wish I had the willpower to give up but it's hard when Steve smokes as well and he doesn't want to give up sad
Good luck Blonde kiss
Shireen
xxx
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Blonde
How about a job that has working all hours, then you wont have time to smoke lol :lol:


Dont swear at me :shock:
I need a ciggy now .................. Sarah said work !!! :smoke:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
well its hard kicking an addiction;
But have a look at this every time you feel the need for a fag
Right, three things,
I am going to pm you the details of a bloke who does accupuncture especially for people who want to stop smoking (a small stitch in your ear), a friend of ours has just had it done and so far (1 1/2 wks) he has not had a smoke.
Also the local NHS (in Wigan anyway) are supplying all the nicotine replacement stuff via prescription from your local chemist (dont need to see a doctor first) so that might be worth trying and the last thing ...........
........... If you want a stop smoking buddy, I will also give it a go :shock:
Hi blonde
His & I stopped 4 yrs ago. We both went to the GP where he put us on some tablets. We had to smoke as much as we could for two days before we started these tablets. :shock: but true. Don't know what was in them but they worked lol His tried a cig a few days after & made him sick.
Hope this helps & good luck kiss
I wish I had some sensible advice to give you. I have never smoked, so I have no experience of anything that might work.
But if you think it'd help, I'm sure the good people of SH could organise a shagging roster for you. Every time you feel the need for a ciggie, call the name on the top of the list and they'll provide you with some instant distraction. Once your body starts to associate sex with not smoking, the rest should be easy.
Blonde,
i feel for you.
I gave up 3 months and 6 days ago. i started a thread about it.
i wont say it was easy , and i have had some really shitty times over the last 3 months personally that if i wanted to i could have justified havinga cigerrette over, but i didnt.
only those that have given up or experienced a addiction can relate to how stopping can effect you.
The way i did it was to see how long i could go without a smoke, then go longer. I kept a packet in the cupboard therefore i wasnt in the position that i couldnt have one, i was choosing not to.
sometimes its easier to not tell those around you who are smokers as sadely some will be willing to help you start smoking again ( i said some , dont hit me )
if you are out and tempted, but a few drops of water/drink into a used ashtray, im sure the smell will put you off.
good luck xxxxx lou xxxx
So all I need to do is :- :smoke:
Get pregnant :smoke:
Go to the library :smoke:
Get tablets that make me sick :smoke:
Do a shaggy ciggie list :smoke:
Fill ashtrays with water :smoke:
Triffic ideas !! :giggle:
Thanx :smoke:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
well i stopped when i got pregnant which i think is easier with the morning sickness etc plus the fact you have to stop for someone else now, but sleazys just packed up, he went to the smoking clinic at the doc about 8 weeks ago now and they gave him the patches, must admit nothings ever worked for him b4 so wasn't holding my breath but hes seemed to have done it this time, hes not had a fag for a few weeks now which for someone who has smoked as many as him a day for so many years is a great achevment, personally i think its like anything you want to do you have to be in the right frame of mind not just keep trying daily cause you think you should, go to the smoking clinic they have been a great support for him kiss
I want to stop for me .................... I dont want to smoke anymore :smoke:
See what happens when I dont smoke while I am using the PC ............ I have somehow managed to delete my avatar and I dont know how to get it back :smoke:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
morn blonde hun kiss
hows it going without a ciggie i wish i could do it as well mad
mr and mrs dpg xxxx
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morn blonde hun kiss
hows it going without a ciggie i wish i could do it as well mad
mr and mrs dpg xxxx

Ermmmmm :smoke: I just lit one :smoke:
Morning !! :smoke:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Smoking is not good. but then so is not smoking, I once was asked by a girl if I smoked after sex but replied that I did'nt go that fast and that was the end of that relationship. Although there are the obvious medical risks in smoking that I do not deny, it is purely my own view that "Stress is the killer" and to give up sucessfully one must prepare to fill that gap that smoking fills with somthing less start with and ideally eliminate the cause for needing to "do anything" in the first place. Stress for me then is my root cause. and if I did not smoke then I would probably get addicted to somthing else. So thats what I am working on, and I wish you well in getting off the habit in the best way that may work for you.
Blonde xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Hi hun kiss
Thanks for the pm. xxx
Have you thought about the both of you giving up together. It may give you more incentive to carry on. And you know for "him" it makes scence xxx
Just my morning ramblings lol
Once again = Good luck and this time I think you WILL do it xxx You sound so determind.
Phredd :love:
I have to give up too. Have already been banned to the garden by son ( not nice in the middle of winter ! :shock: ) I think you have more success if in the right frame of mind to give up and at the mo I'm not but will do soon, promise :giggle:
**Sassy disappears into smokers corner with blonde** :smoke:
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I have to give up too. Have already been banned to the garden by son ( not nice in the middle of winter ! :shock: ) I think you have more success if in the right frame of mind to give up and at the mo I'm not but will do soon, promise :giggle:
**Sassy disappears into smokers corner with blonde** :smoke:

wink
Tut tut.
Thats the worst thing you can do, go into smokers corner. :cry:
If you find Blonde in there, kick her butt and send her home.
Phredd :love:
Quote by Medic_1
If you find Blonde in there, kick her butt and send her home.
Phredd :love:

No Way !!!! I can think of plenty of things to do with our little blonde biscuit ( and all of them rude ) :twisted:
Just my thoughts, surely a positive attitude rather than sympathy is more needed.
Tell Sam about successes, not failures!
You will only stop when you really want to. It has to be an attitude of mind combined with willpower.
If you feel you should stop, but dont really want to, there is no point even trying!
Sam....been to that library yet?
smile
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morn blonde hun kiss
hows it going without a ciggie i wish i could do it as well mad
mr and mrs dpg xxxx

Ermmmmm :smoke: I just lit one :smoke:
Morning !! :smoke:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

You are never going to snog me with an attitude like that Lil……. evil rolleyes
Gambatte Yo!
Stormwalker
the one that De Sade mentioned was the way that i weened myself off 5 years ago.....
whenever i felt like a ciggie..... i reached out for some orange juice.....
then after a while it felt natural.. because it gave my fingers something else to do......
also the things you notice is that your sense of smell gets better... and your taste buds come back......smile
sean xxxxxxxxx
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morn blonde hun kiss
hows it going without a ciggie i wish i could do it as well mad
mr and mrs dpg xxxx

Ermmmmm :smoke: I just lit one :smoke:
Morning !! :smoke:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

You are never going to snog me with an attitude like that Lil……. evil rolleyes
Gambatte Yo!
Stormwalker
Hey you speak for yourself Stormy, if she were here with us you'would'nt get a look in anyway!!! innocent bolt
Love
FL xxxxx
Right :smoke:
I have had a number of PM's from people who want to give up !! :smoke:
A couple of folk have suggested that we start a "Not having a ciggie today" thread where smokers can post what they are doing and how long they havent had a :smoke: for
I am more than happy to do that ............. if its OK with the 4 Tops and the Mods ??
Yes Alex I have been to the little Library in my village ............. and they have ordered the book for me ............. so while I wait for it to arrive :smoke: :smoke: :smoke:
Firelizard and Stormwalker ........... you wouldnt want to kiss me I smell like an ashtray :smoke: :giggle:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
See smoking works for me :smoke: :smoke: :smoke: :smoke:
After the 4th Ciggie I found my avatar and put it back !!! :giggle:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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:laughabove: :laughabove: :doh: :laughabove: :laughabove:

sympathy and understanding from your friends ! :smoke:
dont laugh at me :kick:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx :smoke:
Quote by blonde
Right :smoke:
I have had a number of PM's from people who want to give up !! :smoke:
A couple of folk have suggested that we start a "Not having a ciggie today" thread where smokers can post what they are doing and how long they havent had a :smoke: for
I am more than happy to do that ............. if its OK with the 4 Tops and the Mods ??
Yes Alex I have been to the little Library in my village ............. and they have ordered the book for me ............. so while I wait for it to arrive :smoke: :smoke: :smoke:
Firelizard and Stormwalker ........... you wouldnt want to kiss me I smell like an ashtray :smoke: :giggle:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Firelizard has nicked the idea and started the thread .................. so see ya all there :giggle:
Unless anyone has any help to offer me ? :smoke:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Quote by blonde
Right :smoke:
I have had a number of PM's from people who want to give up !! :smoke:
A couple of folk have suggested that we start a "Not having a ciggie today" thread where smokers can post what they are doing and how long they havent had a :smoke: for
I am more than happy to do that ............. if its OK with the 4 Tops and the Mods ??
Yes Alex I have been to the little Library in my village ............. and they have ordered the book for me ............. so while I wait for it to arrive :smoke: :smoke: :smoke:
Firelizard and Stormwalker ........... you wouldnt want to kiss me I smell like an ashtray :smoke: :giggle:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Firelizard has nicked the idea and started the thread .................. so see ya all there :giggle:
Unless anyone has any help to offer me ? :smoke:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Aaaaw I'm sorry Blonde please forgive me :upset: shall I get a mod to take it off so you can do it properly hun ???
Luv
Firelizard xxxxxx
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Right :smoke:
I have had a number of PM's from people who want to give up !! :smoke:
A couple of folk have suggested that we start a "Not having a ciggie today" thread where smokers can post what they are doing and how long they havent had a :smoke: for
I am more than happy to do that ............. if its OK with the 4 Tops and the Mods ??
Yes Alex I have been to the little Library in my village ............. and they have ordered the book for me ............. so while I wait for it to arrive :smoke: :smoke: :smoke:
Firelizard and Stormwalker ........... you wouldnt want to kiss me I smell like an ashtray :smoke: :giggle:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Firelizard has nicked the idea and started the thread .................. so see ya all there :giggle:
Unless anyone has any help to offer me ? :smoke:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Aaaaw I'm sorry Blonde please forgive me :upset: shall I get a mod to take it off so you can do it properly hun ???
Luv
Firelizard xxxxxx
No Darling kiss
Theres nothing to forgive ! :kiss:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Quote by Poohbear
Bob and I gave up 5 moths ago. Did a sat nite shift, came home..had a vodka and a few ciggies.. before we went to bed at 8am, we threw away any ciggie stuff, tobaco, papers,filters lighters... except Bobs brass one that has done the . and we havnt smoked from when we got up lunchtime... on 6th Nov 2005.
We gave up while it was still our choice, NOT cos we had to. Sooo many clubs n pubs are now startin to ban it and from june next yr it will be banned from most public places.
Not saying we dont miss it sometimes, more out of habit then anything (we were on 20 a day easy ) but we have each other for support.
Do it now Sam, dont wait till you HAVE to do it.

I dont have a reason to stop ............. I am just sick of spending £10 a day on ciggy's that will eventually kill me and make me smell (according to Firelizard) like an old ashtray :giggle:
I want to stop coz I want to stop !!! kiss
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx :smoke: