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Right im going through a few health problmes at the moment one of them is that they cant get a control on my blood pressure and as my mother died of a stroke due to high blood pressure at 42 there a tad concerned.......
one of the things they have advised is to quit smoking ..... now ive smoked since i was 17 so its a bit daunting im asking the wise peeps of sh to help with any hints or tips they used to keep them off the smoke, what worked for them what didnt work whats given by docs thats shit that sort of thing.. ive been to docs again today and its stroke high so i really need to move on this as quick as possible ive already suffered one episode of palsy, and that was bad enough, i get horrific pins an needles in my legs an horrendous cramps in the my feet an calfs.. so i need to act now.....
so tip away .... anything whether you think its stupid i need all the help i can get
thankyou o wise ones on sh..
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furby
Never smoked so can't help, but good luck Furby :thumbup:
Well... as for me, cold turkey!
Two and a half years now.. seriously all I ever did was to tell myself I'm a non smoker and if I pick one up I will be a smoker again.. simple really honest! Your a non smoker untill you take a drag/puff again so just don't. Cravings soon pass... i think patches and the like make it more difficult as your telling yourself its harder than it really is... Just stop!
Sure others will tell you different... But I don't crave at all.. and stopped craving after about a month. Best thing I ever did..
Mike xx
Firstly Furby I'm sure you will succeed - you have so much incentive.
Secondly - you will get loads of excellent advice from the good people on here and some of it will suit you and some won't. So don't feel low about not using some of the advice, or using it and deciding it isn't for you.
My Mum stopped at 71 and my gift to her was to take a carpet washer to her living room carpet on the day she stopped. I also washed down her paintwork, window and furniture. The water came up FILTHY and she was shocked at the state she had been unknowingly living in.
She was also really pleased when she walked in the next day and the house smelt so clean. Somthing like that may help to encourage you and mark D-day quite well.
Whatever route you take GOOD LUCK - you will get there.
Quote by Cherrytree
Never smoked so can't help, but good luck Furby :thumbup:

Nor me, but i had a good friend who used a bottle full of fag ends in water. whenever he wanted a smoke he used to sniff the bottle which made him wretch and not want to light up.
S'pose will power is the main factor on giving up an addiction, stick with it kiss
good god furby.
Giving up something is really really bad habit ive had was bitting my nails.I always bit them right down till they bled.
I also suffered from bouts of long painful mouth-alcers and all the doctors and treatments in the world could not stop them exploding into large painful cankers.
So you know what? i stopped biting my the ulcers are gone, just like that.
Ok, i still have a go by putting the finger to the mouth but as soon as i do this i remember the pain i was in and i quickly pull them away.
Do it for yourself, give up them smokes.I know its hard but the pain is a damn site worse.
Look at your you eating lots of junk food?.
Cut down on crisps and coke type reduce the amount of tea or coffee for a you got to drink coke/fizzy then go for the zero version not the diet.
Plenty of still mineral water.
Stop drinking alcohol!.I may sound like a real downer but if your drinking in large amounts start cutting back until you have stopped completely.
Speak to your doctor about your no expert.
Just please stop of people here like you and want to see you well.
1) Set your self a target date to quit, and stick to it.
2) Tell someone (preferably a non-smoker) as this means you have to at least have a go at quitting.
3) If you fail do not berate yourself You will have learned something for next time. Go back to 1) asap.
4) Get help. The gum worked for me, but maybe you would prefer the patches. You are twice as likely to succeed with a nicotine substitute.
5) Clear house of all ciggies, lighters etc. This may not be possible if your partner smokes. If he does ask him to try to give up with you.
6) Reward yourself. I kept a jar with all the money I had saved in it. Every so often I would buy something with it, a CD or something. Avoid buying alcohol though, as you may end up smoking again.
7) You may not succeed first time, but don't be disheartened, try again.
8) Don't ask yourself questions like "Why can't I give up?" Try the question "What would be better about my life if I did give up?" Focus on the positives!
Good luck!
Isn't the fear of early death incentive enough? :shock:
Go back to your doctor; they'll have information about stopping and of support available to you.
Quote by anowland
1) Set your self a target date to quit, and stick to it.
2) Tell someone (preferably a non-smoker) as this means you have to at least have a go at quitting.
3) If you fail do not berate yourself You will have learned something for next time. Go back to 1) asap.
4) Get help. The gum worked for me, but maybe you would prefer the patches. You are twice as likely to succeed with a nicotine substitute.
5) Clear house of all ciggies, lighters etc. This may not be possible if your partner smokes. If he does ask him to try to give up with you.
6) Reward yourself. I kept a jar with all the money I had saved in it. Every so often I would buy something with it, a CD or something. Avoid buying alcohol though, as you may end up smoking again.
7) You may not succeed first time, but don't be disheartened, try again.
8) Don't ask yourself questions like "Why can't I give up?" Try the question "What would be better about my life if I did give up?" Focus on the positives!
Good luck!

my goal is the end of this packet i have now....
ive got a money pot that when i got to buy some il put four pounds in it thats a good idea... im going to use the glass full of empty butts in water as another one thats good......
the one thing imgoing to struggle with is at work... at work you go outside for a fag an a gossip.. and all my mates smoke.. so il either have to sit on me own or go with them and not smoke.. but il keep a count down on here.. having people watching if i fail is enough incentive to make me do it... !!!!!
love ya xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
furby xxxxxxxxxxx
Furby, go to the Doctors, Chemist or your local Stop Smoking clinc and take all the help you can get from them. Smoking is known to be more addictive than a number of class A drugs, so take whatever help they offer.
I stopped smoking back in August, and I have to say it was the hardest thing I have ever done. However, a couple of weeks, after 14 weeks of managing without, I started again :cry: so good luck, it isnt easy, but you have made the first move by openly saying you want to do it. smile
Quote by Freckledbird
Isn't the fear of early death incentive enough? :shock:
Go back to your doctor; they'll have information about stopping and of support available to you.

exactly!.....the thought of "i will die if i don't quit smoking!....should be incentive enough to quit without any need for "kick the habit tips"
Quote by Mr-Powers
Isn't the fear of early death incentive enough? :shock:
Go back to your doctor; they'll have information about stopping and of support available to you.

exactly!.....the thought of "i will die if i don't quit smoking!....should be incentive enough to quit without any need for "kick the habit tips"
yeah it should be........... but im afraid it wasnt ..... they tell you that but dont tell you how to do it ... i know i need to do i know i have to do .. thats why im asking how others have done it.
Quote by FurbyHug
Isn't the fear of early death incentive enough? :shock:
Go back to your doctor; they'll have information about stopping and of support available to you.

exactly!.....the thought of "i will die if i don't quit smoking!....should be incentive enough to quit without any need for "kick the habit tips"
yeah it should be........... but im afraid it wasnt ..... they tell you that but dont tell you how to do it ... i know i need to do i know i have to do .. thats why im asking how others have done it.
how about using pure willpower to quit...do you have kids?
whats that got to do with it.. this is about me.
I've never smoked so can't help in that way....BUT I do offer a free hug service!!! wink
I've never smoked so can't help in that way....BUT I do offer a free hug service!!! wink
Quote by FurbyHug
whats that got to do with it.. this is about me.

if you have got kids....its got everything to do with them....if you have got kids...think about them before you light that next cigarette...because if you don't....they will be motherless....how about that for incentive!!
Quote by 1luvlyguy
I've never smoked so can't help in that way....BUT I do offer a free hug service!!! wink

Awwwwwwwww fanks honey xxxxxxxx
Quote by Mr-Powers
whats that got to do with it.. this is about me.

if you have got kids....its got everything to do with them....if you have got kids...think about them before you light that next cigarette...because if you don't....they will be motherless....how about that for incentive!!
I do have kids thanks for bringing it up they live with there dad an i havent seen them for awhile .. but since you are so into bringing it up ta.
need a fag now.
Hi Furby,
I stumbled across a great website last year while trying to quit and it helped me alot.
have a look:-

Very informative, and gives lots of good advice.
Good luck ok ;)
thankyou superman thats what i was asking for .. help not telling off.. thankyou xx
Quote by FurbyHug
whats that got to do with it.. this is about me.

if you have got kids....its got everything to do with them....if you have got kids...think about them before you light that next cigarette...because if you don't....they will be motherless....how about that for incentive!!
I do have kids thanks for bringing it up they live with there dad an i havent seen them for awhile .. but since you are so into bringing it up ta.
need a fag now.
WLF!!....i simply asked if you had kids...i was unaware of the circumstances...you asked for advice...i gave it...so...you didn't like it...simple solution...light up another fag! rolleyes
Quote by Mr-Powers
whats that got to do with it.. this is about me.

if you have got kids....its got everything to do with them....if you have got kids...think about them before you light that next cigarette...because if you don't....they will be motherless....how about that for incentive!!
I do have kids thanks for bringing it up they live with there dad an i havent seen them for awhile .. but since you are so into bringing it up ta.
need a fag now.
WLF!!....i simply asked if you had kids...i was unaware of the circumstances...you asked for advice...i gave it...so...you didn't like it...simple solution...light another fag! rolleyes
please this is a proper thread for proper advice for me an hints an tips i can use telling me off doesnt help i was asking for that ... i shant respond to you again honey you obviously have a bad attitude towards this... so thankyou for your input. x
furby x
Quote by FurbyHug
whats that got to do with it.. this is about me.

if you have got kids....its got everything to do with them....if you have got kids...think about them before you light that next cigarette...because if you don't....they will be motherless....how about that for incentive!!
I do have kids thanks for bringing it up they live with there dad an i havent seen them for awhile .. but since you are so into bringing it up ta.
need a fag now.
WLF!!....i simply asked if you had kids...i was unaware of the circumstances...you asked for advice...i gave it...so...you didn't like it...simple solution...light another fag! rolleyes
please this is a proper thread for proper advice for me an hints an tips i can use telling me off doesnt help i was asking for that ... i shant respond to you again honey you obviously have a bad attitude towards this... so thankyou for your input. x
furby x
again WLF....you simply only want to hear advice that suits your ears...i don't do hugs and kisses...you obviously don't realise the seriousness of what your habit is doing to you...and if you don't think my advice is proper...you are clearly not serious about kicking the habit!
Has the doc told you that smoking is the most important factor in your blood pressure probs furby?
If it aint then my advice is to deal with things one at a time starting with the one that affects you the most.
We all ought to give up I know, but a few fags aint going to hurt if they provide you with a crutch to help with dealing with other things like diet etc.
ps be very careful if they offer you zyban tablets, for me they worked in that one had no desire to smoke at all, but the side effects were horrendous and lasted for months
Fruity XXX
Quote by Fruity1
Has the doc told you that smoking is the most important factor in your blood pressure probs furby?
If it aint then my advice is to deal with things one at a time starting with the one that affects you the most.
We all ought to give up I know, but a few fags aint going to hurt if they provide you with a crutch to help with dealing with other things like diet etc.
ps be very careful if they offer you zyban tablets, for me they worked in that one had no desire to smoke at all, but the side effects were horrendous and lasted for months
Fruity XXX

the docs have linked the blood presure to smoking, they have ruled eveything else out and stopped it all the pill, diet the lot.. so only thing left is smoking so i have to do it now.. instead of later, im back next week.. which is why i wanted advice.. im going to try cold turkey till then if i cant manage it then il see about other options xxxxxxxx
You lot are far too deep for me lol
Furbs came on here to ask for advice and thats it and if iwas furbs right now i would be smoking 10 as im sure she must be stressed by the amount of not so great help you have sent her??
Furbs hun you can do it its a peice of paper with bad stuff in it put it down and if u feel u need one come suck on my tit lol
Love you baby
Quote by Miss-slut
You lot are far too deep for me lol
Furbs came on here to ask for advice and thats it and if iwas furbs right now i would be smoking 10 as im sure she must be stressed by the amount of not so great help you have sent her??
Furbs hun you can do it its a peice of paper with bad stuff in it put it down and if u feel u need one come suck on my tit lol
Love you baby

Errrrr as I said before I don't smoke but, may I suck on your other tit????????? redface
Quote by Miss-slut
You lot are far too deep for me lol
Furbs came on here to ask for advice and thats it and if iwas furbs right now i would be smoking 10 as im sure she must be stressed by the amount of not so great help you have sent her??
Furbs hun you can do it its a peice of paper with bad stuff in it put it down and if u feel u need one come suck on my tit lol
Love you baby

thankyou darling il suck on your tit everytime i need a poof.. lol.. no excuses needed.. !!
had some great advice... the money pot... the glass of butt ends.. and cold turkey for a week.. im going to do that first back at docs on wednesday if i need any more help xxx
thankyou honey pie xxxxxxxxxx
1luv anytime lol
Furbs ur a great girl and im sure with all ur wise treads and ur great help in our room over the last few months you are far more stronger than a crap round smelly thing in ur fingers and remember what i told u
everytime u play with ur clit after a fag it smokes too lol now who would want to munch on a fag smelling clit?? drop the fags and be strong think how great u will smell and look in days xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx