HELP... Profile photo''s a mess....

5 Sep 2008

Please, can someone help me with my profile photos.
Been a 'silent' member for a while, now trying to get into the scene but i know my profile pics are holding me back. I had to take these myself and i know they're not good, OK read Crap!! So, how do i go about getting some that don't make me look like a freak (i see pictures of the Elephant man). Haven't got any reliable friends i could ask, at least none with photo expertise or any i'd want to strip off in front of sad

Please, i'm a genuine guy who's missing out.

5 Sep 2008

Stand up straight, shoulders back
Wear underwear - those trunks type ones, with long legs.
Pale blue looks good on pale skin
Stand or sit with hands on tops of thighs
Imagine in Calvin Klein advert
Start exercising to tone up more

5 Sep 2008

Quote by Laurenxxx_1
Stand up straight, shoulders back
Wear underwear - those trunks type ones, with long legs.
Pale blue looks good on pale skin
Stand or site with hands on tops of thighs
Imagine in Clavin Klein advert
Start exercising to tone up more

Did just that today. Got some nice gear, tried it on, looked great... Took a pic and bingo... instant freak. I know i'm better than that (been on meets where the women couldn't believe i was the guy in the photo). Maybe i'm just not photogenic, which isn't a lot of use on a site like this.

5 Sep 2008

The best photos are ones that leave stuff to the imagination. You don't put it all on display.
The male genitals arent that aesthetically pleasing. They look far better in underwear in my opinion.
Personality is far more important than what your dick looks like.

5 Sep 2008

You must be running negative self-talk in your head and this is coming across in your body language
You need to get yourself in a positive frame of mind where you think of yourself as a Sex God who any woman would be lucky to have
You are looking at things the wrong way
It shouldn't be a case of 'Please, please have sex with me' but 'Are you up to MY standards for me to want sex with you?' see?
If your profile and ad are good enough you shouldn't even need a photo.

5 Sep 2008

I noticed something very interesting on the photo gallery
A photo of a clothed woman got more looks than womens tits/clits etc
Why do you think that is?
Cos ppl get fed up of gynacological stuff and just want to see a human being!

6 Sep 2008

Quote by Laurenxxx_1
I noticed something very interesting on the photo gallery
A photo of a clothed woman got more looks than womens tits/clits etc
Why do you think that is?
Cos ppl get fed up of gynacological stuff and just want to see a human being!

That's an intersting point. When looking at the video section i quite often pick the ones who - a) are clothed or b) have a facial shot. Gonna have to rethink my profile from the bottom up. Still got the problem of the crap pics though.

6 Sep 2008

Quote by Laurenxxx_1
I noticed something very interesting on the photo gallery
A photo of a clothed woman got more looks than womens tits/clits etc
Why do you think that is?
Cos ppl get fed up of gynacological stuff and just want to see a human being!

Most parts of the anatomy basically look the same however a women/man can have a million poses/smiles/eye and or body language. Shots which are more roleplay style or even just the hint of "im really into this" as opposed to close up shots which all look the same will always win hands down imo
As for the new pics you are after?
possibly ask a close friend to take some? set the camera to self timer and try more natural poses, If you can take pics with your webcam (if you have one) have a play about with that for chest / head shots as its easier to navigate a mouse than a entire camera.

6 Sep 2008

Yes, I totally agree Tankinky
Also the photos I remember the most are ones which show 2 people in a pose that shows they are in a relationship ie showing emotion.

6 Sep 2008

Quote by TanKinky
I noticed something very interesting on the photo gallery
A photo of a clothed woman got more looks than womens tits/clits etc
Why do you think that is?
Cos ppl get fed up of gynacological stuff and just want to see a human being!

Most parts of the anatomy basically look the same however a women/man can have a million poses/smiles/eye and or body language. Shots which are more roleplay style or even just the hint of "im really into this" as opposed to close up shots which all look the same will always win hands down imo
As for the new pics you are after?
possibly ask a close friend to take some? set the camera to self timer and try more natural poses, If you can take pics with your webcam (if you have one) have a play about with that for chest / head shots as its easier to navigate a mouse than a entire camera.
:thumbup:
Well said Tanny. There are too many pictures of people showing close ups of their bits, but you have no idea what they (the person) really looks like.

6 Sep 2008

Yes I like a nice suit myself smile

6 Sep 2008

Quote by flower411
Put on a suit and get someone to take the pic for you.
Apparantly suits work for a lot of the women in here :lol: :lol:

:thumbup: works for me :smitten: :rascal:

6 Sep 2008

Likes a man in a suit to :smitten:

6 Sep 2008

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhh yes, a suit - :twisted:

7 Sep 2008

Thanks for all the great tips.
Still haven't got anyone to take some new pics.

8 Sep 2008

Quote by amiga1
Stand up straight, shoulders back
Wear underwear - those trunks type ones, with long legs.
Pale blue looks good on pale skin
Stand or site with hands on tops of thighs
Imagine in Clavin Klein advert
Start exercising to tone up more

Did just that today. Got some nice gear, tried it on, looked great...Took a pic and bingo... instant freak.

:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:

8 Sep 2008

your avatar makes me think your a woman.
photos dont have to be posed for the camera, maybe just set the web cam up at a direction rather than face on and pose kinda thing? and click at random?
i know if i do see a cock shot i hate the ones where you can see the elastic line still lol but thats just me.
oh and if any hands are in shot , make sure nails are clean.
but then this is just my advise and we are all different.
xx fem

8 Sep 2008

Quote by fem_4_taboo
your avatar makes me think your a woman.
xx fem

Point taken, avatar changed. biggrin

8 Sep 2008

lol sorry you didnt have to, just thought id mention it, now its just scary lol
xxfem ( hard to please ) lol xx

8 Sep 2008

Quote by fem_4_taboo
lol sorry you didnt have to, just thought id mention it, now its just scary lol
xxfem ( hard to please ) lol xx

Sorry Amiga, but I think your new one's a bit scary too, but it's better than the old one, with the :scared: spider.
lol

8 Sep 2008

Quote by Cherrytree
lol sorry you didnt have to, just thought id mention it, now its just scary lol
xxfem ( hard to please ) lol xx

Sorry Amiga, but I think your new one's a bit scary too, but it's better than the old one, with the :scared: spider.
lol

Strange, i've never heard the earth/skull one called scary before. It actually represents the fragility of the Earth. But hey ho, third time lucky.