hi peeps need some advice

1 Oct 2007

After the last few weeks, the hubby has had enough of the life we all seem to accept, he has now posted this in all the avenues letter boxes.. :shock:
Thanks to the twats
(Excuse my French, but it seems to be the life we all need to have to live in now. Not)
For this special present to my car that the little loves gave to me. I.e. the nice special effect, that is now down the side of my car. E.g. the key line effect.
And a few weeks ago to my babe’s side window of her car.
Obviously u must have a small cock or a small IQ
So pop round to my address Muppets and I will educate u in a bit of work
Ethos
And if u cannot read this I live at number 29 u sado’s or see your special needs tutor to direct you to the right address.
And I am getting really pissed off with all your sad excuses; e.g. I haven’t got a playground blah, bring it on wankers
Ps. pc plod f off I am now getting tired of paying taxes for an inept service…
Feel free to take me to court for your failures xx
Enough is an enough
Big kisses brats, daddy’s home and now be scared arseholes
Ps any information that leads to a prosecution that will mean something, I will give a thousand pounds to
A charity of your choice.
Thank you for reading this flyer, but at the end of the day it’s your close…..
Do not let it end up being another put my head in the sand scenario
now this is a guy who says very few word, last time i saw him this mad was in a kebab house and he kicked a nasty ignorant person out of it.. and when i asked why? he said u are a lady and these guys work hard
for the jobs, brits need to learn some manners.
is he right or wrong for doing this? confused

1 Oct 2007

He's wrong. What he's done, I would imagine there is a law against. And he's belittling people about their IQ - if he's going to do that he needs to ensure that his own IQ doesn't appear to be similar to theirs.
What advice do you want?

1 Oct 2007

Quote by Sweet22couple
And if u cannot read this I live at number 29 u sado’s or see your special needs tutor to direct you to the right address.

This some could find offensive.
My 13 year old son does have special needs and does have a special needs tutor and if i got that message though my door i would be going around myself mad

I think its wrong, at least the way its worded.
Tony

1 Oct 2007

Quote by Shaz_n_Tony
And if u cannot read this I live at number 29 u sado’s or see your special needs tutor to direct you to the right address.

This some could find offensive.
My 13 year old son does have special needs and does have a special needs tutor and if i got that message though my door i would be going around myself mad

I think its wrong, at least the way its worded.
Tony
It's wrong because it's threatening.

1 Oct 2007

Quote by Freckledbird
He's wrong. What he's done, I would imagine there is a law against.
What advice do you want?

but is the not a law that says u have to stsnd up for what u are wanting for your own well being, and he has already said be damed and see u all in court..
i agree with what u are saying, but isnt it about being able to walk down the road and feel safe at the end of the day.. be u a male or female or a poxy car.
and ty for your advice hun kiss

1 Oct 2007

Quote by Freckledbird
And if u cannot read this I live at number 29 u sado’s or see your special needs tutor to direct you to the right address.

This some could find offensive.
My 13 year old son does have special needs and does have a special needs tutor and if i got that message though my door i would be going around myself mad

I think its wrong, at least the way its worded.
Tony
It's wrong because it's threatening.
Yes it is, thats why i said "I think its wrong, at least the way its worded"
Its wrong for a few reasons but i just picked the bit out that stood out the most to me.
Tony wink

1 Oct 2007

Quote by Sweet22couple
He's wrong. What he's done, I would imagine there is a law against.
What advice do you want?

but is the not a law that says u have to stsnd up for what u are wanting for your own well being, and he has already said be damed and see u all in court..
i agree with what u are saying, but isnt it about being able to walk down the road and feel safe at the end of the day.. be u a male or female or a poxy car.
and ty for your advice hun kiss

As far as I'm aware, there's no law that says you have to stand up for anything. The fact that he's said 'be damned and see you all in court' would make it worse for him if he does anything, I would have thought -it's intent.
I don't really know what kind of advice you want. If it were me, I'd be going around collecting as many of those fliers back up as I could, and apologising profusely to anyone who was offended or frightened by them.

1 Oct 2007

Sorry Tony, I wasn't having a dig at you. smile

1 Oct 2007

Quote by Shaz_n_Tony
And if u cannot read this I live at number 29 u sado’s or see your special needs tutor to direct you to the right address.

This some could find offensive.
My 13 year old son does have special needs and does have a special needs tutor and if i got that message though my door i would be going around myself mad

I think its wrong, at least the way its worded.
Tony
sorry shaz_tony its not having a go at the parents, that are good or bad, its about when is it right to stand up and say eough. i agree it maybe worded wrong and he will learn. redface

1 Oct 2007

Quote by Freckledbird
Sorry Tony, I wasn't having a dig at you.

hehe its ok i knew you wasn't kiss

He just needs to be careful now though, if one of them flyers have gone in a door to someone that has taken offence he might be bringing more trouble on himself than what there was to start with.
Tony wink

1 Oct 2007

Well if the damage to your car is down to one of the residents in your avenue/street/close then you best be prepared for some more of the same as I doubt they will appreciate a letter like that dropping through their door.

1 Oct 2007

Quote by Mallock2006
Well if the damage to your car is down to one of the residents in your avenue/street/close then you best be prepared for some more of the same as I doubt they will appreciate a letter like that dropping through their door.

Yep, likely to piss off half the street and end up with a far worse situation than currently exists. And that's not even taking into account whether any of them report him to the police.

1 Oct 2007

Quote by Shaz_n_Tony
And if u cannot read this I live at number 29 u sado’s or see your special needs tutor to direct you to the right address.

This some could find offensive.
My 13 year old son does have special needs and does have a special needs tutor and if i got that message though my door i would be going around myself mad

I think its wrong, at least the way its worded.
Tony
I agree, I'm working in this area and feel very strongly about it also.

1 Oct 2007

sorry peeps, i agree his wording may have been wrong and he needs a good smackbottom

But it was about is it right or wrong to stand up to this hoodie society that we all seem to be now acceptable for all our daily / nightly lives :cry:

1 Oct 2007

Violence breeds violence.....so I can in no way condone what he is saying or threatning to do. the person that has done the orginal crime is scum..and do you really think they are bothered by this letter ? In fact think, they would actually take pleasure from the fact they have got to you. We should all have the opportunity to protect our selves, out loved ones and our property....but what you are suggesting is revenge.
In my eyes...sorry...WRONG

1 Oct 2007

Quote by Sweet22couple
sorry peeps, i agree his wording may have been wrong and he needs a good But it was about is it right or wrong to stand up to this hoodie society that we all seem to be now acceptable for all our daily / nightly lives :cry:

He was wrong to do what he did.

1 Oct 2007

Quote by deancannock
Violence breeds violence.....so I can in no way condone what he is saying or threatning to do. the person that has done the orginal crime is scum..and do you really think they are bothered by this letter ? In fact think, they would actually take pleasure from the fact they have got to you. We should all have the opportunity to protect our selves, out loved ones and our property....but what you are suggesting is revenge.
In my eyes...sorry...WRONG

Nicely put Dean :thumbup:
In edit - I think this is so wrong that I almost locked the thread then :eeek:

1 Oct 2007

Quote by Dawnie
Violence breeds violence.....so I can in no way condone what he is saying or threatning to do. the person that has done the orginal crime is scum..and do you really think they are bothered by this letter ? In fact think, they would actually take pleasure from the fact they have got to you. We should all have the opportunity to protect our selves, out loved ones and our property....but what you are suggesting is revenge.
In my eyes...sorry...WRONG

Nicely put Dean :thumbup:
In edit - I think this is so wrong that I almost locked the thread then :eeek:

:rotflmao: Yes I agree Dawnie that was my line of thinking too. Lucky I'm not a MOD.
Also for the record. I agree that it's bluddy irritating when that happens to your property, but threatening your neighbours is hardly likely to make the situation any better now is it rolleyes

1 Oct 2007

Hey guys Wrong or right Its the way it gets to you after a bit. Again and again the normal decent citizen 'seems' to get a raw deal. I feel for your bloke. It seems that some situations have no winners and that we all have our breaking point.
Submit to your feeling shite. Sit down drink the immaculate drink that is coffee breath deeply, think great thoughts, get up and carry on. In the end do you have a choice really?
We should do some putting the worlds to rights sometime. It may not achieve much but hey least we can get stuff off our chests call everyone idiots bar us wink

and feel momentarily better for a bit biggrin

Resoect to you 22's
Btw keep posting :thumbup:

1 Oct 2007

I can really appreciate how you must be feeling. I live on a rough estate in Bristol and in the year that I have been here I have had my car broken into and bricks thrown at my front door. We found out who was responsible and I was really ready to go round their houses and have it out with them and their parents, but you know what it isn`t worth you ending up with a criminal record because at the end of the day they are kids and your an adult.
I think all you will achieve is to piss off your neighbours because the little f**kers that are doing it will love the fact that they are getting to you.
So I do sympathise and see where you are coming from but I don`t think you will get the desired effect. People could see it as derograty and threatening and in the long run give you more agro.

1 Oct 2007

hold on.....this can't be right....you sure you not been drinking Dawn.... :giggle:

1 Oct 2007

know how u feel 22 and no i dont think its wrong. sorry to be controversial lol.
i passed my driving test in feb and mr 04 bought me a car a few weeks later, within 2 days of having it some little sh**e stabbed both driver side wheels mad

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my kids have also had to put up with their quad bike being stolen from our garden twice, we caught them the 3rd time and the 1st thing i did was send my staffy out to greet the drugged up idiots :twisted: . These "little darlings" had not only broken into our garden and used bolt cutters to try and cut the motorbike chain securing the quad but they also cut the wire to the security light.
I told the police that i had sent the dog out and they weren;t bothered by it in the slightest before anyone asks as it was on my own property, and mr 04 gave 1 of them a slap for coming too close with the bolt cutters. At the time my 5 yr old and 10 yr old were upstairs sleeping and our instincts were to protect them.
These boys had to be held in custody for almost 12 hours before they could be interviewed as they we both high on crack, the eldest of the 2 we caught was 17.
After both incidents i told everybody imagineable on our estate what had happened and what i intended to do when we caught them,and most of the neighbours agreed with me. A few even looked out for my car and the quads when we were out.
If it sounds and feels right to you then do it, you'd be surprised how many ppl in your area have probably had the same done to them but have'nt found their " voice".
Waiting to be flamed ..............

1 Oct 2007

Quote by Dawnie
In edit - I think this is so wrong that I almost locked the thread then :eeek:

:thumbup:

1 Oct 2007

Quote by Sweet22couple
sorry peeps, i agree his wording may have been wrong and he needs a good But it was about is it right or wrong to stand up to this hoodie society that we all seem to be now acceptable for all our daily / nightly lives :cry:

how do you know it was a hoodie...maybe a neighbour has a grudge?

1 Oct 2007

Quote by welshcpl2004
know how u feel 22 and no i dont think its wrong. sorry to be controversial lol.
i passed my driving test in feb and mr 04 bought me a car a few weeks later, within 2 days of having it some little sh**e stabbed both driver side wheels .
my kids have also had to put up with their quad bike being stolen from our garden twice, we caught them the 3rd time and the 1st thing i did was send my staffy out to greet the drugged up idiots :twisted: . These "little darlings" had not only broken into our garden and used bolt cutters to try and cut the motorbike chain securing the quad but they also cut the wire to the security light.
I told the police that i had sent the dog out and they weren;t bothered by it in the slightest before anyone asks as it was on my own property, and mr 04 gave 1 of them a slap for coming too close with the bolt cutters. At the time my 5 yr old and 10 yr old were upstairs sleeping and our instincts were to protect them.
These boys had to be held in custody for almost 12 hours before they could be interviewed as they we both high on crack, the eldest of the 2 we caught was 17.
After both incidents i told everybody imagineable on our estate what had happened and what i intended to do when we caught them,and most of the neighbours agreed with me. A few even looked out for my car and the quads when we were out.
If it sounds and feels right to you then do it, you'd be surprised how many ppl in your area have probably had the same done to them but have'nt found their " voice".
Waiting to be flamed ..............

waiting to be flamed for what?
you were protecting your property,what could possibly warrent people to have a go at you for dunno

1 Oct 2007

Quote by welshcpl2004
know how u feel 22 and no i dont think its wrong. sorry to be controversial lol.
i passed my driving test in feb and mr 04 bought me a car a few weeks later, within 2 days of having it some little sh**e stabbed both driver side wheels .
my kids have also had to put up with their quad bike being stolen from our garden twice, we caught them the 3rd time and the 1st thing i did was send my staffy out to greet the drugged up idiots :twisted: . These "little darlings" had not only broken into our garden and used bolt cutters to try and cut the motorbike chain securing the quad but they also cut the wire to the security light.
I told the police that i had sent the dog out and they weren;t bothered by it in the slightest before anyone asks as it was on my own property, and mr 04 gave 1 of them a slap for coming too close with the bolt cutters. At the time my 5 yr old and 10 yr old were upstairs sleeping and our instincts were to protect them.
These boys had to be held in custody for almost 12 hours before they could be interviewed as they we both high on crack, the eldest of the 2 we caught was 17.
After both incidents i told everybody imagineable on our estate what had happened and what i intended to do when we caught them,and most of the neighbours agreed with me. A few even looked out for my car and the quads when we were out.
If it sounds and feels right to you then do it, you'd be surprised how many ppl in your area have probably had the same done to them but have'nt found their " voice".
Waiting to be flamed ..............

You bitch fiend from hell!!!
wink

But enough of the flattery :lol2:
My advice is to maybe ask the 'sisters of the merciless couldren' to get out the voodoo dolls and start sticking them pins in 22's smile

It might not be the greatest of advice granted but I think it best not to rub your nose in stuff when he's pissed off.
I hope you get some satisfaction and if theres anything i can do - but lets face it. It will be pretty little lol

but i'd do it biggrin

1 Oct 2007

Who of us ever deals with things perfectly? In retrospect, we'd all like to change one thing or many things in how we've reacted to a situation, especially in cases where we have been pushed to our limit. Whether it's right or wrong, sometimes it's perfectly understandable that we hit out emotionally, physically, or in this case in writing.
My sister has been the subject of anti-social behaviour for 18 months now and although she has for a long time done things 'right' i.e. keeping a log, contacting the council, contacting the police; the bottom line is fuck all has been done and she continues to have little sleep, hearing swearing and shouting at all hours, drugs being taken, her kids being threatened, the dog getting into her garden killing chickens...and this is in a private quiet residential cul de sac :shock: Who can pass judgement if one day she flips? I won't.
I'm not condoning threatening or insulting people but at the same time I'm not going to condemn your hubby - people do the best they can with the resources they have, both your hubby and the twats who did this. They might not have an education, I don't mean academic but in social skills and empathy, to understand what they have done and it's impact on others, or to know better ways to 'entertain' themselves.
As welshcpl says, maybe people in the area need help in finding their voice and your hubby might want to try that method instead. How about asking neighbours to come to a meeting to discuss whats happened because no doubt there'll be others who have had the same things done could be helpful. Get the MP involved, complain about what's happened and the lack of action from the plods. Everyone is accountable for their behaviour - the twats who do this, the plods who do fuck all...and your hubby for dealing with it the way he has. Maybe the threats are the only language they understand...or maybe it perpetuates the cycle and moves you further away from resolution...

Quote by welshcpl2004
Waiting to be flamed ........

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1 Oct 2007

because i sent out my staffy to "deal" with the "little herberts" no doubt someone will see the wrong in that as i violated the burgulars human rights or some such cr@p lol, and also because i did not condemn 22 for putting out the fliers. Oh, and because my opinions usually grate on a lot of ppls i believe in " do to others as you would have done unto you", not everyones cup of tea im sure. :wary:

1 Oct 2007

Quote by welshcpl2004
because i sent out my staffy to "deal" with the "little herberts" no doubt someone will see the wrong in that as i violated the burgulars human rights or some such cr@p lol, and also because i did not condemn 22 for putting out the fliers. Oh, and because my opinions usually grate on a lot of ppls i believe in " do to others as you would have done unto you", not everyones cup of tea im sure. :wary:

well if someone was in my garden and it was dark...i'd send the dog first...its just a dog at the end of the day...and can easily be replaced...a husband/father wife/mother isn't so easy!

1 Oct 2007

Quote by hornyinslough
Who of us ever deals with things perfectly? In retrospect, we'd all like to change one thing or many things in how we've reacted to a situation, especially in cases where we have been pushed to our limit. Whether it's right or wrong, sometimes it's perfectly understandable that we hit out emotionally, physically, or in this case in writing.
My sister has been the subject of anti-social behaviour for 18 months now and although she has for a long time done things 'right' i.e. keeping a log, contacting the council, contacting the police; the bottom line is fuck all has been done and she continues to have little sleep, hearing swearing and shouting at all hours, drugs being taken, her kids being threatened, the dog getting into her garden killing chickens...and this is in a private quiet residential cul de sac :shock: Who can pass judgement if one day she flips? I won't.
I'm not condoning threatening or insulting people but at the same time I'm not going to condemn your hubby - people do the best they can with the resources they have, both your hubby and the twats who did this. They might not have an education, I don't mean academic but in social skills and empathy, to understand what they have done and it's impact on others, or to know better ways to 'entertain' themselves.
As welshcpl says, maybe people in the area need help in finding their voice and your hubby might want to try that method instead. How about asking neighbours to come to a meeting to discuss whats happened because no doubt there'll be others who have had the same things done could be helpful. Get the MP involved, complain about what's happened and the lack of action from the plods. Everyone is accountable for their behaviour - the twats who do this, the plods who do fuck all...and your hubby for dealing with it the way he has. Maybe the threats are the only language they understand...or maybe it perpetuates the cycle and moves you further away from resolution...
Waiting to be flamed ........

That would be ironic but on SH it's a very real possibility. If you are flamed, or anyone else for that matter, then the flamer is showing no better ability to respond to something than what is being discussed in this whole thread. All say 'aye' if you want SH to be a flame-free zone. AYE!
Aye!