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Honesty is the best policy!!

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We all have a moan and a groan when single guys have a couple's profile and rightly so, but I have noticed more and more single girl profiles lately, where the 'single' girl states that she only meets with her boyfriend/partner/husband.
THAT MAKES YOU A COUPLE!!!! banghead
Is this not false advertising?? A ploy to get more interest in her/their profile?? dunno
Why can't people just be honest?
single fems have get out of jail free cards
39 yr old single bi female seeks couples who want to watch her, I mean me, grope their missus while I, I mean my husband, has a wank.
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We all have a moan and a groan when single guys have a couple's profile and rightly so, but I have noticed more and more single girl profiles lately, where the 'single' girl states that she only meets with her boyfriend/partner/husband.
THAT MAKES YOU A COUPLE!!!! banghead
Is this not false advertising?? A ploy to get more interest in her/their profile?? dunno
Why can't people just be honest?

Any ads like this please report, if the hubby / bf/ any other is there then it is a couple meeting, it will be looked at and dealt with if needed.
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I meet alone or with friends lol

Well then it's not you that I am talking about in my rant then wink
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39 yr old single bi female seeks couples who want to watch her, I mean me, grope their missus while I, I mean my husband, has a wank.

lol
How about this one .... single girls profile .... nothing writen on it ....
Looking for Single bi male or Couple with bi male and nowt else
eh?? dunno
lol tempting very tempting lol
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39 yr old single bi female seeks couples who want to watch her, I mean me, grope their missus while I, I mean my husband, has a wank.

lol
How about this one .... single girls profile .... nothing writen on it ....
Looking for Single bi male or Couple with bi male and nowt else
eh?? dunno
Much as I can sort of see your point, why shouldn`t a single girl be looking for a single bi male or a couple with a bi male ? :dunno:
I'm not saying a single girl wouldnt meet a bi male. With them being bi they swing both ways right! But this particular single girl isnt looking for a straight male; just a single bi male or couple with bi male. She is obviously not just looking for guys then? :dunno: This says to me that she either has a partner who is bi (and so is actually part of a couple) or she likes to play with 2 or more bi guys who will also play with each other. As she has not written anything on her profile we will never know hey!!
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39 yr old single bi female seeks couples who want to watch her, I mean me, grope their missus while I, I mean my husband, has a wank.

lol
How about this one .... single girls profile .... nothing writen on it ....
Looking for Single bi male or Couple with bi male and nowt else
eh?? dunno
Much as I can sort of see your point, why shouldn`t a single girl be looking for a single bi male or a couple with a bi male ? :dunno:
I'm not saying a single girl wouldnt meet a bi male. With them being bi they swing both ways right! But this particular single girl isnt looking for a straight male; just a single bi male or couple with bi male. She is obviously not just looking for guys then? :dunno: This says to me that she either has a partner who is bi (and so is actually part of a couple) or she likes to play with 2 or more bi guys who will also play with each other. As she has not written anything on her profile we will never know hey!!
because Bi Men are better in bed... simples! gets coat of many colours and dashes for door
if they`re paying 2 be members... pretty much up 2 them how they want to word it... smile
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if they`re paying 2 be members... pretty much up 2 them how they want to word it... smile

That`s pretty much how I see it .....don`t understand why a single girl looking for a bi male should be in any way considered suspicious !
even if she was wearing a long raincoat and hanging around dark alleyways, thats one way she would look suspicious to me dude.. pretty damned sexy too i might add...
How people word their profile is nowt to do with any of us. If it's badly worded then they get no meets, which is their problem!
Going back to the actual thread, my whole point about the bi male thing is that there is a possibility that she is in fact meeting as part of a couple with a bi male. If so, she should have a couple's profile as should anyone who meets as a couple.
Though in principal I agree fun, how would a single female go about a profile if she predominantly meets as a single although on occasion teams up with A N Other to swing as a couple? Same goes for single guys too. Regardless of how or who should have profiles its always going to be open to interpretation and bulls*it.
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Though in principal I agree fun, how would a single female go about a profile if she predominantly meets as a single although on occasion teams up with A N Other to swing as a couple? Same goes for single guys too. Regardless of how or who should have profiles its always going to be open to interpretation and bulls*it.

In my opinion (not that that counts for much), a single girl or single guy who predominantly meets as a single should have a single profile and write on their profile that they also meet as part of a couple. However if they predominently meet as a couple then they should have a couple's profile and then write on their profile that they sometimes play alone.
There are soooo many single girls profiles that I have come across where they say that they wont meet alone/always meet with their partner.
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Though in principal I agree fun, how would a single female go about a profile if she predominantly meets as a single although on occasion teams up with A N Other to swing as a couple? Same goes for single guys too. Regardless of how or who should have profiles its always going to be open to interpretation and bulls*it.

In my opinion (not that that counts for much), a single girl or single guy who predominantly meets as a single should have a single profile and write on their profile that they also meet as part of a couple. However if they predominently meet as a couple then they should have a couple's profile and then write on their profile that they sometimes play alone.
There are soooo many single girls profiles that I have come across where they say that they wont meet alone/always meet with their partner.
no one reads profiles anyway..
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no one reads profiles anyway..

We always read them, its essential dunno If we are going to message someone we need to make sure its worth our time first.
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no one reads profiles anyway..

We always read them, its essential dunno If we are going to message someone we need to make sure its worth our time first.
its just you then
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no one reads profiles anyway..

We always read them, its essential dunno If we are going to message someone we need to make sure its worth our time first.
its just you then
I read profiles before I even look at pictures (but then I'm not a great fan of the obligatory cock and snatch pics). What people have to say about themselves means a lot to me and determines if I want to meet them.
i have found that single girls on here, meet a single guy and they dont change their profiles but say they only meet with their partner.
I guess if tehy are swinging partners only then maybe they dont want to be considered as a couple, but just play together?
as a single female my self im not sure i would want to give up my personal single identity just because i had met a fb.
i also have at times had on my profile or ads request to meet single bi males, why? because i have actually met 2 single bi males at the same time for a 3 sum, shocking i know but hey it really does happen lol.
also if i happen to meet a single male and it were to progress onto more i would want that male to be bi as thats my biggest thing to be with 2 bi men at the same time.
what really shoudl be outlawed is men who ask to meet gay females FFS they aint bi they are gay why would they want to meet a male??
x fem x
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what really shoudl be outlawed is men who ask to meet gay females FFS they aint bi they are gay why would they want to meet a male??
x fem x

Gay fems can be fun too.. just like str8 girls that like gay male shopping pals, maybe the guys want to go rock climbing ?
ok serious hat on.. i dont give a hoot what others do here.. its only when it has a direct efect on me n rose that it matters and to be honest apart from the occasional odd pm it rarely does,
staggy
But I suppose one has to consider whether or not the advertiser actually believes what or who they are in the first place. Thereby making any subsequent advertising subject to even more scrutiny.
But does anyone set out and return with all integrity intact? And still get fucked?
To be fair, we think there's alot of people on her that could do with a serious dose of honesty! Included in that would be the omissions from certain profiles aswell!
We have met and made some great friends on her and the ones we stay intouch with are always the ones that are simply totally honest and open and prepared to except honesty in return. (which far to many can't handle either)
For example we always used to reply to every msg received, even if it was a polite 'thank you very much for your msg but we feel that your not for us' then having received a reply of 'Why?' and then proceeding to argue the point we gave up. Just except the no thanks!
Single girls... We are coming to believe they are a myth on here! Lol. We have met several couples and would love to meet a single girl as it's something we have not tried yet. However every one we have spoken to never seems to work out. Maybe meeting face to face in a club will sort that out. But on here they either seem to be not playing alone atall, male, only want to talk/cam, or something else lol.
Then there's the couples that omit things like the fem is happy for another fem to go down on her but doesn't like to return the gesture. If that's your thing then cool. Just say so before a meet! (Mainly because Mr P is sick of hearing Mrs P moan about it on the way home!) lol
Then there's the 'couples' where the male wants a couple to help 'surprise' his Mrs. Puuuuulease! Get real!
Hmmmmm well that turned into abit of a rant lol.... Sorry redface
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i have found that single girls on here, meet a single guy and they dont change their profiles but say they only meet with their partner.
I guess if tehy are swinging partners only then maybe they dont want to be considered as a couple, but just play together?
as a single female my self im not sure i would want to give up my personal single identity just because i had met a fb.
i also have at times had on my profile or ads request to meet single bi males, why? because i have actually met 2 single bi males at the same time for a 3 sum, shocking i know but hey it really does happen lol.
also if i happen to meet a single male and it were to progress onto more i would want that male to be bi as thats my biggest thing to be with 2 bi men at the same time.
what really shoudl be outlawed is men who ask to meet gay females FFS they aint bi they are gay why would they want to meet a male??
x fem x

Honesty. Well a lot of people seem to be dishonest with themselves as well as others. 'Straight men who like to suck cock". Er, sorry ,guys, but if you like to suck cock, you're not straight." I am an inteligent, well-educated proffessional". Er, sorry, but if you spell 'intelligent with one 'l' and professional with two 'fs' then you are not well-educated!