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how can i get my wife to swing
Forum Virgin
Hi
Just wanted to ask how you reacted last time? I did a similar with a long time friend while hubby watching at a distance at his request I might add and whelandn I caught up with him I went through hell and back I felt like I had done the worst thing ever and it almost caused a split. He was drunk at the time and had put his reaction down to this. Since we have moved on and I am now in charge of our meeetins with a black guy who fucks me silly and has shown my hubby how to make me gush!! wow
Just wanted to ask how you reacted last time? I did a similar with a long time friend while hubby watching at a distance at his request I might add and whelandn I caught up with him I went through hell and back I felt like I had done the worst thing ever and it almost caused a split. He was drunk at the time and had put his reaction down to this. Since we have moved on and I am now in charge of our meeetins with a black guy who fucks me silly and has shown my hubby how to make me gush!! wow
Quote by Alexandra
I fail to see why she is a prude just because she doesn't want to swing?
Anyway - that is her choice - trying to coerce her into swinging would be totally wrong - it has to be a joint decision with both parties absultely comfortable with it or you are just asking for a lot of heartache.
That seems to be a common word used by alot of guys when their partners don't want to do what they want.....thats why i think guys like this will never get it,no matter what you tell them.
Orgasminator
The short answer is -
You CANT
You discuss the subject as adults, if she seems interested/inclined you can 'push/probe' a little further if she doesnt then your out of luck (either that or you go behind her back and risk the relationship)
You CANT
You discuss the subject as adults, if she seems interested/inclined you can 'push/probe' a little further if she doesnt then your out of luck (either that or you go behind her back and risk the relationship)
Quote by honeyb4fun
Hi
Just wanted to ask how you reacted last time? I did a similar with a long time friend while hubby watching at a distance at his request I might add and whelandn I caught up with him I went through hell and back I felt like I had done the worst thing ever and it almost caused a split. He was drunk at the time and had put his reaction down to this. Since we have moved on and I am now in charge of our meeetins with a black guy who fucks me silly and has shown my hubby how to make me gush!! wow
Wow... :shock: Did you take a breath there?
I guess this post shows that everyone involved needs to be sure that they understand what they are going in to... if there's any doubt mate, don't bother would be my advice. It's not the type of thing you should coerce somebody to do either... although they may feel they have to agree at the time due to pressure, it's afterwards that the problems can often start.
Good luck - whatever way it goes :thumbup:
Quote by da69ve
I fail to see why she is a prude just because she doesn't want to swing?
Anyway - that is her choice - trying to coerce her into swinging would be totally wrong - it has to be a joint decision with both parties absultely comfortable with it or you are just asking for a lot of heartache.
That seems to be a common word used by alot of guys when their partners don't want to do what they want.....thats why i think guys like this will never get it,no matter what you tell them.
Agree with both the above, NEVER try and persuade anybody to do anything, they either want to do it or they don't. We are sick and tired of seeing couples in swinging clubs where it is totally clear one of them (usually the fem) does not want to be there and either looks bored sick or scared to death (neither very pleasant to see)
Please, just think about how much you want your relationship...what is more important, your partner's happiness or you swinging?
Oh yes, and you are really helping by advertising on here as a single bloke looking for a fem to 'restore their faith in men' pmsl
:roll: :roll: 
Sex God
only one sure way....
build a gallows!!!!!!!! :twisted:
or u could use it to swing by yourself!!!!!!
build a gallows!!!!!!!! :twisted:
or u could use it to swing by yourself!!!!!!
I'm new to this but I agree, you can't lure someone into this and it could backfire big time.
My ex partner and I spent a good year debating entering the swinging scene, it even led to a few rows and it became clear that whilst we could swing alone together it just wasn't gonna work.
If your better half has swung a couple of times with a friend then I imagine she is quite clear it's not for her.
My ex partner and I spent a good year debating entering the swinging scene, it even led to a few rows and it became clear that whilst we could swing alone together it just wasn't gonna work.
If your better half has swung a couple of times with a friend then I imagine she is quite clear it's not for her.
Sex God
introduce her to all the fellas off here at one of the munches , tell her its a golf club do, when she sees the quality , let her know whats really going on, she wont be able to resist the urge............... 
im not being serious of course before someone says how terrible i am
staggy
im not being serious of course before someone says how terrible i am
staggy
Sex God
i did
Warming the Bed
if she won't agree, have you tried slappin' her arse cheeks rather hard?
Warming the Bed
if she won't fall into line....violate her arse.
