Help folks, my hubby doesnt know im involved, but im pretrified he will find out my computer activity. When i press google, swimmingheaven automatically comes up and i dont know how to completely delete my history.
unfortunatley im not very computer literate so in idiots terms PLEASE...
You can download Crap Cleaner free from This can be set to clear whatever you want to clear.
i understand what this lady is saying,
i would also like to know how to delete the history, not the cookies and stuff i know about that, but when i go to google or ask and type in a question, well once a few letters are typed it gives me a whole list of everything ive ever asked it. how do you get rid of that???
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thank you
my reason wasnt for any hiding from partner reasons, but can lead to some unwanted questions from my daughter who uses the pc at times lol
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For a site that it supposedly made up of friendly members. Its amazing how people can judge you without facts. Firstly i would like to point out that my hubby is totally against this scene and i have tried to get him to experiment but to no avail, secondly he is only in the country 6 months of the year and a girl can get lonely. Yes it would be so much easier to go out and have an affair, but why should i when there are likeminded people in the same circumstances as myself. I also have children who use the PC and that is another reason i requested 'help'.
To the many that replied offering advice i thank to those who did judge well think yourself lucky that you have a partner who is understanding and willing to do the scene, unfortunatley there are many of us who are not so lucky and we have to settle for going it alone.
jenny wren you do not have to explain your self to anyone here , take no notice it is no ones job to do the judging of anyone, surely thasts what the site should be about, let others know you are married and then they can decide to play or not, good luck to you i hope you find what you are looking for here.
staggy
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ps there is another member that i know of on this site that plays behind his wifes back that very nearly left here because of the pathetic outrage it caused here, when he admitted it, no one wanted to know the circumstances of his marriage and why he felt he should play away, i know the full story now and he has my blessing completly as ive been in exactly his position once a long long time ago, I had an affair and feel no remorse, he comes on here and should feel the same.
at least the few that own up have the bottle , what about the shitloads that dont come clean to other swingers now maybe thats a cause for more concern!
Jeez! Why are people so judgmental?
The lady only wanted some PC help.
We don't all have exactly the life-style we'd like. But we make the best.
I wish people weren't so critical of others.
Good luck to ya Jennywren. I hope you are happy in whatever you do.
this is why we stopped using this site, to many regular members who have a firm foothold think it's fine to take the piss out of other members and according to the aup againt the rules if I read them right. everyone has a right to do as they please, it is still,after all a free country
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As I said earlier .. having said what I said, I did say that I hoped you found what you were looking for.
Am I the only person to remember the tale of the lady who came on posting about her husband, meeting people off here behind her back and was tragically killed coming back from a meet! I was handled very well (IMO) by a mod but I've never forgotten the pain in her posts.
Had she gone to the papers it would all have been blown out of proportion, as is everything and swinging has a bad enough image without the association that we're all cheaters. It doesn't matter how you package it, at the end of the day, illness, absence, it's still cheating! It breaks up families and destroys lives.
If people can live with that ... justify it .. then who am I to question it? Just don't destpy anyone elses life in the process!
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I dont see anyone here taking the "piss" I do how ever see that we are on a forum where we are entitled to our opinion are we not?
all i see is a lot of people moralising about someone they dont know, so im guessing cheating when on here killed someone, like playing without a condom,
ok hands up everyone that has played without a condom on, remember we have seen the pictures so no cheating, the door is over there, >>>
now lets not be so moralistic , especially when we know none of the circumstances unless we are all prepared to make sure we or our friends have nothing to hide.
sorry bout the condom mention it was just to make a point i wouldnt dream of telling anyone on here how to go about what is in fact THEIR BUSINESS
STAGGY