How Do You Play?

18 Oct 2006

Chatting with the other half last night...................as you do.................we realised that we only know of three other couples who are like us, in that the female is the one who plays and the male is strictly a watcher.
Are there any more of us out there?
And how about couples who are the other way round, in that the male plays and the female just watches? I would imagine they are rarer, but maybe that's just jumping to conclusions.
Are there any of you who have partners not in the slightest bit interested in swinging, but who don't mind you playing?
No deep reason for wanting to know, just interested biggrin

18 Oct 2006

bloody infrequently!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

18 Oct 2006

I do play aswell as my partner but i do like to watch alot of the time, i do believe it is rare for the female to just watch but think its a big turn on watching him with another woman.

18 Oct 2006

Quote by Lissa
Are there any of you who have partners not in the slightest bit interested in swinging, but who don't mind you playing?
No deep reason for wanting to know, just interested

Yeh, that's me! Can't get Mrs R to join in except for a couple of appearances on camera in the chatrooms - and that got me into trouble with a moderator, he didn't think I should have "Single Male" in my profile and show Mrs R on camera. No-one else complained!
Adam xxx

19 Oct 2006

that baisically is the way we play. i prefer to watch dee have a great time, although i do also join in to give her maximum fun... i dont play with other women very often tho. i prefer to pleasure dee

19 Oct 2006

Thats exactly how we work- you are not alone!
wink

19 Oct 2006

Quote by Lissa
Are there any of you who have partners not in the slightest bit interested in swinging, but who don't mind you playing?

yep, that'll be us then

19 Oct 2006

When I used to swing wth a partner, it was mainly organising groups of guys for her. She was a very greedy girl and it used to be a great turn on watching her. I would always be the last to fuck her though as she said I was always that bit harder after having watched her with several fellas. I think she was right.
Lonni x

19 Oct 2006

We like to play together equally....my wife just wouldn't find it such a turn on if i just sat there and watched only.

21 Oct 2006

Quote by Lissa
Chatting with the other half last night...................as you do.................we realised that we only know of three other couples who are like us, in that the female is the one who plays and the male is strictly a watcher.
Are there any more of us out there?
And how about couples who are the other way round, in that the male plays and the female just watches? I would imagine they are rarer, but maybe that's just jumping to conclusions.
Are there any of you who have partners not in the slightest bit interested in swinging, but who don't mind you playing?
No deep reason for wanting to know, just interested

We're with you in principle as you know, but slightly different in practice. Biker likes to take the more passive rolle in threesomes or groups, with me being the centre of attention and all of our meets have revolved around us finding blokes for me to have fun with. He likewise has no real wish or desire to go with other chicks. He does get involved though when we play and I do like to feel his touch throught, it reminds me that it is a couple thing we are doing. I'd also like to turn the tables on him but thus far he's shown no interest. :cry: Anyway thanks for the thread. Hope you get a lot more responses. We'll watch with interest. Babe :D

21 Oct 2006

we met a few bi fems where i have joined in playfully orally but have been happy to sit and watch her play f2f and have my fun later with her,i find watching her play with a fem erotic as ever ,mind you we have aranged to mmet cpls for that only but when met up others have wanted more than we origanlly agreed so end up spoiling it,thats why we rather agree whats gona happen before the meet.

21 Oct 2006

i love to watch my partner pam with people but she get turned on by watching me and a loves her porn she saye it like watching porn but it live

21 Oct 2006

We are similar to PamChris in so much as we both play but she loves to see me with another woman, as much as she loves to be with a woman. She gets extremely horny in that scenario. I don't understand why she gets so horny watching me and share with another female but I certainly appreciate how lucky I am.
I have mentioned this on another forum but it was considered unbelieveable that she would get horny sharing me, ONLY if she is there with me otherwise I would be deadmeat.

6 Nov 2006

Quote by da69ve
We like to play together equally....my wife just wouldn't find it such a turn on if i just sat there and watched only.

we like to play together as well nowt better then 4 people mixing together on a nice big double bed but nowt wrong if one needs a break and let the other 3 play till they ready to rejoin wink

6 Nov 2006

Quote by tyneside4fun
We like to play together equally....my wife just wouldn't find it such a turn on if i just sat there and watched only.

we like to play together as well nowt better then 4 people mixing together on a nice big double bed but nowt wrong if one needs a break and let the other 3 play till they ready to rejoin wink

tyne how do you do that last time were at your house u had bunk beds and every one ended up argueing who was on top ffs lol

7 Nov 2006

Quote by Lissa
Chatting with the other half last night...................as you do.................we realised that we only know of three other couples who are like us, in that the female is the one who plays and the male is strictly a watcher.
Are there any more of us out there?

We are certainly just that. Although It seems remarkably difficult to achieve! It still bemuses me that single guys think because they 1) - can see a girl, 2) - they are a guy, therefore it's a cast iron certainty that they are going to get a shag? :shock:
It gets infuriating and quite often we will disappear for a while, as we have actually got other things to do with our lives. Anyway, thats another thread.