Agree with the majority here. It's best to keep your private life private. Judgemental gossips love to do just that and before you know it you can feel an outcast.
Jade got a bit too worse for drink one night in the local and told this girl she fancied her. She continued to tell her about her sexuality for quite a while. Some prat overheard and spread the news so that next time we went in she was the butt end of a load of abuse and piss taking.
So I guess you have to choose when and who you speak to very carefully.
Jethro x x x
I suppose I`m lucky in the respect that a large percentage of my real life close friends are already members here (which is one of the reasons I joined, because I prefer to surround myself with tolorant friends). The others are either friends I could trust with it, or ones who wouldn`t dislike me for it, but would express dire concerns! I have neither the desire or energy to educate the latter! As for family/co-workers/neighbours, I can`t chose them, so that`s an entirely different can of worms! One I choose to avoid!
Venusxxx
I agree what some of the other people have said. Don’t think its a good idea to advertise the fact your a swinger really because even if you friend is ok with it you cant control what they will tell other people that you do not want them to. Although they may not mean to cause you grief they may inadvertently do so. Some people can be really analy retentive and just love gossiping, causing trouble and taking the moral high ground. If people find out so what but I wouldn’t tell people about it.
lol . it scares me every time i see it :cry: i`ll even send you a pic of my arse to use if you promise to at least consider changing it ,please. i beg you . Now back to the thread ,,,sorry
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