Hi we are just Starting out and have had messages from people that seem quite far away, but when asked for photos have be given them but when trying to set something up have been told too far away!
So just wondering how far people travel for the right people ?
We are a very sensual couple love our home very house proud we like nice things and like being sexy, so candles nice satin bedding etc. Don't know about how other people do things but was thinking of a evening of nice nibbles wine conversation in nice surroundings followed by well you know ;-) and can accommodate although only spare bed is our daughter who obviously would be out, my wife loves to dress up so we would plan a good night !
But would love to hear other peoples thoughts
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How far do people travel
Sex God
Generally uo to / about 200 to 300 miles or so!
I have been known to have SH meets 7000 miles away, :giggle: but those meets were well planned in advance, and it helps if people can find the right bar or beach!!
:lol:
I have been known to have SH meets 7000 miles away, :giggle: but those meets were well planned in advance, and it helps if people can find the right bar or beach!!
:lol: 
Mod
If the girl is willing to give up her valuable time to meet me then I will travel any distance.
if its someone you never meet before.....think for me, maximum of an hour away. Thing is pictures can look good, and banter in chat or via can all seem good, but its not until you see the whites of their eyes that you really know if you are going to get on.
Also if someone has travelled say 2/3 hours to get there, and the arrangement is they stay over, then there is some pressure to play...come what may.
If you have met and chatted with them at a social or party or a club before and got on, then don't think distance is such a problem.
Also if someone has travelled say 2/3 hours to get there, and the arrangement is they stay over, then there is some pressure to play...come what may.
If you have met and chatted with them at a social or party or a club before and got on, then don't think distance is such a problem.
Orgasminator
Quote by woohoo
If the girl is willing to give up her valuable time to meet me then I will travel any distance.
so get ya ickle bum to wales
grrr bloomin foreigners hehehe
Sex God
Personally about 10 miles, bloody kids
Sex God
We generally travel about 30 miles or so. It all depends what childcare arrangements we have made. If they've been dumped my mum overnight then we will travel quite a bit further for people we know. If we've got a sitter then we don't like to go too far just in case.
We regularly travel 70 (ish) miles to the Midlands for socials or parties (if they are people we know) but wouldn't travel that far for a stranger (for the same reasons Dean said). We have also found that when accommodating, people travelling a long way are more likely to cancel.
Oh and satin sheets are all very nice to look at but get 4 people shagging on them and it all turns out a bit slippy n slidey!! (especially if you add stockings to the mix too)
We regularly travel 70 (ish) miles to the Midlands for socials or parties (if they are people we know) but wouldn't travel that far for a stranger (for the same reasons Dean said). We have also found that when accommodating, people travelling a long way are more likely to cancel.
Oh and satin sheets are all very nice to look at but get 4 people shagging on them and it all turns out a bit slippy n slidey!! (especially if you add stockings to the mix too)
Sex God
I've travelled from Liverpool to Newcastle, Leeds, Birmingham, Manchester, Preston, London and lots of points in between!
but that's because there was no scene where I lived Because we live at the end of a 50 mile cul-de-sac it seems we must travel at least 50 miles just to get our journey started.
And so for us the question of how far we'll travel is an extended one.
But, the answer seems to be about 250 miles or so - which covers and awful lot of the UK mainland.
However for a spur of the moment meet the max is probably about 90 mins from here - which still incorporates lots of Manchester, Liverpool, Chesire & most of North Wales.
For us to travel any greater distance we would almost certainly be meeting someone we already know - Or travelling to somewhere we want to be anyway (that way even if the meet is a bust we still get to see/do something we want to).
Maybe we have been spoilt because a good proportion of our meets have travelled to meet us here - some from very considerable distances indeed - and we are very grateful to those who have made the effort - play or not we think they can all say they had a good and worthwhile visit to one of the UK's most astonishingly beautiful areas.
We have travelled over 2,000 miles to meet someone from the site - but that was just a happy circumstance tbh.
So - how far would we really travel
- it depends is probably the truthful answer.
If someone takes our interest
If somone amuses us
If someone intrigues us
If you capture both our ears and eyes
If you engage your brain and engage ours
If we can't wait to chat to you again
Well then, we'll probably get our arses up off the settee and pop around to your place regardless of exactly where you are.
But, if you're a feckless timewasting arsehole who enjoys stringing others along we'll probably get our arses up off the settee just long enough to load the shotgun.
And so for us the question of how far we'll travel is an extended one.
But, the answer seems to be about 250 miles or so - which covers and awful lot of the UK mainland.
However for a spur of the moment meet the max is probably about 90 mins from here - which still incorporates lots of Manchester, Liverpool, Chesire & most of North Wales.
For us to travel any greater distance we would almost certainly be meeting someone we already know - Or travelling to somewhere we want to be anyway (that way even if the meet is a bust we still get to see/do something we want to).
Maybe we have been spoilt because a good proportion of our meets have travelled to meet us here - some from very considerable distances indeed - and we are very grateful to those who have made the effort - play or not we think they can all say they had a good and worthwhile visit to one of the UK's most astonishingly beautiful areas.
We have travelled over 2,000 miles to meet someone from the site - but that was just a happy circumstance tbh.
So - how far would we really travel
- it depends is probably the truthful answer.
If someone takes our interest
If somone amuses us
If someone intrigues us
If you capture both our ears and eyes
If you engage your brain and engage ours
If we can't wait to chat to you again
Well then, we'll probably get our arses up off the settee and pop around to your place regardless of exactly where you are.
But, if you're a feckless timewasting arsehole who enjoys stringing others along we'll probably get our arses up off the settee just long enough to load the shotgun.
Sex God
how longs a piece of string ?
depending on the couple.. location..expected type of play.. type of bacon sarnies etc etc
depending on the couple.. location..expected type of play.. type of bacon sarnies etc etc
Sex God
I haven't travelled more than a couple of hours drive for a meet, but I might if I felt I'd gotten to know someone well enough in chat or had met them before. I think there's also the opportunity to tie a meet in with a weekend break or a holiday. I always make sure anyone who meets me knows that they shouldn't feel under any pressure to play. Every genuine person on the site knows that there are timewasters and picture collectors around. Usually they can be identified by the many questions they ask in mail or chat. Site mods can offer some good advice and guidelines. Have fun. xx
