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Orgasminator
Quote by VenusnMars
If I had to be honest, I`d say ours was pretty low, we are just too busy at night, and Mars works hard. If it wasn`t for that I suspect it`d be higher. That does not reflect our interest in how we approach our sex life however :twisted:
Quality, not quantity!
Both would be nice!
Venusxxx
Glad me and Calista arentthe only ones in that boat at the moment Venus XX
Sex God
Quote by chaz237
your libido/sex drive ? mine is through the roof constantly , is this normal ? its not as if i am a young man ither ( i am 45 ) but also by no means am i past it (yet) what are your thoughts please
Through the roof, what does that mean? I guess it means a lot higher than what you believe to be average, but how does anyone know what average is?
At 40, I'm not aware that my libido is any different from when I was twenty, except that at 20 you make love all night because you can't stop yourself, whereas at 40 you make love all night because that's how long it takes!
Ice
Orgasminator
Quote by Ice Pie
At 40, I'm not aware that my libido is any different from when I was twenty, except that at 20 you make love all night because you can't stop yourself, whereas at 40 you make love all night because that's how long it takes!
Ice
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Sex God
Quote by morbiusUK
If I had to be honest, I`d say ours was pretty low, we are just too busy at night, and Mars works hard. If it wasn`t for that I suspect it`d be higher. That does not reflect our interest in how we approach our sex life however :twisted:
Quality, not quantity!
Both would be nice!
Venusxxx
Glad me and Calista arentthe only ones in that boat at the moment Venus XX
Room for a couple more in that boat?
Sex God
How high is high? I would say I have a high sex drive but a lot of sex I can just take or leave, so maybe I'm horny but not desperate. Depends on what's on offer too. :twisted:
Sex God
Quote by chaz237
when i said through the roof , i assume from talking to friends and people i work with that mine seems to be higher , not a boast but a genuine question
Didn't think you were boasting, just wasn't sure what through the roof meant. As to your original question, is it normal, I'm assuming it is, unless it's so high that it creates a problem in that lack of sex would actually cause you suffering. I've heard of sex addiction, where people literally cannot function without it. Sounds pretty scarey to me, but if you just happen to like it a lot and do it as often as possible but with no ill effects from abstention, then yes, I think you're normal.
Ice
Quote by Ice Pie
when i said through the roof , i assume from talking to friends and people i work with that mine seems to be higher , not a boast but a genuine question
Didn't think you were boasting, just wasn't sure what through the roof meant. As to your original question, is it normal, I'm assuming it is, unless it's so high that it creates a problem in that lack of sex would actually cause you suffering. I've heard of sex addiction, where people literally cannot function without it. Sounds pretty scarey to me, but if you just happen to like it a lot and do it as often as possible but with no ill effects from abstention, then yes, I think you're normal.
Ice thanks ice no its not a problem just say that i am a little concerned glad you saw what i was trying ( not very well put ) to ask
Sex God
I guess in a general sense, a lot of people (including myself) would like to have more (and more varied :twisted: ) sex than they currently have, but not at the expense of other things that are important also, such as their jobs, kids, or sleep. I guess that the difference between having a normal high sex drive and having a sex addiction.
Quote by bluexxxgood points blue
I guess in a general sense, a lot of people (including myself) would like to have more (and more varied :twisted: ) sex than they currently have, but not at the expense of other things that are important also, such as their jobs, kids, or sleep. I guess that the difference between having a normal high sex drive and having a sex addiction.
but would'nt it be nice not to have all the " real world constrants " at times
Sex God
Quote by bluexxx
I guess in a general sense, a lot of people (including myself) would like to have more (and more varied :twisted: ) sex than they currently have, but not at the expense of other things that are important also, such as their jobs, kids, or sleep. I guess that the difference between having a normal high sex drive and having a sex addiction.
that is very true.... i suppose it comes down to a matter of prospective and what is "normal" (i hate that word.. very subjective!
) and as with life i suppose sex drive goes up and down a lot......sean xxxxxx
Sex God
I saw this thread thinking it was going to be that old old joke:
How high is a chinaman.
Mike.
How high is a chinaman.
Mike.
Sex God
Quote by MikeNorth
I saw this thread thinking it was going to be that old old joke:
How high is a chinaman.
Mike.
Which reminds me...
The inquest into Morecambe Bay cockle pickers disaster have discovered the miscommunication which led to tragedy.
They were told to come back when the water reached knee-high, but Nee Hi was still in the van.
Have 2 kids and a job and, to be totally honest, nothing gets in the way of us having sex at least once, most days. I think it just happens like that, sometimes. I know when I first had my kids, no-one and nothing would have had a chance. But that was another guy. Another life.
You get good times, you get lean ones. Same as with money.
You get good times, you get lean ones. Same as with money.
Sex God
Quote by chaz237
when i said through the roof , i assume from talking to friends and people i work with that mine seems to be higher , not a boast but a genuine question
I think what you know about yourself and what other people tell you about themselves are two entirely different things.
I think it's all down to hormones.....?
Sex God
Quote by chaz237
your libido/sex drive ? mine is through the roof constantly , is this normal ? its not as if i am a young man ither ( i am 45 ) but also by no means am i past it (yet) what are your thoughts please
Well, I didn't have to give this much though. My (Silky) sex drive is outrageously high. It has nothing to do with my embarking on my mid 30's, but more to do with the fact I have never been happier, in a relationship and in life. I could sit and study Big G endlessly and although I want to say something poetic about how happy he makes me and I love the fact that we share so much and connect in so many ways, my body screams out in hungry lust. He has become the object of most of my sexual visions when I am on my own, whereas before, my carnal musings always involved faceless men and women.
I love every kind of sexual encounter with G, whether it's a cuddle before we fall asleep to being incredibly dirty and playing to a crowd anytime, anyplace........anywhere.
Silky xxxx
Quote by clarensteve
Even though weve got two young children we try and make love,mad passionate sex,or a damn good fuck,at least once a day,quite often twice!!!
Clare and Steve,xxx
In theory we'd love to be like this .... unfortunately our kids are nosey little blighters and the minute we're out of sight they come looking like a friggin Land Sea search party!!!!! No room untouched
We can sometimes manage an extended lie in at the weekend but it takes precision planning ..... and evening's after their bedtimes is just beginning to come back into play as until recently the youngest had a sleep disorder!!!!
After september this will all change ... hehehehe .... both are in full time education, Morbius Uni times are in the evening and I work in the morning .... afternoons are all ours .... and we intend to use them fully :twisted:
There are some great walks and parks near us ;)
Our problem is that we don`t have our own room. The house is too small, so we sleep in the dining area of the living room. We do show each other alot of affection however, so we are never lacking in shows of appreciation, and that at the end of the day is so much more important to us. I don`t doubt we`d be at it like rabbits if the situation was different :twisted:
Venusxxx
Venusxxx
Quote by VenusnMars
Our problem is that we don`t have our own room. The house is too small, so we sleep in the dining area of the living room. We do show each other alot of affection however, so we are never lacking in shows of appreciation, and that at the end of the day is so much more important to us. I don`t doubt we`d be at it like rabbits if the situation was different :twisted:
Venusxxx
Before we moved here, for two long years we had a 2 bed house, a boy & a girl and a futon in the living room. Therefore, we sympathise!!
