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How long did it take for a first successful meet?

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Warming the Bed
We haven't been looking very long, and we're not in any great hurry, but we've had a couple of false starts and we were curious to know how long it took for other couples and singles to get things started. So, we are asking -
Firstly, how long did it take for you to meet your first contact face-to-face, and
Secondly, how long did it take before you got any shagging going? confused: wink
Br & Jn xxx
Orgasminator
still waiting... sad
although to be honest I'm lazy so it's my own fault! anyone fancy coming to me? :twisted:
Sex God
Firstly, about 2 weeks.
Secondly, about 2 hours.
HTH
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Sex God
Took about 2-3 weeks to arrange the meet, we met in a layby so pretty much got things together after an hour with each other.
Then others came in to the truck to join us ;)
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Sex God
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i'm now leaving things to the female to organise !

rolleyes Typical. :P
Sex God
The first ever person I spoke to on an Internet sex site (many years ago and not this site) I arranged to meet. We met two days later in Burger King. Yes, i know, I had no taste in those days. We left the chips, and went to my place. Within an hour we had shagged. The rest, they say, is history confused
First meet was within a few weeks of joining the site. First shag and first FFM within a couple of hours!! lol
Haven't looked back since.
Mal
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Warming the Bed
2 weeks
and
1 bottle of wine lol
Quote by brjn2
We haven't been looking very long, and we're not in any great hurry, but we've had a couple of false starts and we were curious to know how long it took for other couples and singles to get things started. So, we are asking -
Firstly, how long did it take for you to meet your first contact face-to-face, and
Secondly, how long did it take before you got any shagging going? confused: wink
Br & Jn xxx

well it's a bit of a "how long is a piece of string" question. depends what you're looking for, but if you're lucky, and bump into the right person, right time, whether through ads, chatroom, or here, it could happen in a matter of days. it's not unknown for that to happen. ;) then of course opportunities might come up any time, but the timing or the vibe is all wrong, and you pass them by, and wait a while longer. social meets began for me with munches a coupla months after i joined, but it was after the 2nd munch that i felt confident enough to take up the opportunities. i always was kinda slow though! rolleyes smilel
that doesn't reallly help does it, but then vague is my strong point i think! lol
n x x x :P
My first meet was within a month of joining the site. That was through the ads section.
We met purley social and I ended up turning round half way back home :twisted:
Second meet through the ads was a couple of weeks later and we've been seeing each most weekends sinde then (double :twisted: :twisted: )
Three months to meet peeps off the forum.
Rsxx :color:
Joined the site over 13 months ago - still waiting for first meet, either through ads or through forum.
About three weeks in we met for a drink. The week after that we took things further.
Just to add something here. I know personally two separate people who struck lucky with their very first post. One on dogging and one on Lets' Meet Up - jammy bastards!! lol
Mal
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Sex God
How long.. wow thats a question and a half.
Ok Dawn and I had discussed entering the world of swinging for around six months, and when we went on our summer holiday in 2003, we decided to go for it.
Dawn found Swingingheaven and placed an advert as soon as we came back from our holiday (middle august 03) and we had our first successful meet one month later.
We had a couple of "social" meets and others we would prefer to forget before then.
I'll always remember the day of our first swap, cos I was made redundant on the same day. - Well things got better real quick lol
Ian
Quote by mal609
Just to add something here. I know personally two separate people who struck lucky with their very first post.

well I hate to say it but on the day of my first post (on a munch thread - and the day I joined) I recieved four PMs and had three shags planned within a week. One of those guys is still on the scene so he must have done something right.
Think it was those bloody baubles...... rolleyes
Its taken me ages to remember thie answer to this question, mainly cos my first one was from another site But from here, it was abt 3 weeks after advertisning, but you have to remember the site was a lot quieter way back then!!
Sexpert

Hi there.
wave :wave: :wave:
I've not been on here long. I've talked to a few people in the chat room, And put some comments on threads( Some of which I've looked at later and thought I shouldn't have said that). :doh: I'd like to get to know people first, make friends :therethere: and then go from there-if nothing happens then fine. I've put an ad on the site-just to see if I get lucky and click with someone that gets in touch. hump
Theres no rush.
Hopefully going to the next Essex Munch.
:wave: :wave: :wave:
Warming the Bed
still trying........ in desperation......... hopeful but optimistic desperation........ God I'm gaggin for a shag......... I'm desperate you hear DESPERATE !!!!
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still trying........ in desperation......... hopeful but optimistic desperation........ God I'm gaggin for a shag......... I'm desperate you hear DESPERATE !!!!

Hi Jack, interesting approach - well, I'm sure you can't be as unsuccessful as me. I get told I'm a gentleman, maybe that's what's wrong, so here goes: I'm also gagging for a shag!
Well with had no luck through the ad's yet........but thank god for Munches!
By far the best way to meet people!
Warming the Bed
Quote by Hi Jack, interesting approach - well, I'm sure you can't be as unsuccessful as me. I get told I'm a gentleman, maybe that's what's wrong, so here goes: I'm also gagging for a shag!

see what I mean..........the only one to answer is a bloke.......just my luck pmsl
Orgasminator
Couples? Still waiting. Single guys? Within a few days.
Warming the Bed
One munch, several replies to ads - still waiting! I guess patience as they say is a virtue cool
Orgasminator
It took us about 3 weeks to meet our first guy but about 5 mins before we had sex with him :happy: it was an awesome experience :lickface: , but keep trying it does happen when you,re ready :bounce:
Orgasminator
around 3 weeks from joining to 1st meet
must be doing something right as well as the lady has had me back another 3 times since smile
I must be the slut of the forum. I placed a *come fuck me now* ad.
And he did :grin:
Then I joined the forum and it's been down-hill ever since lol
:evil2:
First couple: Fairly recently, nice soft introduction it was too :twisted:
Ohhh... Good question.
My first internet meet (which scarily was around seven years ago) took about 18 months, but in my defense I was using a US based talker so it required intercontinental travel (Oh her part! I'm not thatdesperate. Actually I am, I'm just not thatrich...).
Same timescale for first shag obviously. It would have been embarrassing in the extreme if after a 5,000 mile journey we'd find we didn't really fancy each other...
For meet/shag on here, I think it took about 7 weeks: 3 weeks getting little joy via ads, and then 4 much more productive weeks on the Forum.
I've only dared stick my head into the chatroom a couple of times on here, but it seems a little fast-paced and a tough place to break the ice if you don't already know people ahead of time. Hats off to any bloke who got a shag from a standing start in there.
Cheers
Thom
8 months and it was through meeting people at munches; nothing to do with ads
1 after 3 days on ads. and the rest... will tell you after the 26th in Manchester :twisted:
:shock: :shock: you are very very naughty lol