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How long did it take for a first successful meet?

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well we have been post for ages and have been really unlucky
not had one decent reply ever
maybe we are a bit picky but hey arent we aloud to be still im sureone day itll happen
i'm not very constant and I had a false start, so.....still waiting for my first time!
but...had a few contacts..so let's see what happens!
stay tuned... wink
Quote by brjn2
We haven't been looking very long, and we're not in any great hurry, but we've had a couple of false starts and we were curious to know how long it took for other couples and singles to get things started. So, we are asking -
Firstly, how long did it take for you to meet your first contact face-to-face, and
Secondly, how long did it take before you got any shagging going? confused: wink
Br & Jn xxx

Couple of weeks to meet for a drink.
Half an hour after the drink.
Quote by mal609
First meet was within a few weeks of joining the site. First shag and first FFM within a couple of hours!! lol
Haven't looked back since.
Mal
wink

The words "lucky you bastard" seem appropiate at this time
Paul
about 4 weeks after joining this site
met a great couple from carlisle had a great time
met again about a month later
sadly they moved to devon
had no luck since but going to lancaster on tuesday
if all goes well
lol :lol:
Still in the long, long, long queue of single males waiting :cry:
Had some responses of ads though, so all is not bad wink
Quote by brjn2
We haven't been looking very long, and we're not in any great hurry, but we've had a couple of false starts and we were curious to know how long it took for other couples and singles to get things started. So, we are asking -
Firstly, how long did it take for you to meet your first contact face-to-face, and
Secondly, how long did it take before you got any shagging going? confused: wink
Br & Jn xxx

you get to meet people of here ??? how is this done??? do tell
only kidding.
i meet the first person off here shortly after we started chatting ( about 2 weeks). but after that. i only really meet people at munhes and the occasional party.
Jiggle
Quote by jiggle

i meet the first person off here shortly after we started chatting ( about 2 weeks). but after that. i only really meet people at munhes and the occasional party.
Jiggle

jiggles u tart...u know every lady of here...how can u say such a thing
Quote by kinkyluton

i meet the first person off here shortly after we started chatting ( about 2 weeks). but after that. i only really meet people at munhes and the occasional party.
Jiggle

jiggles u tart...u know every lady of here...how can u say such a thing
oohh.. thats slander.... i just hope the ladies don't sue ya for saying thay know me!!! lol
iv been told i'm a tart.. so its about time i started acting like one!!! lol
Jiggle
Quote by jiggle

i meet the first person off here shortly after we started chatting ( about 2 weeks). but after that. i only really meet people at munhes and the occasional party.
Jiggle

jiggles u tart...u know every lady of here...how can u say such a thing
oohh.. thats slander.... i just hope the ladies don't sue ya for saying thay know me!!! lol
iv been told i'm a tart.. so its about time i started acting like one!!! lol
Jiggle
lol lol thats the spirit mate. wink god help em
Meet and shag was 2 weeks....although that average has fallen a long way after that lucky start!
On average a few weeks to get to know each other and then arrange a meeting. The shortest time to start having sex was within 10 minutes.
Posted an ad on This site, found a suitable match within days. met up a few weeks later and the rest is history lol
Joined 10th Feb....
Arranged a meet at a local swingers social for the 17th Feb...
He brought his brother along for moral support as he was shy
....glad he did.....Jax is still grinning and just getting back the ability to walk after a wicked game of brotherly tag passionkiss :thumbup:
So if you ask..."does the site work?"....the answer is a resounding YES!!!! :swingingchair:
Jax recons it was BOGOF night sillyhwoar:
Well, we can now answer our own question !!!!! biggrin
From first looking, it has taken us 5 weeks and 5 days to have our first face-to-face meeting, and the three of us went back to our place after half an hour in the pub.
The guy we actually met up with contacted us on Wednesday, and we met up on Saturday (yesterday). We had great fun, and we're looking forward to seeing him again soon !
:happy:
well my first incounter i had to travel to Norwich met a lady in her 50`s
she was not shy at comming forward redface still in contact 5 years on
We met our first contact about 2 weeks after joining, but it wasnt "succesful" in all areas - it was brilliant from my bi point of view, but her partner was very uptight and not at all interested. Then a month later we had our 2nd meet, again, the male was totally into it but only wanted full swap, and his wife was not interested in anything at all!! we met with them twice but it was pants. We had a little break then 4 months later we went to a party organised by someone on here and we actually swung with that couple on the party night. we've met with them several times since and each time is better than the one before.
joined ages ago i guess 8 to an yr
no meet yet
no shags
well thats the fun for being single male
lol
Quote by Redbird
Couples? Still waiting. Single guys? Within a few days.

Same as evil Although I've had a coulple of great meets with guys but I really want to meet up with another bi female soon biggrin
I have been in scene on and of for 3 years.
I have only recently i have had my first meet and it was bloody brilliant
I am a single guy and let me give advice - just be yourself.
Mike
Quote by MikeC
I have been in scene on and of for 3 years.
I have only recently i have had my first meet and it was bloody brilliant
I am a single guy and let me give advice - just be yourself.
Mike

ferkin right an all :P
Having read the posts so far. isn't easier just to go to a clu? We have met people off the net a couple of times. One was successfull the other wasn't. We decided it was much simpler just going to clubs.
Quote by brjn2
We haven't been looking very long, and we're not in any great hurry, but we've had a couple of false starts and we were curious to know how long it took for other couples and singles to get things started. So, we are asking -
Firstly, how long did it take for you to meet your first contact face-to-face, and
Secondly, how long did it take before you got any shagging going? confused: wink
Br & Jn xxx

When i first Joined swinging heaven, I met my first contact (couple) within 6 hours of placing my AD!
Placed my original AD just before midday and we were shagging in an open field somewhere in Barnsley by 5pm.
We are still waiting, but it has only been a few weeks... but still hoping to hear from people... anyone interested???
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