Just wondering on this one, how many guys who use SH are actually looking for a partner? ie someone to settle down with? Girls too for that matter?
S & S
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Master of Sex
Well ok then Gemini fancy joining us for a 3 some lol
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Sex God
Quote by Geminifemale
Tabboo subject................your not here to settle down, its a swinging isnt it?
My first post was to ask if anyone finds love here and i was slagged off for suggesting such a thing.
Is it a vanilla subject?
Can't think why you should've been slagged off about it. Even if it is a vanilla subject, that doesn't rule it out and what's more it's relevant to people here.
The question is perfectly valid.
I think the answer is, more than care to admit it and I think there are quite a few as well.
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Sex God
Quote by cummon
Well ok then Gemini fancy joining us for a 3 some lol
Hello cummon :wave
You will try anything for a 3some wont you
:giggle: :giggle:
Master of Sex
Hi Sarah, It's Sue honest she's dying for another woman 
Quote by westerross
Tabboo subject................your not here to settle down, its a swinging isnt it?
My first post was to ask if anyone finds love here and i was slagged off for suggesting such a thing.
Is it a vanilla subject?
Can't think why you should've been slagged off about it. Even if it is a vanilla subject, that doesn't rule it out and what's more it's relevant to people here.
The question is perfectly valid.
I think the answer is, more than care to admit it and I think there are quite a few as well.
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I do hope so, and i do notice that there are a hell of a lot of couples in here and swinging works well for them and i would like to find the same for me.
Sex God
Quote by cummon
Hi Sarah, It's Sue honest she's dying for another woman
Well get to the next SH Rio's visit, and her to meet us all, we are well behaved!!
Master of Sex
U well behaved 
ok is one coming up?
ok is one coming up?
Quote by Geminifemale
Tabboo subject................your not here to settle down, its a swinging isnt it?
My first post was to ask if anyone finds love here and i was slagged off for suggesting such a thing.
Is it a vanilla subject?
Can't think why you should've been slagged off about it. Even if it is a vanilla subject, that doesn't rule it out and what's more it's relevant to people here.
The question is perfectly valid.
I think the answer is, more than care to admit it and I think there are quite a few as well.
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I do hope so, and i do notice that there are a hell of a lot of couples in here and swinging works well for them and i would like to find the same for me.
I can't see why it is a subject either. I joined as a single looking for no strings. Met a single fem off here.......then another meet.......then another and I haven't stopped visiting. The only difference is that we got engaged last year and looking at getting wed either end of this year or next year.
Was I looking for it? No. Did it find me? Yep....Like a pair of size nines in the knackers
Dave_Notts
I came here to swing, never have got into that, but when I wasnt looking to meet someone, he came into my life and although we are still getting to know each other, we both know we are made for each other. Like any relationship its darn hard work but the up side is the sex is very very open and we both talk about what we want. I am so glad I came to this site and so I know are others who have found each other from here. Never say never :lol: :lol: :lol:
:lol: :lol: :lol: Sex God
Quote by cummon
U well behaved
ok is one coming up?
Missy is arranging something for 31st March, if she remembers, or I'll do it!!
Sex God
Quote by cummon
Just wondering on this one, how many guys who use SH are actually looking for a partner? ie someone to settle down with? Girls too for that matter?
S & S
i am , a swinging partner that is . and if you go to my sig and press the "DONT CLICK HERE" bit you will see the post on it
iv not hidden that im after a partner
I am here for swinging but I know that if get into a relationship it will only be with a swinger, anything else wouldn't be fair because my lifestyle won't ever revert back to vanilla!
I'm not advertising that I'm open to more, and neither am I actively looking, but I wouldn't say no if the right person came along.
I'm not advertising that I'm open to more, and neither am I actively looking, but I wouldn't say no if the right person came along.
Sex God
Quote by Geminifemale
Tabboo subject................your not here to settle down, its a swinging isnt it?
My first post was to ask if anyone finds love here and i was slagged off for suggesting such a thing.
Is it a vanilla subject?
Can't think why you should've been slagged off about it. Even if it is a vanilla subject, that doesn't rule it out and what's more it's relevant to people here.
The question is perfectly valid.
I think the answer is, more than care to admit it and I think there are quite a few as well.
.
I do hope so, and i do notice that there are a hell of a lot of couples in here and swinging works well for them and i would like to find the same for me.
Good - I hope it works out as you wish. Just got to be careful as you have with anything on the internet, if the stakes are that high.
Quote by Corrie2007
I came here to swing, never have got into that, but when I wasnt looking to meet someone, he came into my life and although we are still getting to know each other, we both know we are made for each other. Like any relationship its darn hard work but the up side is the sex is very very open and we both talk about what we want. I am so glad I came to this site and so I know are others who have found each other from here. Never say never
Heartwarming..
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I've had two relationships since joining this site (unfortunately well-documented on this ere forum) and I would NEVER do it again.
I;m single, I'm here to have sexual fun and that's it.
I've seen profiles and chatted to blokes who would like to find a long-term partner but i wouldn't consider playing with them because i think they may have ulterior motives. I don't want to be tied down to anyone and I don't want to fuck someone who is living in hope that it might go further.
I;m single, I'm here to have sexual fun and that's it.
I've seen profiles and chatted to blokes who would like to find a long-term partner but i wouldn't consider playing with them because i think they may have ulterior motives. I don't want to be tied down to anyone and I don't want to fuck someone who is living in hope that it might go further.
Sex God
I joined this site last year as a swinging single but somehow (definitely more accident than design) I have met someone from this site and he and I are happily now in a relationship.
It wasn't planned but it just happened - and he would say the same. I wasn't looking, but I'm glad I found him...
Noladreams30 xx
It wasn't planned but it just happened - and he would say the same. I wasn't looking, but I'm glad I found him...
Noladreams30 xx
i joined here specifically because i was NOT looking for a relationship. This still stands now if something happens it happens but that would be in any social occasion and not just here. I will say i was not expecting such a fantastic social nature in here wether it be in forums or chat, and really like being here.
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hehe I had to giggle when i looked at this thread, across the page it read:
How many guys? Cummon Varca
Twas one o' them days methinks Anais
:lol:Just for a second though when I read your post, I thought you were asking me how many guys I'd had
Note to self: Must take more notice of what a thread is about and read comments properly :giggle:
Hehe Im cheeky but not that cheeky :lol: :lol: But while Im here
:lol2: :lol2: :lol2: I joined this site lookiNg for men, women or couples with a bi male to have casual sex with - without the hassle of having to dress up and go to a nightclub. And, yes, I can just go to a club and bring someone home, but I have gone off that game completely, because it isn't honest enough for me - and one night stands started from a basis of meet in a club, snog then shag, always end in awkwardness at the very least - sometimes they refuse to end at all, which isn't good as someone usually gets hurt even if that was never the intention.
Most of the time I am not interested in casual sex, but occasionally I am. I am certainly not looking for a 1 on 1 relationship - and most of the time I am not looking for anything at all other than fun banter with likeish minded people.
But if I was looking for a 1-2-1 relationship, I probably would look elsewhere.
Most of the time I am not interested in casual sex, but occasionally I am. I am certainly not looking for a 1 on 1 relationship - and most of the time I am not looking for anything at all other than fun banter with likeish minded people.
But if I was looking for a 1-2-1 relationship, I probably would look elsewhere.
Weeelll, I'd be rather pleased to find someone of an open disposition, it's not the sort of subject you can raise at the pub.
But it wasn't the reason I came here, and it's only in the last month that I've been to a club and, well, wow, that was fun! However it doesn't get me closer to a one to one, have to start munching for that I guess.
But it wasn't the reason I came here, and it's only in the last month that I've been to a club and, well, wow, that was fun! However it doesn't get me closer to a one to one, have to start munching for that I guess.
