how open is the world of swinging to new comers?

2 Oct 2005

Quote by fabio grooverider
if you just take a look at the ad sections...
number of ads of men seeking couples: 5590
number of ads of couples seeking men: 1340
off the top of my head 5 times as many....
number of ads of men seeking women: 7805
number of ads of women seeking men: 124
you do the maths!!!!

He's right you know, it does look like it's tough being a single male swinger. Every now and then we get thread from a disillusioned guy so be prepared. This is more than just a one stop shag shop, it requires effort to part of the SH community; post a few threads, make yourself known and be likeable and who knows....

2 Oct 2005

Oh come on mate you haven't even had your swingers initiation ceremony yet. apply to one of the mods rolleyes

2 Oct 2005

Quote by fabio grooverider
number of ads of couples seeking men: 1340
number of ads of women seeking men: 124

Now I took these as pretty good odds - that makes nearly 1500 people looking for me. I can afford to be pretty choosy and still fill up every weekend for the next 10 years. :bounce: :bounce:
Roger the Dragon :twisted: :twisted:

3 Oct 2005

Trouble is though, when you factor in the fact that most of these people don't live anywhere near you, and then factor in that we're a bi-couple, means there's about 3 people on here! But hey, at the moment we care more about getting ourselves known in the community, and making some friends. Hugely fun swinging sex can come later.

3 Oct 2005

To the majority of the population any 'adult' activities are seen as dark and dangerous or something to snigger about. So in that sense you won't be able to go about with an 'open' attitude to the world, if you adopt the lifestyle.

3 Oct 2005

Isn't it funny...
Roccoh came here asking for all the information he could get and where is he?
Only the one post! rolleyes