that happened to a cpl we once knew but his wife new it was going on and sat back and was laughing it did put him off the scen for a cpl of years ,now my wife wouldnt do that as she knows it would mortify me, if playing in a club next to some one that happened it i would of done the same mr powers but after it happeneed think we would of moved off as it would of blown the moment so to speak i would not have felt comfy and thin k we would of retired to the lounge if it had 1, saying that we now lots of gay bi men and feel ok around them and been to socials and so on, but they aint ever been pushy or owt like that ,full marks to the way you handled it .