I need you all to be cruel to be kind!

2 Nov 2004

Hiya everyone,
On the helpful advice of Missy I have decided to ask you all to be cruel to be kind to me for the next few months or so. Don't worry folks this isn't an I'm leaving thread, it's a please keep me in check thread. biggrin

I thought Iâ€™d let you know that I am going to be online a little less right now as I am spending far too much time posting uttersh*tte and I have a uni course to pass.
Iâ€™ll be popping in from time to time in the evenings probably so itâ€™s deffo not a good bye, just a wonâ€™t be around so much online as I am going to block the site during the day. lol

Hopefully this will enable me to get my work done and to separate the stuff I have to get done from the fun bits, esp with you lot here at SH towers. :D
I am in my final year at uni and am extremely stressed right now. I have worked very hard for the last 3 and a bit years and although I am worn down and tired I need to finish this course.
That's where you lovely people come in. ;)
It would be much appreciated if I am in here between during the daytime and really late at night that you ignore me completely or please delete anything I say.
I should only be popping in here between the hours of 5pm and 11pm.
See me in here any other time please ignore me!

Thanks a million kiss

2 Nov 2004

Quote by little gem
should only be popping in here between the hours of 5pm and 11pm.

.....Checks time..........
Phew it's ok!
Hiya Gem!
(I know the feeling about SH taking over your life ......... rolleyes

)
Good luck in your studies!

2 Nov 2004

so it's

if we catch you in here when you should be at the books...........not a problem I 'm sure I can have them ready when I see you next wink

..
now I just have to catch you :twisted:

2 Nov 2004

I'm going to sound like my parents (OMG I've reached that stage) but stick at your studies :jagsatwork:

2 Nov 2004

Case of priorities then...?
Study and get the qualifications you need, and keep off the forum until you NEED to post...
Or suffer a shite job, crap pay and dull, dull work till you retire....
The rest is upto you and that is the end?
keep studying is my advise, cos you seldom get a second chance to do it...?
LOL
MWMFL rolleyes

2 Nov 2004

Will do and good luck with uni I bet you feel like you'll never finish I know the feeling I'm back in education after uni and I probably won't ever get out of it I'm doing teacher training.
Molly xx

2 Nov 2004

i am sure we can all do that for you gem....
i remember in my final year of uni i didn't got out at all after the xmas holidays......
i am sure you will do brilliantly we all have faith in you....... smile

:) :)
Sean xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

2 Nov 2004

Thanks!

You have no idea how much you have all got me through the last few months... distracted me a little too, but all part of the fun here! biggrin

I realised after a couple of very important and life changing conversations that I need to sort certain things out. My studies have always come first but when you have been in education without a break from being aged 4 I'm not surprised it has started to take it's toll.
This is my 5th year in uni education as I did an art foundation diploma at uni before starting on my four year degree. I was pushed hard to achieve at high school and again in 6th form college. I havn't had a brain break for a long while and although love you lots as I do, I really do need to keep on with this studying lark. Then I can at least get myself a career I've always wanted and enough money to fund the lifestyle I'd dearly like, not rolling rich, but comfortable. :D
If only I had known about those wonderful do all SH goldfish back then ey.... rolleyes

Oooo, I'm actually quite excited now at the thought of Countess catching me! :lol: which doesn't help much. evil

Instead.... Can I have the smackbottom

if I'm really really good and stay away during the daytime? ;) :twisted:
Anyway, thanks loads. ho-hum, back to uttersh*tte for the evenings! :D

2 Nov 2004

now i am getting paranoid!
announce to the world you're swinging one day, watch 'em block the site the next! dunno

hhhhhhmmmm!
gem just remember i'll be checking all the usual online , not just here you know. just you let me catch you on there you're in bother my girl! be worse than a smackbottom

i can tell you!
((( that was me trying that dom thing i heard so much about! good weren't it? :smug: )))
n x x x ;)

2 Nov 2004

Only blocking in the day and late at night so I can get some proper rest and get some work done! lol

Still very much swinging ;)

2 Nov 2004

No no no!!!!!
We have to do this carefully rotflmao

We can't go giving

cos that just encourages her to stay even longer and try and get more rolleyes

Naughty Gem :smackbottom:
Soooooooooo when ....... no IF we see her between the hours of 9 and 5 on a weekday, we gotta ignore her confused

:? :?

:(
First this :jagsatwork:
kiss

2 Nov 2004

Gem - you are already a university can tell you what you already know about what really matters in life:
Lettuces.
Daffodils.
Swinging Heaven Forum.
Shredded Wheat.
kiss

2 Nov 2004

Missy, you are an absolute star! biggrin

Thanks. x
Flirty, you are simply shredded wheat! I shall never look at it the same again! lol

2 Nov 2004

Though she denies it now it was DeniseBabe who introduced - nay - SEDUCED - the SH forum with the SW even did a thread on it.
Things got so bad that as a kind of aversion therapy she's organising the Essex MUNCH - and can't you guess what she's munching all the time? - THREE at a time so I'm hot milk on.
See Gem - no university letcherer,sorry,lecturer will ever tell you about things like that.

2 Nov 2004

letcherer! lol

I can't stand shreded wheet tbh. think they were put on earth to punish people un necessarily! :lol:

2 Nov 2004

Well Little Gem - they never done me no worng.
A Shredded Wheat never stole my gal or let me down.
Terrible tightwads when its their round though..

2 Nov 2004

I will not be convinced of the merits of Shreaded Wheet! lol

I only have a few mins left in here before people start ingoring me and I am wasting it on shreaded wheat?
Pah!
:lol:

3 Nov 2004

little gem : a suggestion!
Edit your signature in your profile, so any post you make has a "ignore me if I posted during the day" kind of a bit on the bottom. Hopefully people will read and act appropriately. You can edit it back once you've done your exams and are spending 24hrs a day here!

3 Nov 2004

Anyone else find it funny that the OP is restricting themselves to ONLY 6 hours a day? biggrin

I mean, that's only just under half your waking day! :D lol
Shredded wheat's great, i really want some now. Gotta have loads of sugar on them though.

3 Nov 2004

Gem - time with "the Wheat" is never wasted time.
Gae is happily having a post AM "munch" all of her own as I write.
Soon,the day will dawn.
The first day of Little Gems self imposed Forum rationing.
Gem,your letcherers await you.
But slumped on the back row in the lecture theatre you doodle on a notepad as the lecture drones on and on and on and on.
And a voice,despairing,plaintive in your mind repeats the same words as a relentless chant - "THE FORUM - THE FORUM*!"
(*as in the style of "THE BELLS - THE BELLS")

3 Nov 2004

Quote by breezer
little gem : a suggestion!
Edit your signature in your profile, so any post you make has a "ignore me if I posted during the day" kind of a bit on the bottom.

Good idea Breezer!!
But not before 5 o'clock this evening tho!!! :jagsatwork:
lol

3 Nov 2004

Quote by little gem
It would be much appreciated if I am in here between during the daytime and really late at night that you ignore me completely or please delete anything I say.
Ishould only be popping in here between the hours of 5pm and 11pm.
See me in here any other time please ignore me!
Thanks a million

Perhaps this would be an appropriate juncture at which to reiterate the carefully worded advice I gave to Clare_Lincs when last I saw her.

:rotflmao:
(But it's all done in the best possible taste! ;) )

3 Nov 2004

I f i find you in here before 5 o,clock you,ll be in for it !!! :jagsatwork: smackbottom

:thumbup:

3 Nov 2004

Well, I made it through my first daytime ban, :bounce: all be it with cravings! lol

Thanks for the support and the fantastic suggestion from breezer!
I have no idea what you are on about Ice, as per ususal! :lol: bit thick me yer know! :lol:
I look forward to my lashings once I have passed! biggrin

:twisted:

3 Nov 2004

Quote by Flirty Fruitcake
Gae is happily having a post AM "munch" all of her own as I write.

lol

It's the he, not the she. :)
I was up until waiting to see which particular toilet the planet's going to be flushed down, and they've STILL not finished counting, 10 hours later. Different estimates on different sites too, the buggers.
G

3 Nov 2004

Sorry - often get my G's and R 's mixed up! redface

And re the USA:As bad a night as I expected,yes.

3 Nov 2004

little gem wrote:

Well, I made it through my first daytime ban, all be it with cravings!

Good start Gem, good luck with sticking to the plan! smile

Mike.

3 Nov 2004

Mange tak Mike!
I am trying................. very trying some might say.......... lol

3 Nov 2004

Did you get any studying done with your letcherers today Little Gem?
On the NUDIST BEACH IN KOS thread hornyred and dino,and butters999999 and I have been debating about Kos lettuce and Brussels Sprouts and cucumbers - As you'd expect on a thread about a nudist beach.

3 Nov 2004

did the little gem lettuce come up by any chance there flirty?
Did you hijack it with talk of Shread wheat and US elections???
smackbottom