I should say first that I've been on the site less since it was taken over in the 2000s, and I'm not active anymore in the real world scene/parties anymore, but have friends in it and still do kink clubbing and bisexual+ scene events. I'm intelligent, independent, honest; can laugh at myself and generally a pretty chilled and happy person.

I've had many fun times with my special fwb partner, especially with the (fair few of) mmf threesomes which can be awesome when the chemistry's right. We both played individually too, with my few male-only couple/group sex sessions over the years at saunas/clubs and house parties/hookups all being memorable. Allegedly a sexy hunk and a hot lay, but don't let that put you off...

With the right person I've done the odd bit of light sub/dom/tying up/a little spanking (but no canes/whips); I visit fetish clubs regularly (and happy to answer Q's for anyone curious). I enjoy dressing up shiny in pvc and mesh/net/stockings/some lingerie or thigh boots even (comfortable in my gender and playing with expression through outfits a bit), and also very long hair (my photo is quite out of date but I have also grown mine). Also love to play outside, if somewhere quiet enough without too much risk of being discovered - just enough to increase the excitement and enjoy the fresh air on my skin.