If people cant be bothered to reply to messages........

23 Jan 2005

If people cant be bothered to reply to messages........
What are they doing here on this site?
And should different rules apply to men / women & couples?
As far as I am concerned, if people are ill mannered enough to not reply in response to a message they have initiated, they have no business complaining about their lack of responses, they pretty well deserve it.
No, this is not a case of sour grapes or someone not getting my mail, they PM'd me to email them with a pic. It would surely follow that when they recieve it, they let me know one way or the other as to what the decision is.
Having a vagina or two does not make them more worthy members of the community or allow them to lord it over others.

23 Jan 2005

Maybe they just didn't want to upset you by saying 'no thanks' after they had initiated the exchange?

23 Jan 2005

'having a vagina or... two' wow!!! honey don't know what sort of women you've been associating with, but they sound like fun to me :twisted:

23 Jan 2005

Quote by lorrilove
'having a vagina or... two' wow!!! honey don't know what sort of women you've been associating with, but they sound like fun to me :twisted:

I've never met any either :confused:
Did the lace wrap fall off lorrilove ??

23 Jan 2005

Quote by BaldEagle
Did the lace wrap fall off lorrilove ??

Well if it did she's learnt her lesson and is making sure her nipples don't fall off.

:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Sorry for the hijack. redface

23 Jan 2005

No one replyed to me too :cry:

23 Jan 2005

Quote by BaldEagle
'having a vagina or... two' wow!!! honey don't know what sort of women you've been associating with, but they sound like fun to me :twisted:

I've never met any either :confused:
Did the lace wrap fall off lorrilove ??
he ripped it off with his teeth honey.

23 Jan 2005

Mark & Helen do a great job of running this site, a few of the users on the other hand could do with improving their behaviour.
Frecklebird, leaving a person hanging on for a reply is worse than upsetting me by saying I am not your type.
Judy, If someone behaves like this, I dont want to know them, I dont care if you consider it aggressive or not.
The story is short & sweet. Post on board - they PM me asking me to email them - I do so (civil clean message) - no response to a timed event - I end up wasting 3 hrs waiting for email that never arrives, a common enough occurence.
I am not looking for a sympathy fuck, I have been around for a while & I limit myself to playing with people who treat each other with respect. If me being direct causes some others to avoid me, so be it.
I am floating the possibility that we might need to have some sort of feedback mechanism onsite.
There seems to be the idea that because there are more single men around, they can be treated like dirt. That is not to say that there are not any single men around who are jerks, they deserve to be tarred with the same brush too.
Lorri / BaldEagle, you have to look closely at that phrase to discern the insult.

23 Jan 2005

Quote by northwest-cpl

Did the lace wrap fall off lorrilove ??

Well if it did she's learnt her lesson and is making sure her nipples don't fall off.

:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Sorry for the hijack. redface

and he's not f*cking biting them off.

23 Jan 2005

Quote by lorrilove

Did the lace wrap fall off lorrilove ??

Well if it did she's learnt her lesson and is making sure her nipples don't fall off.

:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Sorry for the hijack. redface

and he's not f*cking biting them off.
That's why I don't eat Jelly Tots any more wink

And flamehot - :idea: - chill out a little, eh ??

23 Jan 2005

Quote by flamehot
Mark & Helen do a great job of running this site, a few of the users on the other hand could do with improving their behaviour.
Frecklebird, leaving a person hanging on for a reply is worse than upsetting me by saying I am not your type.
Judy, If someone behaves like this, I dont want to know them, I dont care if you consider it aggressive or not.
The story is short & sweet. Post on board - they PM me asking me to email them - I do so (civil clean message) - no response to a timed event - I end up wasting 3 hrs waiting for email that never arrives, a common enough occurence.
I am not looking for a sympathy fuck, I have been around for a while & I limit myself to playing with people who treat each other with respect.
I am floating the possibility that we might need to have some sort of feedback mechanism onsite.
There seems to be the idea that because there are more single men around, they can be treated like dirt. That is not to say that there are not any single men around who are jerks, they deserve to be tarred with the same brush too.
Lorri / BaldEagle, you have to look closely at that phrase to discern the insult.

i don't have to look too closely honey, you're telling me that just because i've got a c*nt between my legs i treat all men like shit... if it was meant as a slight on the people you're aiming the post at directly and not women in general, you should have kept it attached to the paragraph above... i chose to reply in a light hearted tone cos i'm in a good mood lol

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these things happen dear, chancers not replying to mail, people winding people up... don't let it get to you, just chill and try somewhere else.

23 Jan 2005

Quote by lorrilove
and he's not f*cking biting them off.

Who said anything about biting ?? sucking maybe, biting no lol

Flamehot : You obviously have a been a regular user of this site and I guess you have logged on with another username to post your message.
As a single male, who is knocking on in years and is only marginally better looking than the back end of a bus, I expect a large number of no replies or limited replies. Afterall, people may think it is better not to reply than send a reply that indicates " not until hell freezes over" or similer. A "no reply" offends less than a "fuck off".
I may be wrong, but thats how I look at it.
< Off to bed before I get flamed to death>

23 Jan 2005

Can someone just phone me up to tell me what this is about, cos I`m too sodded to be able to read it.
Venusxxx

23 Jan 2005

I havenâ€™t sent any PMs to any one and therefore not received any; (there are more woman in the world then men) iver I canâ€™t be bothered or I would just be to disappointed in the lack of replies. sad

So at the moment I am quite happy posting on the bulletin board, and receiving messages with in a social group.
biggrin

23 Jan 2005

Quote by VenusnMars
Can someone just phone me up to tell me what this is about, cos I`m too sodded to be able to read it.
Venusxxx

i'd offer to help venus, but i'm too pissed to dial the number love lol

23 Jan 2005

Quote by james02
I havenâ€™t sent any PMs to any one and therefore not received any; (there are more woman in the world then men) iver I canâ€™t be bothered or I would just be to disappointed in the lack of replies.
So at the moment I am quite happy posting on the bulletin board, and receiving messages with in a social group.

but how do you know nobody would reply until you try it james honey lol

you're like my hubby, he refuses to send unsolicited pm's, and no one writes to him either :lol: mind you his prob is a gentlemanly thing, he feels it impolite to intrude rolleyes

23 Jan 2005

Lorrilove â€“ all you have to do is press the MP Button

23 Jan 2005

Quote by james02
Lorrilove â€“ all you have to do is press the MP Button

mp button? you pissed up as well james honey lol

23 Jan 2005

PS - msnm

23 Jan 2005

Yaawwn!
i think I might PM James ... you seem sweet.
No apologies for the hijack. I simply don't care. Shit happens - either sort it out with the person/people involved or move on.

23 Jan 2005

Now i know you 2 like playing with nobs and thingys,
But i cant post any of mine on the bord

23 Jan 2005

' mind you his prob is a gentlemanly thing, he feels it impolite to intrude'
I too feel it's impolite to 'intrude' but when you see a nice ass in front of you it's hard to resist!! wink

23 Jan 2005

Quote by roy4356
' mind you his prob is a gentlemanly thing, he feels it impolite to intrude'
I too feel it's impolite to 'intrude' but when you see a nice ass in front of you it's hard to resist!!

mmm... i like a bit of anal intrusion :twisted:

23 Jan 2005

Quote by james02
Now i know you 2 like playing with nobs and thingys,
But i cant post any of mine on the bord

i also like playing with knobs :twisted:

23 Jan 2005

and i think we've hi-jacked poor flamehot's thread enough now i'm orf to bed nite all.

23 Jan 2005

Flamehots threads â€“ male screws into f-male
If you want more information on threads
I have a directory of hydraulic pipe threads

23 Jan 2005

Quote by BaldEagle

and he's not f*cking biting them off.

Who said anything about biting ?? sucking maybe, biting no lol

Flamehot : You obviously have a been a regular user of this site and I guess you have logged on with another username to post your message.
As a single male, who is knocking on in years and is only marginally better looking than the back end of a bus, I expect a large number of no replies or limited replies. Afterall, people may think it is better not to reply than send a reply that indicates " not until hell freezes over" or similer. A "no reply" offends less than a "fuck off".
I may be wrong, but thats how I look at it.
< Off to bed before I get flamed to death>
you and me both Baldeagle, but what the hell, we are old enough and in my case definatly ugly enough to know that thats how life is smile

Flamehot look m8, there could be any number of reasons why you didnt get a mail back, pergaps the amount of mails was too high, maybe something happened to their system eg crashed, last night on IRC I had 2 ask me for my profile in PM and i3 in channel, I dont expect them to come knocking on my door just because they want the info on me. Dont go living up to your handle and flaming people,

Quote by FlameHot
Having a vagina or two does not make them more worthy members of the community or allow them to lord it over others.

and ffs NEVER flame ALL women by using so open ended a term as because they have a vagina or 2, thats dammed nasty and shows a total lack of respect to all the ladies here

23 Jan 2005

Quote by JudyTV

There are literally dozens who reply to my ad and believe me I would streak down market street and through the Arndale before replying to some of them

/Venus runs off to write Judy a scary AD response..... :rascal: :rascal: :rascal: :twisted:
Venusxxx

23 Jan 2005

I was gonna add my 2 cents worth.
But then thought nah....I can't bother to reply rolleyes

23 Jan 2005

Quote by flamehot
The story is short & sweet. Post on board - they PM me asking me to email them - I do so (civil clean message) - no response to a timed event - I end up wasting 3 hrs waiting for email that never arrives, a common enough occurence.

"They" are probably a single guy who gets off on jerking people around like this. Betcha he's got his tackle in his hand right now and is having a good old wank while reading your post. Believe me, there's nothing people like that love more than to see they've really got under your skin, so don't give them the satisfaction.
People like that aren't just found on swingers sites either. I had some wankers on the phone last week; complete strangers but clearly trying to wind me up. In the end, I just put the phone on the table and left them chattering to nobody for however long it took them to hang up. After all, it's their phone bill.
In general, I think it's a good idea not to put yourself out too much for complete strangers. Next time someone wants you to wait around for 3 hours for an email or a phone call or whatever, don't. If someone really wants to meet or talk to you, they'll arrange something for a mutually convenient time.