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Quote by Jags
Carpy... I shall say this only once.. I AM NOT SWEET!!! OK...
Tasty? yes. Intelligent? yes. Articulate? yes. Witty? yes. Sweet?? NO!!
OK.. changed my mind - wine is on you.
lol :lol:

No Jags, the wine will be IN me !!
Besides, what makes you think I meant you with my comments ! wink :twisted: 8) :lol: :wink:
Ooooooh, I'm in trouble now.....
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It is VERY OBVIOUS that those who are supportive of the work here have posted replies and those who are the cause of the upheaval, alienation and disruption are nowhere in sight!

Some people may not want to get involved in it all & may be taking a back seat until it all blows over... confused:
Anyway as I previously posted in Sarges thread I will not repeat it all here although I will say I keep reading that word 'newbies' over & over ...makes me a bit paranoid...(aint hard). Also some saying about the quality of threads ie; repeats etc or silly one liners..well a lot of those are mine so I think maybe I should stop posting & just answer ones that interest me...
I have never slagged a MOD off in any way...I think they are cracking & esp in the chatroom when I nearly had a nervous breakdown just trying to change my nick... :?
Sometimes people can be harsh/critical/over zealous etc but whether they are a mod or not makes no difference to me....I will still say what I think to them..isn't that the freedom of speech & if said in the right manner should not cause offence..
I think some of this has been taken far too seriously & has already gone a bit too far with two posts dedicated to basically the same thing..we all respect the people who do a good job & fully realise without them there would be no SH so can you all get back to whatever it was you were doing in the first place :!:
As for me....I aint a swinger or even in a relationship so maybe this is not the place for just posting silly threads & enjoying the occasional PM's...
I need to think.... as after doing a 10hr shift in the job I do this is not the time or place to make a decision like that !!
Jaine
Hi Moist
After 10 hours at the mill then I do hope you're partaking of the drink of your choice, and it's going down well. No ice to spoil it??
My comment in italics was aimed, not at you, for particular people and for a particular reason. I am content that the comment hit the bullseye. For the first time in many a long week a great many people can now relax.
Now, I think, we are all on the road to 'easy over'.
x xx
Well I know that you mods do a wundaful job.
On the many occassions that I've reported a dodgy add it's been removed very quickly.
I saw one today (a womand seeking to auction her body) I saw it arrive, read it, and before I could report it, it had been deleted.
Furthermore I've had very helpful advice from the Mods as well as quiet PM's warning me to be careful when I've responded to a thread that was dubious.
If I was a mod I'd be harsher, for starters all the idiots that post in the wrong section would be instantly banned, along with those whose vocabulary is limited to F**K, C**T etc.
You all have my admiration for your tireless work.
And yes, I'm one of the unfortunate men on here that has failed to arrange a single meeting througfh this site, and yes the site is better by far than the other site I use (which has yielded 3 meetings). THIS IN ITSELF is enough of a reason for me to want you to carry on Fred, after all........Without strong moderation this site will degenerate. Good riddence to all those that come on here pretending to be swingers in the hope of getting cheap sex.... go back to your prostitutes.
This is a quality site where people can make friends and build relationships.
I'm sorry Fred (and all the other MODS) for all those idiots that have made life so difficult recently.
On this note I am going to lock this thread. I think all that has to be said HAS been said. IF anyone has something to add then please PM a Mod who will unlock it happily.
On a very positive note I want to thank those who took the time and trouble to post here. Personally, I have been attacked for two days now, in forum and in PM, and have refrained from defence or counter-attack (yes, even in PMs) for long enough. Tonight I acted.
We haveone new recruit who put herself forward as a new Mod and the voting continues - a landslide could be anticipated. No-one else offered, no-one else had to. I could have nominated 2 others...maybe next time! Meanwhile a book could be opened on the identity of the new Mod.... betcha won't guess. PM me with your notions.
I have watched this topic grow and grow over the days and had many an email and PM talking about the good on this site.
I have also seen responses from some which I would say were typical of the people - not just the indifferent ones but the people who felt strongly on the issue.
I have unlocked the thread because I wanted to post one last time in this thread. Please note I am not saying I am posting one last time!
I am not going to comment on all the words of encouragement. When I made the original posting I was not saying I was leaving I was saying that if you don't like the job I do I will hang up my boots. I was also saying that I wanted no part of modding because at this time because of all the bitching that was going on - and it seemed to continue for certain people - so be it.
What it did show me though was that people did not realise the work that goes into modding such a busy site and I have to say i have felt guilty not doing my bit with the other busy mods for a week. I take my hat off to those who stepped forwards and offered to help - either in a PM to me or to Mark. It showed that there are others willing to put their shoulders to the wheel when needed. However I was not surprised at those that did offer.
There were some things that saddened me in some of the postings and maybe that will heal in time. There were also some words of encouragement from people who do not even know me.
One comment I got was - "So what was it like then" and this set me off on a quest to trawl the old pages to find some of the better threads that kept me amused. I shared those threads with that particular young lady who then pm'ed me to say she had spent 90 minutes wetting herself reading them. (Thats a new chair I owe you hun!)
I then thought that maybe some of the newer members should see what was posted in those threads to see the complete madness that we all got involved in and without anyone taking real offence.
However I also found threads that were really serious - which did get heavy at times and nearly come to blows but never quite did.
So here you go - for all the newer members who perhaps did not understand what I meant about the madness of old - have a gander at some of the threads below.
I am going to relock this thread as there is nothing more to say - but when I reread some of these old threads I admit I was laughing a lot as well - especially at poor old Will - I love the man dearly but you just have to laugh at the stupid scraps we always got into!
Will - I owe you a beer for restoring my laugh!
To the young lady who sent me on the crusade to prove to her that things were better - you will get a big wet girlie kiss on the bottom when I meet you for the first time - you deserve it. Thank you!
To all my friends out there - a big thanks for all the messages of support - it meant a lot.
And which silly bugger started that thread that seems to have gone on forever about the piss taking of Avatars? - Oh it was Wilma! - nice thread hun - restores the faith a little! xx
Hugs for those that want them - a fart in the general direction of those that don't!
Fred
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The kick that started the fight in the first place
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/4338.html
The poll Wilma started to get me sexually mutilated
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/4436.html
Another poll from someone trying to help me, but made it worse
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/4440.html
Diary of a condemned man (I have far too much time on my hands!)
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/4491.html
One of many fights for the attention of the delightful Sappho
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/4487.html
Serious swinging debate that got heated
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/5460.html
How to place an ad and not get 2000 emails!
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/4614.html
Jerry Swinger Web Page when it was first posted
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/5230.html
Our Web Page when we updated it
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/5319.html
I'm sneaking in before you close the topic...
How you've made me laugh, Fred..these topics are class!!! Glad you aren't leaving, this place wouldn't be the same kiss
Bloody Hell!
Didn't realise I had actually unlocked it! redface
Fuckity Fuck (copyright Jags 2003/2004) - can't seen to even get that right now!
It is definitely locked now - unless I am going stupid!
Night!
Fred