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I'm new to this having only recently discovered this site but want to be involved. I've been in a relationship for a long time which has just finished. I've been reading the forum and the ads etc, and thought I'd post something but am unsure how to proceed.
Can anyone give me any pointers. I do want to be part of it all, it seems like a lot of fun.
Any advice welcome for a newcomer!!
Hi and :welcome:
Take it easy, read the posts and join in when you feel ready.
You will have fun but it's addictive you know
:silly:
hiya rowlock.....advice..erm..
:welcome: :welcome: :welcome: :welcome:
well i think you should just stick around, post lots, join in with threads and just get to know the peeps on here first.
oh yeah..and having a sense of humour goes down well in here.
wild rose wave
I seem to have become addicted to reading already, and I do have a sense of humour, just a bit nervous at the moment, it gives me a feeling of excitement inside!!
Thanks for your advice.
Don't know whether to answer an ad or post my own, I suppose being new to it it might be better to answer one to which I fit the bill, but posting one means I can ask for what I want!!
I'll keep on reading and posting of the forum until I have thought a bit more.
Appreciate your help smile
Go for it Rowlock although you might find that other things in your life get neglected just minor things like eating and sleeping lol
lol :lol: :lol:
Hope you have fun and enjoy the site
hiya rowlock
:welcome: to SH!
best advice i can give is just join in with the lunacy on here so everyone can get a good look at you! ;)
have fun biggrin
neil x x x ;)
Quote by Rowlock
I'm new to this having only recently discovered this site but want to be involved. I've been in a relationship for a long time which has just finished. I've been reading the forum and the ads etc, and thought I'd post something but am unsure how to proceed.
Can anyone give me any pointers. I do want to be part of it all, it seems like a lot of fun.
Any advice welcome for a newcomer!!

Welcome Rowlock wave
Going by your first post, I'd say you've got it pretty well figured out already. Be part of it, have fun - I think that's exactly the right attitude, and i think the right attitude is all you need biggrin
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I seem to have become addicted to reading already, and I do have a sense of humour, just a bit nervous at the moment, it gives me a feeling of excitement inside!!
Thanks for your advice.
Don't know whether to answer an ad or post my own, I suppose being new to it it might be better to answer one to which I fit the bill, but posting one means I can ask for what I want!!
I'll keep on reading and posting of the forum until I have thought a bit more.
Appreciate your help smile
Welcome, yes, thinking before doing is a good start. Be yourself, work out what you are looking for, be yourself some more, then with luck and a following wind, things will happen naturally.
lhk
Kat
Welcome Rowlock!
Hanging about the forum and getting to know people here, then going to a munch is a good way to meet people. Much better than posting an ad (if you're male). Read some of the advice under the information panel on the left hand side! Then join in and get to know us and let us get to know you!
Regards
LC biggrin
Hi Rowlock, and welcome from me too.
You've already been given good advice - it sums up to be join in and post so everyone gets to know you biggrin
SA
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Hello wave
ccr xxx
hiya rowlock,all the good advice has been given
be mad,be sad,be happy and be bad kiss
Hi Rowlock & :welcome: to SH smile
Lucy/Ken x
wave Rowlock and :welcome: to SH, there are lots of threads in the cafe history for newbies to read, spare sometime and go and look at those there is a lot of good information in there.
Sit back and enjoy the ride biggrin