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i'm useless with women's sizes - can anyone help me..?

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I met this girl online and she's really sweet. I know looks aren't everything (before you bombard me with those comments!) but I'm wandering what a girl who is 5' 3", size 12 and with 34dd chest would look like? I think it sounds a nice size but what do you think?
Any suggestions or comparisons would be helpful!
Thanks confused
confused
She'd look like someone who is 5ft 3, size 12 with a 34 dd chest.
FFS rolleyes
Why not ask her for a pic if you're that bothered :roll:
Jesus thats a bit shallow eh?? Mebbie its just me!
Depends all us women are different body shapes!! Thats all Im saying!
I think she'd look kinda like a girl I went to school with. Ah, happy days...
If you want my opinion, Blue's spot on; ask for a picture. Send her one of yours first though so she doesn't feel you've put her on the spot.
thanks for comments, peeps. I didn't want to come across as shallow - it's just that physically i have a type that i really go for and just wanted opinions on what that body shape looked like.
will ask for pic and see what happens
cheers
Quote by mr_writer69
I'm wandering what a girl who is 5' 3", size 12 and with 34dd chest would look like?

Mr. Writer, sir~
If you're lucky, she might be reasonably close to
Legal Disclaimer: Model in photo is actually 5' 2", size 12, with a 36e chest.
~Reese! surprised
Reese, if that is vix she's bloody gorgeous!
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Reese, if that is vix she's bloody gorgeous!

Yup! She is, isn't she? :love: :love: :love:
Quote by mr_writer69
I met this girl online and she's really sweet. I know looks aren't everything (before you bombard me with those comments!) but I'm wandering what a girl who is 5' 3", size 12 and with 34dd chest would look like? I think it sounds a nice size but what do you think?
Any suggestions or comparisons would be helpful!
Thanks confused

YUMMY!!!! is she bi???
isn't it funny when people wonder what u r like based on your size/height etc?
I chatted to a guy on another site for ages and almost met him - during conversation one day he mentioned he didn't like "fat birds" I queried this and his reply was "anything over a size 12 turns me off"
I then asked him to o and look at my profile pics once again and tell me what size he thought I was
his reply was "babe you're a size 10 and gorgeous"
Imagine his shock when I told him I'm a size 14 on the bottom 16 on top and proud of my figure - and yes the girl in the pics was and still is me. Maybe I just have a knack of takin a good pic of myself or something!!!!
Needless to say that conversation didn't last much longer and I never met the shallow tw*t
Quote by fruity1976
Jesus thats a bit shallow eh?? Mebbie its just me!
Depends all us women are different body shapes!! Thats all Im saying!

I know this type of size thread will come up again and again and again... but...
Is it really shallow to have a preference over one size or the other? Is there any difference between that and say finding a guy with a beard sexy but bald heads a total turn off?
What about a guy that weighed 8 stone? or a guy that weighed 20 stone, would you find both as equally "physically/sexually" attractive?
I don't normally get involved in size threads as they can be such emotive subjects based on peoples perceptions of thier own size, but I do find it slightly disturbing and slightly disturbing that if a guy expresses a preference then he may be called shallow, yet when it is a couple or a woman then it is more acceptable to specify a preference.
Perhaps the acceptability of expression is down to the presure of society for women to fulfill the "ideal" as expressed by some media, and especially the advertising/fashion community... so there is a perception that anything other than slim is "bad" so they feel more anger towards guys expressing a like of slimmer women... To be honest I dont know as I am not a woman so cannot say, only theorise!
Perhaps, from a males POV, we dont feel as upset when people express a size... or we are just not as vocal in the way we feel if we are upset by something. Surely there should be just as much outcry when women express a preference for WE or VWE; nothing smaller than 9"+ wanted... surely this is just as insulting and shallow, but there never seems to be an issue with others... same with age, and so on and so on, yet far fewer critisise!
Ok maybe you do have a point ( I was on the vergo of killing someone at that time unrealted to this thread just me hormones haha!)
I really dont fancy skinny blokes I kinda like big guys (not giant) but definetly have to have more than one bit of meat on them if you catch my drift!! haha (and Im not going on about cock size!)
Quote by fruity1976
I kinda like big guys (not giant) but definetly have to have more than one bit of meat on them if you catch my drift!! haha (and Im not going on about cock size!)

Are you trying to tell me you only date butchers now that is shallow, fishmongers and greengrocers have feelings too you know!!!
hehehe what can I say Im a girl who likes her meat!! lol
I like most body sizes, but do consider the fact that I'm only 5'1 therefore majority of guys are bigger than me and sometimes I feel intimidated
I find personality attractive and am happy to exchange facial pics with people who interest me - those who are in tune mentally with me loon
Quote by mr_writer69
I met this girl online and she's really sweet. I know looks aren't everything (before you bombard me with those comments!) but I'm wandering what a girl who is 5' 3", size 12 and with 34dd chest would look like? I think it sounds a nice size but what do you think?
Any suggestions or comparisons would be helpful!
Thanks confused

Just remember, if she asks you 'does my bum look big in this', the answer's always 'No' ...
and she's always right, even when she's wrong, because being wrong is your job ... cool
I would have to support the writer of this thread someway.
I still need physical attraction before meeting somebody for sex and quite often, you are mistakingly taken for a pic collector if you simply ask for a pic to satisfy yourself that the attraction is there.
Nevertheless, some advice might be to get your head straight about sizes etc, so 1) you know in future, 2) you don't offend somebody unnecessarily and 3) so you dont miss out on someone you think you wont like, but who might be gorgeous!!! (like Vix)
my opinion on this is:-
i am attracted to personality, and, if i gel enough with that, the body shape and size is irrelevant....in my dreams i have visualised the "perfect partner", but rarely have i dated someone who looked similar....and the personality was a fat zero!! my partners have been from one extreme to the other... opposite poles in the size stakes...as indeed i have been....i think body/image preferences may play a part in who we initially choose to talk to, but its the bond that exists / develops between people that provides the staying power, intimacy and friendship ties...
until we know people, we may have a particular size and shape, hair length, colour etc in mind... that might be what we choose to stick to, prefering it...well, i think thats ok if thats how you feel, so long as you respect others in any feedback you give them...treat others as you wish to be treated yourself... but its also ok to accept variety if the common thread is a deeper, emotional or friendship one, and, to you, size isn't the issue!
To give an example of what i'm trying to say...if i was going to approach someone in a nightclub, i would probably be influenced by appearance, along with personality, character...however, i have some splendid friends i have met in forums etc, who i may not have approached and vice versa....but i would of missed the bright "spark" that was picked up in chatting and getting to know the individual, before knowing their a/s/l etc details...
feel like i'm rambling a bit....but, well, i know what i mean....
i think i wanted to say, "if they make you smile or laugh....enjoy them!!" it's rare!!
Quote by piercedJon
Is it really shallow to have a preference over one size or the other? Is there any difference between that and say finding a guy with a beard sexy but bald heads a total turn off?

I don't think there's anything wrong with a preference, as far as advertising is concerned... but I'd draw a distinction between that and breaking off a nascent relationship just because the other party doesn't measure up to some physical statistic or whatever. I mean, you've got that far, you're getting on great - who cares about the description? Often it doesn't tell you what the person actually looks like anyway. After all, I'm sure we've all heard the story of the blind men groping the elephant...
Let me put it this way. If we were on a dating site and a woman advertised for a man with a PhD, that's fair enough; she's got requirements and if that's what she wants, that's what she wants If I meet that woman and get chatting then two weeks later she says "I don't want to talk anymore because I only like men with PhDs", I'd think that was incredibly shallow and quite insulting. Because the requirements you state in an advert are just guidelines to try to increase your chance of getting a response from the type of person you hope for, but once you get communicating it's surely the whole package - both personality and the full entirity of physical characteristics - that has to be judged?
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Ok maybe you do have a point ( I was on the vergo of killing someone at that time unrealted to this thread just me hormones haha!)
I really dont fancy skinny blokes I kinda like big guys (not giant) but definetly have to have more than one bit of meat on them if you catch my drift!! haha (and Im not going on about cock size!)

Would "plump" be an adequate description? If so, /me hops on the next bus to Glasgow lol :lol: