rose certainly isnt bi for my sake, ask her, she'll go all coy then after half a cider admit she enjoys sex, with ...........sexy people , male or female, same as me really, we use the term curious because we dont want people to take liberties with our sexuality, it happens, im bi is not an invitation to come and fuck me....but as mentioned before we dont have the right boxes to tick, yet.
we dont intentionally want to mislead anyone, if bi curious isnt enough bait then so be it, if the bait is taken then we can spend the time to explain further, to potential partners,
leaving the road clear for them to make their minds up if we are to be swung with or not.
why more bi fems, personally i think its because there are just shed loads of more swingers these days , or at least we can see more at a glance than before, maybe this life style is becomming more socially acceptable or perhaps more readily available .
staggy
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Hi Snowhawk,
Very interesting. I am a straight female and have also noticed how many ads say bi female. I have no interest in playing with ladies whatsover and feel I must be odd!
Men rock my boat every time, some better that others it has to be said but on the whole I would say you men are doing nothing wrong.
Most couples we meet say the bi fem bit is not important but others want fem on fem action in particular.
It does seem to be a man thing that their fantasy is to see 2 ladies playing wth each other, maybe this is to fire the man up for when it is his turn. Why that is such a turn on for men yet the thought of 2 men playing together seems very much a turn off I really don't know.
So, hope that helps, not sure I have come up with anything but will keep a eye on this site to see what others think
Maggie :
A Truth (though one of many)
There are some women who do things just to please their man – they are not bullied or forced to do it – they want to do it. However, the reason they ‘want’ to do it is not necessarily a healthy one.
They may ‘want’ to take on a bisexual role as they feel:
Their man will want them all the more for it.
Their man will be less likely to loose interest in them.
They need to in order to alleviate a deep seated fear or desperately wanting to be thought of a desirable by their man (even if the man already feels they are, insecurities can lead to the feeling they don’t)
It will make them more desirable and thus more wanted.
They are doing something that nobody else has done for their man (again a sense of security over insecurities)
I have had the unfortunate experience of meeting at least one couple (if only it was one) where the woman arranged the 3some, was all keen, initiated the play… and then just as we are all sharing and having fun…. they get all ‘cock-greedy’ (as I call it). Interrupting every time it looked like the hubby might just be enjoying the additional woman a bit too much, keeping track of who is getting the most attention, demanding to get the majority share-out and usually ending up with the wifey only wanting to be watched fucking her hubby.
Hi Snowhawk, (remember us?) Mrs Ice is Bi because it floats her boat, she went from Bi curious to Bi voracious in one lick of a pussy!!!!!!!!...it was that simple!
I think that with the "openess" of todays society it has allowed more women to explore their bi sides and so has resulted in more and more women discovering that they actually have a bi side...and frankly women are so bloody sexy who wouldn`t want to play with one?????
Love to you all...
Great news! -as a bi-guy forced into a new strand of sexual activity by a 'no-go' wife, i appreciate now the fulfilment available from enjoying the pleasure of a same-sex partner. The ladies clearly know how to pleasure each other in a way that perhaps we guys have not been given the opportunity (or guidance!!) to achieve, and i have no problem with the girls reaching orgasm without the help of a 10-inch willy (ha-ha!)....so no problem here. Would just be nice to have the odd invite, now and again! Please, ladies......
Well genunie Bi Fem here but have to agre that there does seem to be a HUGE increase of so called Bi Fem or Curious Bi Fems on the site.
As a couple we thought this great until you start chatting to this so-called people and I am afraid to say that the majority are not what they say and are actually MEN!!!!!, but we will keep trying, at least we try not to send pics until we are sure that they are genuine.
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So I fell into swinging when my marriage broke up 18 months ago because it seemed the easiest way to get what I wanted. I'm now very comfortable in my relationship and I don't think I could ever be considered as being "bi for him". We tend to play with couples and single bi fems but haven't ruled out playing with single men. We're just swinging the way we both feel most comfortable with which is how everyone in the scene should be. After all how can you enjoy doing something you're being pressured to do? :dunno: 
:giggle: hmmm think my addy and sexuality tick box needs a correction/new tick box .... suggestions welcome....
(i call it a womans perogative lol - altho the same applies to him.....)
"laterunner" was being a complete fool for his comments and insinuating that because his wife had stopped sex he had been forced into bi and other relations. My god I was simply sticking up for the poor woman and the fact was he was a complete idiot for his remarks! Personally, my grandparents were still kissing and cuddling and frolicking and they were in their 80's 
