are these couples swinging couples.. have they corresponded via MSN or some other such site first.
when you say first time.. have they met socially first and are now meeting to fuck? Or have they just been eyeing each up in the bar over the tops of their pimms?
Are they both dressed in summer clothes or winter clothes.. as ripping off clothes in winter is more tricky as you have to think of the ambient room temperature.
goodness me so many variables really. What do you do?
You forgot to add:
What if 'A' doesn't fancy 'C', but 'B' fancies 'D'...
Or if the room is the most suitable, or if some props, alternative outfits or resources(!) are needed...
etc etc
What if you can't play poker?
It was just a made up senario.
How do you lot make the first move?
Do you leave it to the other couple to say 'get yer kit off'?
I play poker and like marmite.
Right, who is game for some tasty fun?
To give an actual practical response,
Our suggestion would be, if the vibe is that everyone seems to get on, which was the orginal propostion stated then start playing with your own partner.
By this we don't mean rip their clothes of and start shagging in front of the guests/hosts, just give them a long super kiss and stroke each other, that kind of thing, if the others follow suit then you will all be naked pretty soon after that and gradually things will take their course.