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Warming the Bed
Two couples meet for the first time.
They get on really well, but all are still fully clothed etc.
Do you pounce on the opposite lady/man?
Do you say 'Ok, let's get naked', and strip off?
Get the cards out for strip poker?
How do you initiate the naughty fun? biggrin
are these couples swinging couples.. have they corresponded via MSN or some other such site first.
when you say first time.. have they met socially first and are now meeting to fuck? Or have they just been eyeing each up in the bar over the tops of their pimms?
Are they both dressed in summer clothes or winter clothes.. as ripping off clothes in winter is more tricky as you have to think of the ambient room temperature.
goodness me so many variables really. What do you do?
You forgot to add:
What if 'A' doesn't fancy 'C', but 'B' fancies 'D'...
Or if the room is the most suitable, or if some props, alternative outfits or resources(!) are needed...
etc etc
...and what about if a, b & c all fancy d, but d just want's to read a book confused:
Quote by Ianandhil
How do you initiate the naughty fun? biggrin

I really wish I could tell you cause I have not got a clue and I CANNOT make that first move. So if you do get some good tips, please send them my way wink
Sexpert
I really wish I could tell you cause I have not got a clue and I CANNOT make that first move. So if you do get some good tips, please send them my way wink
Are you sure WiggY rolleyes
Quote by diezel
Are you sure WiggY rolleyes

Unfortunately, I am very sure (wish I was telling fibs, but Im not) redface
Sex God
Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple

How do you initiate the naughty fun? biggrin

I really wish I could tell you cause I have not got a clue and I CANNOT make that first move. So if you do get some good tips, please send them my way wink
NWC, can you pass the tips on to me please :thumbup:
I sometimes miss the obvious when its in my face and have no idea someone is implying they want to take things further. I have no idea how to even approach someone to say Hi at times rolleyes
Quote by Dawnie
I have no idea how to even approach someone to say Hi at times rolleyes

What about "Hi Im Dawnie gies a shag" lol
Worth a try don't you think ??
Try it on me next time I see you wink
Sex God
Quote by woohoo
What about "Hi Im Dawnie gies a shag" lol
Worth a try don't you think ??
Try it on me next time I see you wink

rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Do I have to do it in your accent too?
And without laughing?
Without you running away?
Its not going to happen redface
Quote by Freckledbird
What if you can't play poker?

And what if you don't like Marmite?
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Quote by Dawnie

How do you initiate the naughty fun? biggrin

I really wish I could tell you cause I have not got a clue and I CANNOT make that first move. So if you do get some good tips, please send them my way wink
NWC, can you pass the tips on to me please:thumbup:
I sometimes miss the obvious when its in my face and have no idea someone is implying they want to take things further. I have no idea how to even approach someone to say Hi at times rolleyes
You look ok for tips to me Dawnie innocent
Right im going to try something.....and i will report back as to the activity of my inbox (or more likely the lack of it) of genuine hearfelt offers.
Hi, all I'm Mrs Bone and I'm up for lots of shags, oral, kissing and fun....who wants to shag me???
PM me if your serious...male or female...i'm game for it all.
there now we'll see if the direct approach works or not lol biggrin :D
Warming the Bed
It was just a made up senario.
How do you lot make the first move?
Do you leave it to the other couple to say 'get yer kit off'?
Quote by Ianandhil
It was just a made up senario.
How do you lot make the first move?
Do you leave it to the other couple to say 'get yer kit off'?

What do you do?
In a first meeting which I was part of, after an hour or so of chatting and getting to know each other, we agreed that if, by a certain time by the clock in the room, some "action" had not started, the visitor/s would go home. It worked. wink
Sex God
simply release the trouser snake :dunno
:shock:
What?
bolt
Warming the Bed
Quote by Bonedigger
what happens if no one brought the marmite dunno

Hah thanks for that now I have to wipe the screen.. ( of Toast and marmite of course ! )
grapes!
grape eating between A&C whilst D&C watch............... or A&D or C&B or any combination you prefer
its a start and one of our five a day lol
bring on the cucumbers and marrows or sessonal veg next :bounce:
so grapes anyone ? :thrilled:
Quote by westerross
What if you can't play poker?

And what if you don't like Marmite?
.
thats me well fooked redface cant play poker and really detest marmite confused no fun for me
I usually initiate at home with dek (well he says i do) by dressing up etc but its him that makes the first direct move
unless he's drank to much whiskey when im rather friskey and is neither use nor ornament banghead
Quote by westerross
What if you can't play poker?

And what if you don't like Marmite?

Well, I can't play poker and I don't like Marmite - what do you suggest? :rascal:
Quote by Freckledbird
What if you can't play poker?

And what if you don't like Marmite?

Well, I can't play poker and I don't like Marmite - what do you suggest? :rascal:
Can i be in your gang to then, lol
Quote by Bonedigger
Right im going to try something.....and i will report back as to the activity of my inbox (or more likely the lack of it) of genuine hearfelt offers.
Hi, all I'm Mrs Bone and I'm up for lots of shags, oral, kissing and fun....who wants to shag me???
PM me if your serious...male or female...i'm game for it all.
there now we'll see if the direct approach works or not lol biggrin :D

right, its been a grand total of 17 hours and the total pms in my inbox after my 'offer yourself unashamedly on a plate' approach.....
nought, nowt, not a lot
zilch, thats the big Oh
Not a sausage, not a spot
Not the tiniest drop
Nothing whatsoever at all......
so it looks like i can deduce that the direct approach doesnt work, or I am a 2 bag minger....either way its back to the old drawing board for me lol :lol: :lol:
I play poker and like marmite.
Right, who is game for some tasty fun?
What about getting some nice tunes on and having a dance together.
But not 'The Birdie Song' mind.. rolleyes
To give an actual practical response,
Our suggestion would be, if the vibe is that everyone seems to get on, which was the orginal propostion stated then start playing with your own partner.
By this we don't mean rip their clothes of and start shagging in front of the guests/hosts, just give them a long super kiss and stroke each other, that kind of thing, if the others follow suit then you will all be naked pretty soon after that and gradually things will take their course.
Sex God
Quote by Dawnie
I sometimes miss the obvious when its in my face and have no idea someone is implying they want to take things further.

Blimey Dawnie, even I don't miss things that obvious confused Once it's in my face, I kind of get the hint :shock: