Hello have been a member for about a month and to date as a couple have had reasonable success. The wife is having great results as a lady attracting other women, couples and single guys.
So my question is why is it so difficult to get other couples or single women interested in me? I’m not ugly or overweight and can travel anywhere in the UK.
I always make sure I write a personal introduction rather than cut n paste a standard intro and it’s always based on the profile of the person I am contacting. I’m starting to think most of the people on this site are either not really here for the right reasons or are just bloody rude. It does not take much to send back a no thank you does it?
Am I the only one?
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Sex God
I find it interesting you say your wife is having no problem getting meets... there seems to be little mention of her on your profile? 
It looks to me like you are a single male using a couples profile.
Now, that might not be so, but I'm just saying what it looks like after having a glance at your profile. That would put me off for starters.
Nola x
It looks to me like you are a single male using a couples profile.
Now, that might not be so, but I'm just saying what it looks like after having a glance at your profile. That would put me off for starters.
Nola x
Sex God
Interesting your profile is a couples profile but no pics of your wife or indeed no information about your wife. Is she having success using this profile?
I'm not entirely sure why you're not having any luck, but your profile instantly makes me a little bit suspicious that you don't actually have a wife. I realise I could be wrong but that's my first impression.
And these things take time. Just because you paid it doesn't guarantee you a shag.
EDIT: No mention of your wife in your advert either which would put me off instantly as you're advertising as a single male on a couples account.
I'm not entirely sure why you're not having any luck, but your profile instantly makes me a little bit suspicious that you don't actually have a wife. I realise I could be wrong but that's my first impression.
And these things take time. Just because you paid it doesn't guarantee you a shag.
EDIT: No mention of your wife in your advert either which would put me off instantly as you're advertising as a single male on a couples account.
Sexlightened
I hope people on here are real !!!!
God if there not I'll lose my faith in the internet totally !!!!
God if there not I'll lose my faith in the internet totally !!!!
Sex God
Oh sorry... I didn't answer your initial question. 
I'm real!
I'm real!
Sex God
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Oh sorry... I didn't answer your initial question.
I'm real!
Me to :shock: :wave:
Sex God
I'm real too, others have seen me.
Just had a read of the profile, bit of a challenge, and it's me, me, me, me. Wife, what wife? :shock:
Can't belive that the profile fits the catagory stated, so no wonder you are having no luck.
Single guys have to work hard here, some more than others, but telling porkies about your status will do you no good, and is detrimental to those of us who are honest, and trying hard to prove so when others muddy the playing field.
Just had a read of the profile, bit of a challenge, and it's me, me, me, me. Wife, what wife? :shock:
Can't belive that the profile fits the catagory stated, so no wonder you are having no luck.
Single guys have to work hard here, some more than others, but telling porkies about your status will do you no good, and is detrimental to those of us who are honest, and trying hard to prove so when others muddy the playing field.
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Just had a read of the profile, bit of a challenge, and it's me, me, me, me. Wife, what wife? :shock:
Can't belive that the profile fits the catagory stated, so no wonder you are having no luck.
Single guys have to work hard here, some more than others, but telling porkies about your status will do you no good, and is detrimental to those of us who are honest, and trying hard to prove so when others muddy the playing field.
Totally correct nuff said
:lol: :lol: steve
Had her on profile with pictures. We were getting loads of hits some of which we have followed up on. All the early replies were from single guys and couples with Bi female. No problem its what its all about. We then changed the add to attract more single females and couples looking for bi or straight males in effort to narrow down the response. This just confused everyone they did not know if we were advertising as a couple or single so it seemed the easiest thing to do was remove her from the profile. I can put her back if everyone thinks that’s the answer but you can only look at so many hits a day of blokes cock pictures. I think I have been very explanatory in our profile but it seems people just cant read. I think I need to run two or maybe three adds one for her one for me and one for the pair of us and hope people tell us which one they are responding to
Sex God
Hi I am real, at least I was when I stubbed my toe a minute ago!! Quote by Mm1812
Had her on profile with pictures. We were getting loads of hits some of which we have followed up on. All the early replies were from single guys and couples with Bi female. No problem its what its all about. We then changed the add to attract more single females and couples looking for bi or straight males in effort to narrow down the response. This just confused everyone they did not know if we were advertising as a couple or single so it seemed the easiest thing to do was remove her from the profile. I can put her back if everyone thinks that’s the answer but you can only look at so many hits a day of blokes cock pictures. I think I have been very explanatory in our profile but it seems people just cant read. I think I need to run two or maybe three adds one for her one for me and one for the pair of us and hope people tell us which one they are responding to
when you are a couple advertising its all part and parcel , you are bound to get loads of replys from guys as there are possibly 100 guys for each couple to choose from maybe more ?. :shock:
As for seperate ads dont know the answer on that one .
You really should specify in what you are both looking for and not just you ?
Maybe one of the more experienced swinging heaveners can answer this question ?
steve
Sex God
Quote by Mm1812
Had her on profile with pictures. We were getting loads of hits some of which we have followed up on. All the early replies were from single guys and couples with Bi female. No problem its what its all about. We then changed the add to attract more single females and couples looking for bi or straight males in effort to narrow down the response. This just confused everyone they did not know if we were advertising as a couple or single so it seemed the easiest thing to do was remove her from the profile. I can put her back if everyone thinks that’s the answer but you can only look at so many hits a day of blokes cock pictures. I think I have been very explanatory in our profile but it seems people just cant read. I think I need to run two or maybe three adds one for her one for me and one for the pair of us and hope people tell us which one they are responding to
I think you should consider yourselves lucky that you've had the success you've had in just over a month. Some people have been on here much longer before they complain about not getting any contacts or 'no thank you' replies.
As has been said, your profile reads and looks like a single male profile and it comes across as a bit iffy, to be honest.
Sex God
Quote by Mm1812
Had her on profile with pictures. We were getting loads of hits some of which we have followed up on. All the early replies were from single guys and couples with Bi female. No problem its what its all about. We then changed the add to attract more single females and couples looking for bi or straight males in effort to narrow down the response. This just confused everyone they did not know if we were advertising as a couple or single so it seemed the easiest thing to do was remove her from the profile. I can put her back if everyone thinks that’s the answer but you can only look at so many hits a day of blokes cock pictures. I think I have been very explanatory in our profile but it seems people just cant read. I think I need to run two or maybe three adds one for her one for me and one for the pair of us and hope people tell us which one they are responding to
I see your profile as your main "shop window" - use that to sell yourselves as fully and as honestly as possible.
Your adverts are where you can afford to be as specific or as general as you want to be so yes, separate adverts in the varying categories for each of you would be good. If this is backed up with something in the profile that states that the two of you are happy playing separately and together (or whatever your arrangement is) then that will reassure people.
Basically on a site this size you will get some people who ignore advert and profile texts. Some people just send out messages in a scatter-gun approach to anyone in their area... horses for courses.
Have you tried placing a thread in the Let's Meet Up forum? Or what about finding someone who is advertising for what you are looking for and replying to them?
Above all, give it time.
Nola x
Sex God
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Sex God
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I am an android.
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Now that I can believe, drunk, sitting on the floor, propped up by a suit case, and you still managed to fall over!!
Sex God
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HTH
Now that I can believe, drunk, sitting on the floor, propped up by a suit case, and you still managed to fall over!!
Heheheheheheh, yeah, alcohol makes me short circuit
:lol: :lol: :lol: 
:wink: i still think it is written by a man, even the one that is trying to look like its written by a female,
this is the first time ive come across this post and looked at the profile, so not sure what it was like before, but after reading your post i went straight to profile and ads and pictures and imediately thought this was a guy playing alone.
the picture is of her minnimo, and looks professional the one of you on the other hand looks normal but why are you having to take it in the mirror on your own? surely you could have got the mrs to take the pic with the same good quality cam hers was taken with?
how has she had soooo much success in only 2-3 weeks, especially if prior to this your profile etc only gave info about you?
might be wrong,but all of the above would stear me away from your profile.
xx fem xx
this is the first time ive come across this post and looked at the profile, so not sure what it was like before, but after reading your post i went straight to profile and ads and pictures and imediately thought this was a guy playing alone.
the picture is of her minnimo, and looks professional the one of you on the other hand looks normal but why are you having to take it in the mirror on your own? surely you could have got the mrs to take the pic with the same good quality cam hers was taken with?
how has she had soooo much success in only 2-3 weeks, especially if prior to this your profile etc only gave info about you?
might be wrong,but all of the above would stear me away from your profile.
xx fem xx
Sex God
I'm an illusion.
But a nice one.
Oh and I'm also quite a patient one.
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But a nice one.
Oh and I'm also quite a patient one.
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Mm1812 If I were you I would take on board the reaction to your profile and re instate your other half. I am not for one minute accusing you of being fake as a couple, but your profile does give that impression. We have two couples profiles on SH and have to say that we are not inundated with cock shots in PM. Maybe it is because we make it clear as to whom we are and what we are looking for. Or maybe its just coz we are a couple of mingers who knows
thinking the same thing ste not that ur a cpl o mingers lol not that bit but the innudated bit jeez we been here nearly 3 yrs n if get one mail a month i get excited n even then its usually from a reg in chat.
crikey if i'd only been here a month n only posted on the forum less than half a dozen times n was getting innundated i'd think i was doing bloody great.
Sex God
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I am an android.
HTH
Now that I can believe, drunk, sitting on the floor, propped up by a suit case, and you still managed to fall over!!
Heheheheheheh, yeah, alcohol makes me short circuit
:lol: :lol: :lol:you may have blown a fuse then bluexxsteve
Summat like that. I think it was just that my positronic matrix got a bit over loaded, but it's fine now :D
Sex God
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I am an android.
HTH
Now that I can believe, drunk, sitting on the floor, propped up by a suit case, and you still managed to fall over!!
Heheheheheheh, yeah, alcohol makes me short circuit
:lol: :lol: :lol:you may have blown a fuse then bluexxsteve
Summat like that. I think it was just that my positronic matrix got a bit over loaded, but it's fine now :D
oooooooooo all those philosophic words :D :D
I am going all goooey xxxxxxxx
steve
