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thx for the hello's...story attached to car pic..5am up a mountain, -3 degrees. Who said ya get wiser as ya get older
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is honesty the best policy
Casanova
thank f**k for that, so glad its not just us 
hi,
ok we are all human, i can come on here and can be in a different mood everytime.
i think one of the mistakes people can make is a profile is NOT a ad.
so on a bad day when you come here to be around friends, escape life, have a laugh, get a opinion, whatever, and you get yet another pm saying a load of old twaddle and you take a look at the profile and they are not remotely what your looking for in gender, status, location etc you can hopefully understand a snap in return, or just ignore it.
some people will responde saying thanks but no thanks and then pms come thick and fast and when you dont continue to reply you get abuse.
other days i will get a pm and be open to chatting. i know this may be unfair on the pmer, but its life were human. it depends on the pm context , the pmer and my mood.
i will be more open to a pm from a regular forum user.
sorry but thats how i feel, please note i have not used men or women persay as i think we can all be responsible in both situations.
xx lou xxx
ok we are all human, i can come on here and can be in a different mood everytime.
i think one of the mistakes people can make is a profile is NOT a ad.
so on a bad day when you come here to be around friends, escape life, have a laugh, get a opinion, whatever, and you get yet another pm saying a load of old twaddle and you take a look at the profile and they are not remotely what your looking for in gender, status, location etc you can hopefully understand a snap in return, or just ignore it.
some people will responde saying thanks but no thanks and then pms come thick and fast and when you dont continue to reply you get abuse.
other days i will get a pm and be open to chatting. i know this may be unfair on the pmer, but its life were human. it depends on the pm context , the pmer and my mood.
i will be more open to a pm from a regular forum user.
sorry but thats how i feel, please note i have not used men or women persay as i think we can all be responsible in both situations.
xx lou xxx
hi i would thank all these that that have took part in this discussion i have picked up some very valuble pointers and i realise also there are some very genuine people on here. so here's hoping my quest for the holy grail as such continues with a achievable goal at the end .so i hope i will make some friends on here
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hi i would thank all these that that have took part in this discussion i have picked up some very valuble pointers and i realise also there are some very genuine people on here. so here's hoping my quest for the holy grail as such continues with a achievable goal at the end .so i hope i will make some friends on here
Well said.................now get into the bar and have a drink
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hi i would thank all these that that have took part in this discussion i have picked up some very valuble pointers and i realise also there are some very genuine people on here. so here's hoping my quest for the holy grail as such continues with a achievable goal at the end .so i hope i will make some friends on here
Well said.................now get into the bar and have a drink
good on yer lissa you buying hun ....mines a lager ta xx 
Sexlightened
Thanks Lissa.................mines a brandy pls.........Metaxa 7 Star if you have it thanks.......
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2............a lot of women WON'T reply to un-solicited PM's anyway.
What a shame.
It was on another, similar website to this, that an unsolicited email of mine sparked a wonderful and very satisfying friendship. :D :D :D This friendship is still going strong, two years later.Maybe Lissa's 'lot of women' would gain vastly more from SH if they were a little more open-minded....?
if you'd been around for more than a month you'd realise the women on here don't need to respond to every despetate 'fuck me now' one line PM's. in fact they can pretty much choose from a huge range of guys. as for open minded, you obviously don't know many of them as they are more than open minded. there is little for them to gain and i don't know where this idea of yours has come from, there has recently been an sudden influx of wankers who seem to think the ladies on here are just provided for the pleasure and sexual satisfaction, which is why most of us regs now play elsewhere so why should they respond to every PM?
I'm in the fortunate position of being able to PM most of the regular females on the site and probably get a reply, but this is only because most of them will know me from the site and because i treat them with the respect deserved. It's been stated many time before 'THIS IS NOT A QUICK SHAG SITE!' even with the recent changes, swinging is about much more and a different attitude and until you guys work that out we'll just watch you stumble round aimlessly, thats when we're not having fantastic sex with the fantastic women who grace this site
Not acceptable, Meat. I'll pm you privately about this.
Sex God
Quote by meat2pleaseu
2............a lot of women WON'T reply to un-solicited PM's anyway.
What a shame.
It was on another, similar website to this, that an unsolicited email of mine sparked a wonderful and very satisfying friendship. :D :D :D This friendship is still going strong, two years later.Maybe Lissa's 'lot of women' would gain vastly more from SH if they were a little more open-minded....?
if you'd been around for more than a month you'd realise the women on here don't need to respond to every despetate 'fuck me now' one line PM's. in fact they can pretty much choose from a huge range of guys. as for open minded, you obviously don't know many of them as they are more than open minded. there is little for them to gain and i don't know where this idea of yours has come from, there has recently been an sudden influx of wankers who seem to think the ladies on here are just provided for the pleasure and sexual satisfaction, which is why most of us regs now play elsewhere so why should they respond to every PM?
I'm in the fortunate position of being able to PM most of the regular females on the site and probably get a reply, but this is only because most of them will know me from the site and because i treat them with the respect deserved. It's been stated many time before 'THIS IS NOT A QUICK SHAG SITE!' even with the recent changes, swinging is about much more and a different attitude and until you guys work that out we'll just watch you stumble round aimlessly, thats when we're not having fantastic sex with the fantastic women who grace this site
From a female's perspective I agree with Meat2pleaseU.
Before everyone starts lumping everyone else into huge sweeping statements with the attached pigeon holes to be crammed into... not everyone is the same however there are very certain and noticable trends. One thing never ever changes regardless of who you are....
Show respect to someone and earn their respect in return.
Gem. x
Sex God
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From a female's perspective I agree with Meat2pleaseU.
have you seen a doctor about that Littlegem? :grin:
It's when I start agreeing with PoloLady I get a bit of sweat on!
;)I do think he's been sniffing the pritt sticks again though.. he doesn't normally make that much sense! :lol:
Gem. x
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From a female's perspective I agree with Meat2pleaseU.
have you seen a doctor about that Littlegem? :grin:
It's when I start agreeing with PoloLady I get a bit of sweat on!
;)I do think he's been sniffing the pritt sticks again though.. he doesn't normally make that much sense! :lol:
Gem. x
I wouldn't mind seeing that :rascal:
Sex God
Perve! :shock:
