Joined a couple of weeks ago and,although there have been 20 viewings of my profile,not a single message
: I'm new to this so would welcome any advice/comments from established members.
Thanks and hope you're well.
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Hi hun, I have been on just over a month, and up to last night had over 700 views and four emails..
Its not something you have said, as far as I can see your profile is fine, you state what you want and have your pics on.. though the one with the tatts is blurred.. would like to see that clearly!
A lot of people want specific things, and if you look at mine, I state what I want and won't deviate from it. The emails I have had are some couples wanting threesomes... they haven't read my profile properly!
Have you been into the chatrooms yet? I have made loads of contacts in there, and some good cyber mates.. its worth popping in.
Anyway hope this helps! Don't worry, you will get some replies.. best of luck!!
Misskitty xx
Its not something you have said, as far as I can see your profile is fine, you state what you want and have your pics on.. though the one with the tatts is blurred.. would like to see that clearly!
A lot of people want specific things, and if you look at mine, I state what I want and won't deviate from it. The emails I have had are some couples wanting threesomes... they haven't read my profile properly!
Have you been into the chatrooms yet? I have made loads of contacts in there, and some good cyber mates.. its worth popping in.
Anyway hope this helps! Don't worry, you will get some replies.. best of luck!!
Misskitty xx
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Hi,
Joined a couple of weeks ago and,although there have been 20 viewings of my profile,not a single message
I'm new to this so would welcome any advice/comments from established members.
Thanks and hope you're well.
Master of Sex
Quote by Oralactive
Hi,
Joined a couple of weeks ago and,although there have been 20 viewings of my profile,not a single message
I'm new to this so would welcome any advice/comments from established members.
Thanks and hope you're well.
Well, that'll be 21 viewings now
There's nothing wrong with your profile - in fact it's one of the better ones I've seen from a single guy. It isn't just a blank profile with a cock shot which is a refreshing change. You have a cheeky smile and nice eyes ... I'm sure it's just a matter of time. I agree with MissKitty ... a clearer shot of your tattoos would be fab (will revisit your profile just for that alone
).It's also good advice to visit a few chat rooms and get yourself 'known'. Don't be discouraged if you sit there for a while with nobody seemingly talking to you - be observant and chip in ... don't bother with 'single bloke here looking for ...' that rarely gets a response.
Good luck!
Sex God
20 odd views and no reply is nothing to worry about....
As you can imagine there are quite a lot of guys on here looking for fun so you need to stand out from the crowd..
I haven't viewed your profile (if I was any good at compiling profiles then mine would be the one I worked on :lol2: ) but it may well take a while to get yourself known and trusted so best advice I can give is to join in the forums/chatrooms and try to get to a few munches/socials and meet people that way to start with...
Oh and :welcome:
As you can imagine there are quite a lot of guys on here looking for fun so you need to stand out from the crowd..
I haven't viewed your profile (if I was any good at compiling profiles then mine would be the one I worked on :lol2: ) but it may well take a while to get yourself known and trusted so best advice I can give is to join in the forums/chatrooms and try to get to a few munches/socials and meet people that way to start with...
Oh and :welcome:
as you've stated your preferences in your profile just sit back and wait or if you read other peoples profiles and you fit their bill write to them, like someone wrote it is a better than most new profiles we read on on the bright side if you hadn't of wrote your only into slim / athletic people you may of had lots of mails by now,but they would of lead to nothing so don't get to dispondent. good luck anyway and give it time get chatting in chatrooms visit your nearest social / munch get known.
You've had 7 views of your Ad and profile's only goes to 20 views anyway... I don't think it matters how many people have looked at your profile in all honesty. Most people have a nose at new names :smile:
There are probably more males than females members, so less chance of your advert being looked at than a females or couples...
You'll get known a little better posting here in the forum and attending socials, munches and joining in your local chat room, hence might have a better chance of finding of what your looking for that way..
Good luck anyway and welcome to the forum
There are probably more males than females members, so less chance of your advert being looked at than a females or couples...
You'll get known a little better posting here in the forum and attending socials, munches and joining in your local chat room, hence might have a better chance of finding of what your looking for that way..
Good luck anyway and welcome to the forum
I think it's perfectly normal, esp for single males.
Couples are frequently pestered by a few single males, and so they are often reluctant to initiate conversation with them. (This isn't all couples, just a general comment).
Even a great profile might not be enough for them to risk contacting a single male... remember, they still don't know your general behaviour.
All in all, the best thing you can do is use the chatrooms, use the fora / cafe, don't have any 'expectations', but do have a lot of patience. Over time, folks will get to know you, get to understand your style, your sense of humour etc... some will like you, some will not (same as ever). Once their comfort levels have increased, you'll find that they do approach you :-)
Patience is probably the key thing, and the effort you put in (but no matter how much effort you put in, you can't MAKE it happen). If you're a half decent guy, and prove to be so over a period of time, there will be someone wanting you!
Best of luck, and don't worry about it, it's all perfectly normal!
/TheKid
Couples are frequently pestered by a few single males, and so they are often reluctant to initiate conversation with them. (This isn't all couples, just a general comment).
Even a great profile might not be enough for them to risk contacting a single male... remember, they still don't know your general behaviour.
All in all, the best thing you can do is use the chatrooms, use the fora / cafe, don't have any 'expectations', but do have a lot of patience. Over time, folks will get to know you, get to understand your style, your sense of humour etc... some will like you, some will not (same as ever). Once their comfort levels have increased, you'll find that they do approach you :-)
Patience is probably the key thing, and the effort you put in (but no matter how much effort you put in, you can't MAKE it happen). If you're a half decent guy, and prove to be so over a period of time, there will be someone wanting you!
Best of luck, and don't worry about it, it's all perfectly normal!
/TheKid
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It could always be down to the area that you live in. I will sometimes view a profile but when I see that the person lives a million miles away I leave quietly by the back door 
Like misskitty said, venture into the chat rooms and make yourself known in both the forums & chat & I'm sure you will do well x
Like misskitty said, venture into the chat rooms and make yourself known in both the forums & chat & I'm sure you will do well x
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New to chat room I created a private room got chatting to a contact but once I came out of the room I cannot find it once I am out it disappears from the room list so search h cannot find it how do I just log back in
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New to chat room I created a private room got chatting to a contact but once I came out of the room I cannot find it once I am out it disappears from the room list so search h cannot find it how do I just log back in
Is it the new contact you are trying to find or to re access the existing chat in the room? Did this new contact view your profile? You can maybe find them there. Not sure you can join back into existing chats in the room if it’s logged you out.
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Quote by rhodian54
New to chat room I created a private room got chatting to a contact but once I came out of the room I cannot find it once I am out it disappears from the room list so search h cannot find it how do I just log back in
If you left the room and the only other person who was in it also left, the room will close (to prevent there being hundreds of rooms people have left and are now empty)
