Please note before you read my profile that l now swing alone and also as a couple with bbw_lover. We have an open and trusting relationship and because of that we talk about possible and planned meets. We do not keep secrets from each other, so please be aware of this. I have no problems with him meeting single ladies, as he doesn't with me meeting single men. We have safety measures for single meets, so if you don't like it- don't contact us as we will not back down on this. We also like to meet for a drink and a chat first … as there has to be a spark for both of us - we will be honest.

We are a mixed race couple, black male and white female. Sorry about not having any of my pics on public display but until the new tagging system is taken off they will remain in my private gallery. Invites will be given to friends and to those where a genuine meet is likely. Please no picture collectors.

Please also note that l can't travel too far due to my job- l am on call a lot, but may be able to meet half way or accomodate.

PLEASE READ MY PROFILE PROPERLY BEFORE YOU CONTACT ME.....

AND PLEASE DON'T WHISPER ME WITHOUT AN INVITE... I WILL IGNORE....

AND I DONT WANT MFF THREESOMES.... OR MMF THREESOMES...

Thank you for the winks to those who sent.. but don't reply to one liners... I like a little more than an invite to look at yours... I hope I don't offend anyone but I won't reply to them... I also won't reply to profiles with just cock shots on..... you've seen one... you've seen them all.... sorry!

I won't lead people on - I am honest and trustworthy. I am wary of people who don't have photos on their profile... so if you don't have one... don't contact me. Also, had a few people whisper me.. and when I have checked them out have found no information... will not talk to you either!!!! Same with emails... don't want "full on" straight away....just say hi please!!!

Please do not contact me if you do not want what I want.

I am a BBW... so if you don't like curvy gothic women.. you know where the door is!

NO PLAYING ALONE MARRIED MEN WELCOME SORRY!!!

And sorry again... we are both non smokers and would like the same.

I am a bit of a techie geek.. so if you just want to chat about geeky things thats fine!! pm me anytime!!

I do have a preferences for black males, but am happy to meet men of any race, if they make me smile, and perk my intellectual interest!