Is NSA for real?

14 Jun 2012

To me. NSA. Means NSA. No strings attached
Strings arent emotions or feelings. They are just strings. The sort pEople pull in relationships / work situations and sometimes families and friendships to get what they wAnt,!!!
To me its literally you want an involvement on what ever level that does not infringe or put demands on your world / life / behaviour. Allowing you to be a free spirit
It also means to me that you can not demand / judge or expect more than you get ------on what ever level
Sadly many people think that NSA. Means you no longer have to care or show respect for someone
I may never want to see someone again but manners afterwards and a kind word when your paths cross should not go amiss
and i do not think NSA means devoid of feelings you can care and not want a relationship
I think cyber society has taught people to forget that we are All human and deserve to be treated well. Trying to be honest And upfront is alwys the best policy. I also agree with others on here ........ Who knows when and where anyone will meet someone they fall for. Married couples as well as singles thats just life. And yes many do swing or join swinging sites for the wrong reasons even couples,,,
Caring and sharing doesnt need to be complex if you communicate from the start
Ps. Mrs funlovrers 2009. What sort of single females you been meeting. Pmsl xxx
And youd darent include me in your relationship finding count lol x

14 Jun 2012

Quote by anais

There are lots of single girls who have profiles saying that they only meet as a couple. In my opinion they should have a couples account and probably choose a single girls profile as they know it will bring more attention.

I find that extremely annoying as well :mad:
Let us know about them :-)
I've also found it the other way around as they get to much attention....
Single fem profiles. Dont drag in the perverts tou know. Lol.
Maybe they cant afford the Likewise. Sh have changed singles profiles to couples with out their consent because they play together as well
As single... Thats just wrong. We should let people be whoever they want to.... After all
There are a million memebers you dont have to correspond with anyone you dont wnt too """""

14 Jun 2012

Quote by gorgeously-yours

There are lots of single girls who have profiles saying that they only meet as a couple. In my opinion they should have a couples account and probably choose a single girls profile as they know it will bring more attention.

I find that extremely annoying as well :mad:
Let us know about them :-)
I've also found it the other way around as they get to much attention....
Single fem profiles. Dont drag in the perverts tou know. Lol.
Maybe they cant afford the Likewise. Sh have changed singles profiles to couples with out their consent because they play together as well
As single... Thats just wrong. We should let people be whoever they want to.... After all
There are a million memebers you dont have to correspond with anyone you dont wnt too """""
I am a male age 37
Looking for single female
"hit search"
23908 profiles
Profile 1: Hi im Cindy I only meet with my partner
Back button
Profile 2: Hi Im Jane I only meet with my fuck buddy
Back button
Profile 3: Hi Im Bobbetta not meeting alone anymore
Give up
Honestly, what a waste of my time in the example above. Perhaps the profiles need more options and the search needs more filters. So men or couples can search girls that meet alone. This should be simple, not a chore.

14 Jun 2012

Quote by tweeky

There are lots of single girls who have profiles saying that they only meet as a couple. In my opinion they should have a couples account and probably choose a single girls profile as they know it will bring more attention.

I find that extremely annoying as well :mad:
Let us know about them :-)
I've also found it the other way around as they get to much attention....
Single fem profiles. Dont drag in the perverts tou know. Lol.
Maybe they cant afford the Likewise. Sh have changed singles profiles to couples with out their consent because they play together as well
As single... Thats just wrong. We should let people be whoever they want to.... After all
There are a million memebers you dont have to correspond with anyone you dont wnt too """""
I am a male age 37
Looking for single female
"hit search"
23908 profiles
Profile 1: Hi im Cindy I only meet with my partner
Back button
Profile 2: Hi Im Jane I only meet with my fuck buddy
Back button
Profile 3: Hi Im Bobbetta not meeting alone anymore
Give up
Honestly, what a waste of my time in the example above. Perhaps the profiles need more options and the search needs more filters. So men or couples can search girls that meet alone. This should be simple, not a chore.
Prfile : Hi I'm m1ssvery. wave

keep the faith

14 Jun 2012

Quote by M1ssVery

Profile 1: Hi im Cindy I only meet with my partner
Back button
Profile 2: Hi Im Jane I only meet with my fuck buddy
Back button
Profile 3: Hi Im Bobbetta not meeting alone anymore

Prfile : Hi I'm m1ssvery. wave

keep the faith
You're obviously not real. You can capitalise and correctly use apostrophes.

14 Jun 2012

Haha. Seems to be a reigion i did same search and they all looked ok to me.. Maybe theres more lonesome single fema down sarrf
Someone hand me a hankie ,,,,

16 Jun 2012

Quote by tweeky
I am a male age 37
Looking for single female
"hit search"
23908 profiles
Profile 1: Hi im Cindy I only meet with my partner
Back button
Profile 2: Hi Im Jane I only meet with my fuck buddy
Back button
Profile 3: Hi Im Bobbetta not meeting alone anymore
Give up
Honestly, what a waste of my time in the example above. Perhaps the profiles need more options and the search needs more filters. So men or couples can search girls that meet alone. This should be simple, not a chore.

As a currently single man who's dipped in and out of this site for a few years, that hasn't been my experience at all.
I just accept that single guys are outnumbered, so I don't expect the same level of attention. However, attitude helps, and if you're too cynical then you will give up too easily ... make the best of yourself and stay positive. Nobody likes a miseryguts, lol.
I've certainly had my moments on here.

16 Jun 2012

Quote by noladreams
I think I'm working on the basis that 'strings' for me mean emotional attachments. It is quite possible to find folk interested in sex without attachment

I think "strings" can be different for different people.
Some people want "no strings", but they also want something regular ... but that in itself is a string. To have something completely free from ties it also need to be free from expectations - including whether you see them regularly, or "as and when" or never again.
Yes of course that's possible, but in my experience you never know how things are gonna pan out until you actually start seeing someone ... you might set the intention for a one-nighter, but are so blown away that you want more and more. Or, you might set out with the intention of a relationship, only to find that they're simply not what you hoped for.
Every experience is different, but the problem with meeting online is that people often close the door to the surprise element.