Well, I'm a single guy so what do I know, but if you ask me whether it's cheating would depend on whether your wife knows about it or not.
If your gonna swing behind your wifes back then yes its cheating,its no different to cheating in any other if your wife knows about it and consents to you going solo then theres no quarms,but you have to fully know the risks of jealousy with this.
I'm kind of thinking though from what youve put that she won't know and if she got jealous of seeing you with other women then she won't be at all happy of you doing it behind her back.
If it's deceitful it's cheating. Even if it is not deceitful you've got to be sure that you or your wife are not deceiving your/herself about whether you really want to do it. If you are then there is trouble ahead.
Hey prof, I believe you already know the answer to that question. Maybe you've heard things you've wanted to hear on here, maybe you haven't. But you do know what's right and what's not.
Good luck whatever your choice.
I think what worries me more than if its cheating or not, is the fact that married men come to swinging sites for a quick shag, because they have needs they want to do something about. I think it can give people the wrong impression of what swinging is about.
Dawn :silly:
Yes, but if wifey is financially minded she might start to notice if mysterious £50/£100/more cash withdrawals suddenly start appearing on her bank statement... :shock:
In my opinion of course its cheating if she doesnt know about it,why dont you speak to her about you have her consent then its an entirely diferent issue.
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of course its cheating if you carry on shagging other women and she dont know about it ffs
but if you ask her and she says its all good and dandy go ahead .then thats ok
bet she dont though :twisted: