It's all a matter of respect

30 May 2006

Quote by Dawn_Mids
Wow! This last post comes from someone I've never met but from someone whom I respect unquestionably

If you do, I hope you have a while. You think I can talk? You have yet to meet the most talkative lady I know :lol2:
I don't think you can talk. I know it.

30 May 2006

Quote by Shireen_Mids
Who would that be then Dawn??

You do come close to Corrie :lol2:

30 May 2006

Quote by westerross
Wow! This last post comes from someone I've never met but from someone whom I respect unquestionably

If you do, I hope you have a while. You think I can talk? You have yet to meet the most talkative lady I know :lol2:
I don't think you can talk. I know it.

:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao::rotflmao: :rotflmao:

30 May 2006

And can you respond to me PMs please - I have some vital questions I want answered (what's whispering in the chatroom? fer a start!)

30 May 2006

Quote by westerross
And can you respond to me PMs please - I have some vital questions I want answered (what's whispering in the chatroom? fer a start!)

Well stop distracting me on the forum then rolleyes

:lol2: :lol2: :lol2:

30 May 2006

Quote by Dawn_Mids
Who would that be then Dawn??

You do come close to Corrie :lol2:
:shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: I never never never never get to speak when I am with Dawn ever ever ever
lol

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30 May 2006

Difficult one for me to answer as my views/needs have changed over my years on this site. I have some extremely good friends, made on this site, who I respect enormously and enjoy being with. We never play... but are edging that way recently, very tentatively and not without trepidation Who knows dunno

:dunno: it the play jeopardises the friendship then it's not for me as I value their friendship above anything.
No easy answer.... sorry for the rambling. Each to their own is the best I can do!!
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30 May 2006

I'm just gonna drop this in for a friend, for a little while wink

30 May 2006

Quote by corriefem
Who would that be then Dawn??

You do come close to Corrie :lol2:
:shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: I never never never never get to speak when I am with Dawn ever ever ever
lol

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
I've been told different! :giggle:

30 May 2006

Until I read TEs post I thought I was out of step in the male world. So many men at work just talk about how many shags they get on a Sat night. One lad came back from Majorca boasting about how many shags he had got, some without even knowing the girls name. (mind the visit the the clinic and the course of treatment did slow him down a bit).
Leaving aside the swinging lifestyle, one time I was giving a female friend of ours a lift home and she said to me, "if you want a shag we can pull over and get in the back". I replied that even if Shel knew about it, cos didn't want to cheat, then I would rather spend a couple of hours kissing her (the friend) then carressing her, then oral, before even thinking about shags. She was taken aback as in her experience, guys just wanted to get her knickers off and get stuck in.
Think as I'm getting older I want quality rather than quanity.
John

30 May 2006

I feel you can build quiet strong friendships with people that you play with as long as you know the limits & when to back out.. Emotions can get in the way & you can get hurt but itâ€™s knowing your limits, & most important knowing yourself. Respecting the people you play with & the big one being honest & trusting each other.
I played with a couple for a long while became a member of their family but I knew the limits which were that neither of them belonged to me. I was a friend & someone that added a little erotic spice to their lives. If at any time I had felt my friendship or our sexual fun was effecting their relationship then I would have ended 's due to respecting their marrage which was more important then me.
I think the kind of relationship I had with this couple is rare in the swinging world & i don't expect to repeat it.