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I must admit....as a single guy, I miss kissing a female partner on a regular basis.......the fems / cpls I meet are not really into kissing strangers...and I agree to a certain extent.
I love kissing and it turns me on so much......I'm into all types of kissing - sloppy & wet, hard and fast, slow & sensual and romantic and meaningful.
I can pleasure myself till the cows cum home however.. a good kiss is worth its weight in gold.....xxx
Marcus..... cool
I agree fella kissing on demand is also sorely missed here too! Also not too sure i'm into sex without the kissing bit first... its such a sexy way to start. wink
We have met some couples who love it and some who hate it... they say its too personal to share... :shock:
Were happy with both to a degree, a few kisses can be great but when a man or a woman just want to keep snogging your face off all night it does get just a bit much lol..
As always just respect wishes, maybe after you guys get to know someone better they may be a little more receptive..
Just our opinion!!
Mike and Julie xx
I'd respect anyone who says they keep kissing for their own partners but it would put me off meeting them to be honest.
Kissing, for me, is such a huge turn on. It's not often I can have a really good snogging session without it leading to something else. It's an essential part of foreplay but it has to be good kissing. I did have a kiss from a woman who made me feel like she wanted to eat my face confused
I do miss not having someone to kiss goodbye, good morning, good night or just because I want to. sad
If I could only partake in one sexual activity ever again - it would be kissing!
I sometimes think I'm a kissing addict.
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I do miss not having someone to kiss goodbye, good morning, good night or just because I want to. sad

Oooh that makes me want to pop over and put it right!!
You didn't mean someone like me did you?
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I do understand couples who don't kiss the people they swing with, but like Sassy-Seren, that would be enough of a reason for me not to play with someone. I love kissing, and I find sex without kissing kind of cold and detached - which isn't my thing. One of the nicest things about the circle of friends I've made here is that I can kiss most of them whenever I see them! biggrin
Kiss my ass :giggle:
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Kiss my ass :giggle:

Errrr no I think we'll leave that one to you matey. Watch you don't kiss it goodbye to use another hackneyed phrase.
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I do understand couples who don't kiss the people they swing with, but like Sassy-Seren, that would be enough of a reason for me not to play with someone. I love kissing, and I find sex without kissing kind of cold and detached - which isn't my thing. One of the nicest things about the circle of friends I've made here is that I can kiss most of them whenever I see them! biggrin

Wot she said
(oh yeah, we have the same friends :dohsmile
:love: & kiss es

I think kissing talks the language of love. >>>>>
Anyone fancy talking things over confused:

Phredd :love:
What do people feel about the quality of the kiss?
Soft kissing with the opportunity for eye contact is so sexy in my book - especially when first contact is made. Generally, tongues down throats doesn't do it fer me.
I think kissing in company as opposed one on one is a totally different ball game.
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It's got to start off soft, lips just touching and feeling their breath on your face. A little tongue but not tonsil tennis and certainly NOT kissing like it's feeding time blink
personally im not really into kissing i kiss my partner all the tme but when it comes to givng a complete stranger a full blown snog i must admit it scares me a little i dont mind little kisses th short and sweet ones with people i dont know i have been called a freak on numerous occasions because of it i dont think im freaky its just my personal preference does anyone else think im freaky????
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It's got to start off soft, lips just touching and feeling their breath on your face. A little tongue but not tonsil tennis and certainly NOT kissing like it's feeding time blink

Aaah we see eye to eye so to speak. Why don't we start a two person study group? kiss
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personally im not really into kissing i kiss my partner all the tme but when it comes to givng a complete stranger a full blown snog i must admit it scares me a little i dont mind little kisses th short and sweet ones with people i dont know i have been called a freak on numerous occasions because of it i dont think im freaky its just my personal preference does anyone else think im freaky????

Of course you're not a freak. You just have your own preferences that's all. A lot of people find kissing too intimate to share with anyone but their partners so you're not alone there.
Of course you're not a freak. You just have your own preferences that's all. A lot of people find kissing too intimate to share with anyone but their partners so you're not alone there.
thanks for that i guess im just that bit old fashioned when it comes to kissing its something i think is very intimate and to be shared with the one you love biggrin well not just kissing, cudling and nibbling ears is something i dont like done by strangers i dont begrudge anyone who likes a good snog with someone they dont know i can see how it is a turn on for some people (more the singles who may not have that intimacy with some one close) one man i arranged to meet about 2 years ago would not meet me because i would not give him a snog when he walked through the door single guys and gals what your opinion???
i love to kiss but its always better with the one you love.
Tina xxx
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It's got to start off soft, lips just touching and feeling their breath on your face. A little tongue but not tonsil tennis and certainly NOT kissing like it's feeding time blink

Oh, that's the perfect kiss, the one that makes any resulting sex 10 times more likely to result in orgasm for the woman! :thumbup:
The kiss that doesn't begin with that soft feeling, that's just clumsy and has neither tenderness nor passion nor eroticism in it... that can be a real mood killer sad
This is why most women will dump a guy if the first kiss is bad and also why some swingers shy from kissing, I think confused:
Kisses can really help to build up desire though and on a social meet before a swing, they're a good way to test the water. smile
Holly
To me, kissing is the most important part of being with someone.
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If I could only partake in one sexual activity ever again - it would be kissing!

Hmmmmm, I can think of one or two other sexual activites I couldn't give up but......
Quote by Kiss_Me
I sometimes think I'm a kissing addict.

I have to agree with this too! Once I get my lips on someone, they're not going anywhere for quite a while :twisted: :twisted:
Fee
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Love kissin me.
Not sure about meets if no kissing allowed.
One with kissing would be good too lol
My experience says that it's all about where you kiss.
Respect the fact that some things are reserved for the those closest and everyone is happy.
There are, afterall, so many more wonderful places to spend kissing time....
Gambit
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If I could only partake in one sexual activity ever again - it would be kissing!

Hmmmmm, I can think of one or two other sexual activites I couldn't give up but......
Quote by Kiss_Me
I sometimes think I'm a kissing addict.

I have to agree with this too! Once I get my lips on someone, they're not going anywhere for quite a while :twisted: :twisted:
Fee
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Mind running wild....I'm not going anywhere for a while - does that fit the wishes of the lady Feebee??
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I absoutely love kissing and don't think sex would be the same without the build up beforehand, the passionate kissing during and the soft gentle kissing afterwards.....
Its made even better when the person at the other side of your lips is a fantastic kisser
passionkiss
Quote by LadyFeeBee
If I could only partake in one sexual activity ever again - it would be kissing!

Hmmmmm, I can think of one or two other sexual activites I couldn't give up but......
Quote by Kiss_Me
I sometimes think I'm a kissing addict.

I have to agree with this too! Once I get my lips on someone, they're not going anywhere for quite a while :twisted: :twisted:
Fee
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worship :rascal: passionkiss
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I absoutely love kissing and don't think sex would be the same without the build up beforehand, the passionate kissing during and the soft gentle kissing afterwards.....

Absolutely. Kissing is part of the pleasure. Just sex on its own is good. But it can only be fantastic when you add in the rest of the package.
How can kissing someone other than your partner be too intimate......what more intimate than giving oral sex??
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How can kissing someone other than your partner be too intimate......what more intimate than giving oral sex??

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How can kissing someone other than your partner be too intimate......what more intimate than giving oral sex??

Don't agree. Mouth to mouth kissing is the most intimate form of kissing. It is equal - it can have eye contact - oral sex can sometimes be quite impersonal by comparison.
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