I was in the gym today ( I always put on weight in the winter ), and was a real struggle. There were loads of guys preening themselves , looking in mirrors and working on pecs, arms , 6 pack etc. It made me think is that really all worth it. I know alot of guys who have a good sex life but not the perfect body. Also had read an article about some ladies prefering bigger men. Wondering what the swinging ladies preference was.
As with females, for me its the personailty.
Have had bigger men in my life and was great fun.
Now am with lean hunk with thigh muscles that just make me go like jelly whenever I touch them :P
So I guess again its all about personailty :swingingchair:
and those thigh muscles :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
There's hope for me yet :lol2:
I love muscles yum yum. Not so big that all the veins stick out and they look like theyll burst but a nice flat tum and big arms...swoon!
I'm a bit of an arm fan myself. Not the pretty-boy over worked type- but the type made strong by years of manual labour :swoons:
wooooooooo theres hope for me yet lol
Like has already been said, there can be something attractive and sexy about slim, muscular or larger guys.
I get hugely turned on by the way slim guys look, i LOVE a flat tummy with a line of hair leading my eye ...
On the other hand, nothing feels as good as being cuddeled up by a big guy - lying on his chest or arm and feeling a thin layer of soft fat covering a hard layer of muscle ....
Oh god, i need to go lie down !
Trix xx
i like men who dont take longer than me to get ready in the morning ... i prefer a man with a belly i like big bear hug men, they have to be to be able to get there arms around me and my boobs..... ive had men that do the six packs an the preening and to be honest give me a man with a belly any day ........ x
All these lovely ladies that love bellies :love:
What about those 'thinner' types, who have niether the extra wieght/bulk, nor the six-packs... you know; the skinny ones...
just asking, out of interest like.
lp
not on the belly, surely?
lp
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you should want to do this for you not for what other think of you, if your only going to the gym to get more women attracted to you i'd give up now cause you'll never stick to it long tearm, do it for yourself your the only person that matters, if your happy as you are stay as you are 
