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Ladies, How easily can you orgasm?

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Quote by dekntan
extremely hard redface
i climaxe plenty but never actually get to orgasm, think ive only ever had 2 orgasms in my life one was with mr rabbit and other was with dek, moderate alcohol a long tongue and a rather keen finger biggrin :D

Hey! whats the differece between Orgasm and climax? I thought they were the same :shock: confused please dont be telling me that I've got to 42 and there's a whole lot more stuff I don't know about?????
I have to hold back during mish, I have cum in seconds before with lots of forplay before mish. (I think John just thrusted in about two or three times)
The problem I am like a man, once I have come all I want to do is roll over and have a sleep.
Quote by firelizard
extremely hard redface
i climaxe plenty but never actually get to orgasm, think ive only ever had 2 orgasms in my life one was with mr rabbit and other was with dek, moderate alcohol a long tongue and a rather keen finger biggrin :D

Hey! whats the differece between Orgasm and climax? I thought they were the same :shock: confused please dont be telling me that I've got to 42 and there's a whole lot more stuff I don't know about?????
Well if you don't know Fire, then neither do I - I always understand the words 'orgasm' and 'climax' to be interchangeable, in a sexual context.
Is it age related I wonder? My OH has speeded up loads as we have aged and I have slowed down! She has been gone and done the washing before I get there!
Quote by Bonedigger
furious rubbing!!!

slow gentle/fast gentle build up works............. :twisted:
Quote by Bonedigger
I swear to god that I must be 'not quite right' in that department lol Maybe my clit isnt where its supposed to be, or is the size of a blinking pin head, and not as big as it should be, but I seriously dont think Im 'normal' LOL

Everybody's different and so everything is normal, provided everyone involved is alright with it. It's just a question of finding how different people 'work' and going with it. That's what makes meeting different people so interesting. You learn new things and learn how to appreciate people for who they are.
However Mrs B I'd be happy to have a look just to make sure things are alright redface surprisedops: :oops:
:inlove:

:thumbup: :inlove: :smitten: passionkiss 69position hump
I think it depends on what's being done to me by him ( or her wink ) I know a guy who has the best tongue in the entire world and I've had the most intense orgasms with him. :twisted:
Quote by Bonedigger

:thumbup: :inlove: :smitten: passionkiss 69position hump

Maybe I should time you and see how long it takes you to cum
:hump: :hump: :hump:
When it does happen - what does it feel like? Lasses have told me it is the best feeling ever, it takes over your whole body, is this true?
Quote by Amazing_dan
When it does happen - what does it feel like? Lasses have told me it is the best feeling ever, it takes over your whole body, is this true?

oh yes hun....when it does happen it builds up and the only way i can describe it is, you know when you wanna great big sneeze, and you get that tingle on your nose and it builds up until you have this massive BIG sneeze and then you feel soooooooooooooooo good :thumbup: An orgasm is like a big sneeze for your clitty....or a sneeze is an orgasm of your nose lol
haha now I understand why your gutted you dont have more x
Quote by Bonedigger
An orgasm is like a big sneeze for your clitty....

Fancy a big sneeze together hun :inlove:
Quote by bbw_lover
An orgasm is like a big sneeze for your clitty....

Fancy a big sneeze together hun :inlove:
sweetie, I would have the 'flu with you hump
Quote by Bonedigger
An orgasm is like a big sneeze for your clitty....

Fancy a big sneeze together hun :inlove:
sweetie, I would have the 'flu with you hump
Is this where someone says *get a room you three* lol :lol: :lol:
wink
:twisted: if we did I wouldnt let BBW_lover out for a week :twisted:
Quote by Bonedigger
An orgasm is like a big sneeze for your clitty....

Fancy a big sneeze together hun :inlove:
sweetie, I would have the 'flu with you hump
Lets's start sneezing sweetheart :inlove:
:hump: :hump: :hump:
Quote by Bonedigger
:twisted: if we did I wouldnt let BBW_lover out for a week :twisted:

Sounds like bliss
:inlove:
bless you both lol again and again
Quote by mazandden
Faaaaaar too easily! I usually have to hold myself back!
But only from penetration- I'm weird, and I find it easier to cum from anal than oral!
With oral, they'd have to be down there a VERY long time and I'd have to be very relaxed!
Mind you, with someone other than Den it would also take a very long time.
If I'm doing it myself, then I reckon I could beat any guy hands down! redface

ooh er I am the opposite to Maz, I can orgasm so easily from oral, multiply so, but have never managed one from penetration be it a finger or a cock sad I don't think I have a g-spot, have tried but to no avail.
My rabbit can take approx 30 seconds if I am in need! :lol2:
But I do find it harder to orgasm when playing than with blue (well he should know after all these years of how to satisfy me!)
Also on another tangent, I find that if I am teetering on that damn plateau then I just need to have a wicked thought that will push me over the edge, so I am convinced (with me anyway) that some orgasms are very much linked to your mind. An example, was having a much needed J Arthur the other lunchtime, knowing blue would walk in the door at any moment, stayed on that plateau for a few mins then as soon as I heard the key in the door, it sent me into orgasm.
pink x
An interesting thread.
I orgasm far easier through manual stimulation or penetration than I do through oral sex.
About 4 weeks after my hysterectomy I was absolutely gagging for it but still had 2 weeks before being given the all clear from the doc so I decided on a little self experimentation. I had a very tentative and gentle lady wank and I have to admit to having one of the strongest orgasms ever! :shock:
They reckon a woman's libido can decline after the op or they dry up a little. Neither is true in my case I'm glad to say wink
Quote by Sassy-Seren
About 4 weeks after my hysterectomy I was absolutely gagging for it but still had 2 weeks before being given the all clear from the doc so I decided on a little self experimentation. I had a very tentative and gentle lady wank and I have to admit to having one of the strongest orgasms ever! :shock:

:whistle: LOL it wasn't just me then .... never have replicated that one!!!
I can orgasm quite easily, ladywanks can take me all of 4 minutes to start and complete!
I can't orgasm through penetrative sex so for longevity that's the best way to have sex, however, clit stimulation via either tongue or fingers I have to hold back.
I'm not multi-orgasmic though evil One good orgasm (and they are generally very deep and powerful) and that's me well and truly fucked for the session!
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