Ladies, How easily can you orgasm?

17 Aug 2007

Serious question (rare for me I know), but the 'do you fake it' thread got me thinking....
How easily do you ladies reach orgasm??
This is probably too much information....but, I find it incredibly hard, and rarely do so during in sex. Im better with doing it myself, or if Mr Bone masturbates me inside He has VERY magic finger wink

, while I concentrate on my clitoris.......concentrate being the operative word....
I swear to god that I must be 'not quite right' in that department lol

Maybe my clit isnt where its supposed to be, or is the size of a blinking pin head, and not as big as it should be, but I seriously dont think Im 'normal' LOL
I once read an article years ago about a woman who orgasmed in a supermarket, listening to the man on the deli counter talk to another customer about chees, because his voice was so sexy.....now I'm not after that, else I would never get my shopping done :lol2:
but just for it to be easier and likely to happen everytime I had/have a sexual encounter, and not just after 20 minutes of furious rubbing!!!
Now Ive probably jeapordised any further meets with anyone ever again rotflmao

.....tell me how easy it is for you lot to reach the heights of ecstasy

17 Aug 2007

Don`t worry Mrs B I find it very difficult to orgasm so either were both "broken" :shock: :lol2: in that dept or its just perfectly normal lol

. Do you find it harder to orgasm when youv`e had a few to drink?. I do and was wondering if it was quite common.

17 Aug 2007

Sorry I'm far too worried about my orgasm to ask about hers!
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But I do know an fb who looses the plot in a record two mins!

17 Aug 2007

Quote by redpantherman
Sorry I'm far too worried about my orgasm to ask about hers

But I do know an fb who looses the plot in a record two mins!

And that's not me, before anyone asks! lol

17 Aug 2007

Quote by lyns
Don`t worry Mrs B I find it very difficult to orgasm so either were both "broken" :shock: :lol2: in that dept or its just perfectly normal . Do you find it harder to orgasm when youv`e had a few to drink?. I do and was wondering if it was quite common.

definitely with you on the drinking thing.....any more than a glass of vino and it's pretty much impossible for me. sad

I find that I can orgasm quite quickly although I have to be in exactly the right mind frame and totally relaxed or it just won't happen at all......so much so that I often find it difficult with new partnerif I'm nervous etc

17 Aug 2007

extremely hard redface

i climaxe plenty but never actually get to orgasm, think ive only ever had 2 orgasms in my life one was with mr rabbit and other was with dek, moderate alcohol a long tongue and a rather keen finger biggrin

:D

17 Aug 2007

Faaaaaar too easily! I usually have to hold myself back!
But only from penetration- I'm weird, and I find it easier to cum from anal than oral!
With oral, they'd have to be down there a VERY long time and I'd have to be very relaxed!
Mind you, with someone other than Den it would also take a very long time.
If I'm doing it myself, then I reckon I could beat any guy hands down! redface

17 Aug 2007

Quote by Freckledbird
Sorry I'm far too worried about my orgasm to ask about hers

But I do know an fb who looses the plot in a record two mins!

And that's not me, before anyone asks! lol

Its so good to get clarification on that one
Well it does make one wonder :lol:

17 Aug 2007

Quote by mazandden
Faaaaaar too easily! I usually have to hold myself back!
But only from penetration- I'm weird, and I find it easier to cum from anal than oral!
With oral, they'd have to be down there a VERY long time and I'd have to be very relaxed!
Mind you, with someone other than Den it would also take a very long time.
If I'm doing it myself, then I reckon I could beat any guy hands down!

Sounds Like a challenge?? (Cough) x

17 Aug 2007

Shel orgasms very easily, from just about any form of simulation.
Downside to that is, if we're with another couple, I can hear Shel coming, then coming then coming again, meanwhile I'm giving it all I've got with the other woman, then looking at my watch, perhaps looking at a calendar, wondering what I'm doing wrong. Usually manage to get her there in the end tho biggrin

John

17 Aug 2007

Quote by Bonedigger
Serious question (rare for me I know), but the 'do you fake it' thread got me thinking....
How easily do you ladies reach orgasm??

Incredibly easy sometimes ( I am talking 30 seconds lady garden massaging redface

)
Although it's not usually that quick, I don't usually have difficulty in 'getting there', unless I am really stressed or the lady or gent in question is not doing it for me confused

17 Aug 2007

Quote by BiWelshMinx
Serious question (rare for me I know), but the 'do you fake it' thread got me thinking....
How easily do you ladies reach orgasm??

Incredibly easy sometimes ( I am talking 30 seconds lady garden massaging redface

)
Although it's not usually that quick, I don't usually have difficulty in 'getting there', unless I am really stressed or the lady or gent in question is not doing it for me confused

bloody hell BWM....ya jammy cow!!! Oh how i wish I could get there as easily as that lol lol

17 Aug 2007

I have always found it really easy to cum, since I lost my virginity. although like most women i have to be in the mood. I think I'm really lucky though cos i can cum through both clitoral stim and full sex.

17 Aug 2007

god, i think I will be a challenge for anyone at Sugs party in september, thats for sure!!

17 Aug 2007

Quote by BiWelshMinx
Serious question (rare for me I know), but the 'do you fake it' thread got me thinking....
How easily do you ladies reach orgasm??

Incredibly easy sometimes ( I am talking 30 seconds lady garden massaging redface

)
Although it's not usually that quick, I don't usually have difficulty in 'getting there', unless I am really stressed or the lady or gent in question is not doing it for me confused

yep with the rabbit, I will only last this long then I go into a deep sleep !
Who needs men ! :twisted:

17 Aug 2007

Quote by BiWelshMinx
Serious question (rare for me I know), but the 'do you fake it' thread got me thinking....
How easily do you ladies reach orgasm??

Incredibly easy sometimes ( I am talking 30 seconds lady garden massaging redface

)
Although it's not usually that quick, I don't usually have difficulty in 'getting there', unless I am really stressed or the lady or gent in question is not doing it for me confused

yep with the rabbit, I will only last this long then I go into a deep sleep !
Who needs men ! :twisted:

17 Aug 2007

Quote by Bonedigger
Serious question (rare for me I know), but the 'do you fake it' thread got me thinking....
How easily do you ladies reach orgasm??

Incredibly easy sometimes ( I am talking 30 seconds lady garden massaging redface

)
Although it's not usually that quick, I don't usually have difficulty in 'getting there', unless I am really stressed or the lady or gent in question is not doing it for me confused

bloody hell BWM....ya jammy cow!!! Oh how i wish I could get there as easily as that lol lol

Quote by Bonedigger
This is probably too much information....but, I find it incredibly hard, and rarely do so during in sex. Im better with doing it myself, or if Mr Bone masturbates me inside He has VERY magic finger , while I concentrate on my clitoris.......concentrate being the operative word....
I swear to god that I must be 'not quite right' in that department :lol: Maybe my clit isnt where its supposed to be, or is the size of a blinking pin head, and not as big as it should be, but I seriously dont think Im 'normal' LOL

I don't think there's anything 'wrong' or 'not normal' with you Mrs Bone, as you have said you can do it by yourself. Everyone is different! I can cum through sex (although it takes longer) and I find oral sex takes longer again (strange I know) but I have found, if I am in the right mood, I can cum without even having to undo my jeans! I enjoy mental stimulation and while I put a lot of it down to a vivid imagination, I have also noticed that the more relaxed I am the easier the orgasm ;)

17 Aug 2007

Quote by Geordiecpl2001
Shel orgasms very easily, from just about any form of simulation.
Downside to that is, if we're with another couple, I can hear Shel coming, then coming then coming again, meanwhile I'm giving it all I've got with the other woman, then looking at my watch, perhaps looking at a calendar . . .
John

:rotflmao: :rotflmao:
should really leave this one to gem, but that's most definitely one of the downsides to having multi-orgasmic-in-2-minutes-flat partners. quite disheartening to find it ain't all down to your superlative bedroom skills after all, ain't it? confused

n x x x ;)

17 Aug 2007

Whats an orgasm then? confused

:?

17 Aug 2007

Orgasm? Is'nt that one of those little things you find under a microscope dunno

17 Aug 2007

lol

thanks for all your replies...keep em coming

17 Aug 2007

I can empathise Mrs B, I used to find it really difficult to orgasm, I was 23 when I had my first one and that was after trying with a vibrator for a year :shock: Not continuously I hasten to add lol

Now things are better and getting easier the more practice I get! In fact the other week Mr Yummy literally put the tip of his finger on my clit and I was there. Not sure who was more surprised, me or him but it was my quickest and easiest orgasm to date :shock: We're now working on trying to make me squirt, I'm not there yet but y'know, damn, more practice needed wink

If I won the lottery, I'd buy one of these and not go out for a few weeks :lol:

17 Aug 2007

Quote by anais
Whats an orgasm then? :?

I'm sure we could arrange for you to find out :rascal:

17 Aug 2007

Quote by Mallock2006
Whats an orgasm then? :?

I'm sure we could arrange for you to find out :rascal: Your such a pal kiss

17 Aug 2007

Quote by anais
Whats an orgasm then? :?

I'm sure we could arrange for you to find out :rascal: Your such a pal kiss

What are friends for ;-)

18 Aug 2007

Orgasm's? Is that right and proper for females :shock: must have a look for one someday! smile

18 Aug 2007

I can make MrsC reach the big O quite easily using my natural toys and her's that need plugging in to the electric grid lol

However, she's only had one orgasm through playing with other couples and it took an absolute eternity to get to!
She's only ever managed to climax once through penetration though which is a strange one to be honest.

18 Aug 2007

I'm with you on this with Mrs Bone can take me ages and rarely if ever through penetration. Not bleedin fair is it? lol
Although multiples are nice and worth the wait lol

18 Aug 2007

personally i find it very hard to orgasum, infact i dont think anyone else has ever made me cum, the only times i have cum with other people about is when i'm using toys on myself and they watching and even then i find it very very hard, saying that if im on my own i can make myself cum quite easy, i think its cause i dont really feel comfy naked or being looked at, i guess relaxing is the key to this problem but i just cant when i'm being watched im to busy breathing in and trying to hide my lumps and bumps :lol2:

18 Aug 2007

Quote by Velvet Lips
Serious question (rare for me I know), but the 'do you fake it' thread got me thinking....
How easily do you ladies reach orgasm??

Incredibly easy sometimes ( I am talking 30 seconds lady garden massaging redface

)
Although it's not usually that quick, I don't usually have difficulty in 'getting there', unless I am really stressed or the lady or gent in question is not doing it for me confused

yep with the rabbit, I will only last this long then I go into a deep sleep !
Who needs men ! :twisted:
pmsl rolleyes