OK I know this question is unbelievably variable, but lets talk averages if we can, with a regular partner, and assume an averagely horny want on the part of both parties, a relaxed atmosphere, usual setting, you have things to do today but no immediate rush.
Of course lots of you would want it to last longer for the pleasure, so please assume you're just "going for it". I'm just interested to see if there's a handy average out there.
Please also deny yourself a rabbit and ignore masturbation generally, (though not of course as part of foreplay), and if its your habit to give yourself a helping hand include this.
Starting from first kiss.
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LADIES: How long to cum?
Ladies, how long does it take you to cum?
Sex God
On my own, anything from 51 secs (OK, I did used to time myself 
) to 4 mins (the max length of time of an advert break).
With someone else.... how long's a piece of string..... Is it a quicky? If so, errrrrrrrr quick. If it is a longy, errrrrrrr longer. Depends on the person too as well as the situation, and the acts involved, and whether I'm tired, and how good their cum shot is, and whether I want to get home for the F1 highlights, and whether it's raining................. etc etc etc
You're getting my drift here I take it
:dunno: :dunno:
) to 4 mins (the max length of time of an advert break).With someone else.... how long's a piece of string..... Is it a quicky? If so, errrrrrrrr quick. If it is a longy, errrrrrrr longer. Depends on the person too as well as the situation, and the acts involved, and whether I'm tired, and how good their cum shot is, and whether I want to get home for the F1 highlights, and whether it's raining................. etc etc etc
You're getting my drift here I take it
:dunno: :dunno: Sex God
Quote by lancyuk
' whether I want to get home for the F1 highlights'
dribble!
Sex God
Quote by lancyuk
ignore me, i have a women and motorsport fetish.
Right. have you thought of seeking help :uhoh:
Sexpert
Quote by lancyuk
haha, im not sure its got to problem levels yet.
im sure there are worse turn ons out there.
we're sure there are too hun , but the way we look at it is if it doest hurt anyone then its not a bad one ((well unless the reciepient wants hurt that))
matt
erm about 13minutes to 15 minutes usually allthough id say its just like blue said so many factors involved aslong as it never takes me aslong to cum as it once took matt then im happy
crystal
Never thought about it. Women's sexuality aren't like men (on average 3 minutes and he's battery is flat with the sperm squirting).
The time taken to cum (and frequency of cum for multiple orgasms) depends on the skills of the man giving the pleasure to the woman with the masterful use of his fingers/hands, tongue/lips/mouth and finally his love tool and knowing the pace of love making that is required to sustain her sexual interest/mood.
The time taken to cum (and frequency of cum for multiple orgasms) depends on the skills of the man giving the pleasure to the woman with the masterful use of his fingers/hands, tongue/lips/mouth and finally his love tool and knowing the pace of love making that is required to sustain her sexual interest/mood.
Sex God
Quote by musketeer
You're getting my drift here I take it
Your proclivities are well known, but I did TRY to specify some caveats like regular partner, usual place, no wanking etc. for just the reasons you so carefully ignored!
What about people who don't have a regular partner, or a regular place, or even a regular activity that they carry out..... errrrrrrrrrr............. regularly............?
Sex God
Quote by musketeer
What about people who don't have a regular partner, or a regular place, or even a regular activity that they carry out..... errrrrrrrrrr............. regularly............?
Don't vote! Not compulsory.
I didn't vote.
But not a very good poll if a large proportion of sexually active females cannot vote, is it
:? :? :? :? From experience, I've cum before without the stimulant from sexual activities. There was this great party with great food (buffet representing different cuisines of the world) and I was so excited as I danced away, I felt the gushing...wetting myself. With the right music and party environment, cumming in less than 5 minutes.
Oh ffs....I can cum at the first touch of my hair if it's the right person and we've had the right mental build up.
If it's a fumbling idiot....fucking ages :twisted:
But if in the hands of an evil git who knows what he's doing with my body......then the time I take to cum absolutely depends on him....when he deems I should
If it's a fumbling idiot....fucking ages :twisted:
But if in the hands of an evil git who knows what he's doing with my body......then the time I take to cum absolutely depends on him....when he deems I should
Sex God
Quote by naughtynymphos1
If it's a fumbling idiot....fucking ages :twisted:
:laughabove:
thats about 90% of them then
*ahem*
I resent that !! Not all us idiots fumble !
Quote by bluexxx
But not a very good poll if a large proportion of sexually active females cannot vote, is it
You must play on Tony's team, non PC to be excluded. Not everyone can have everything, for a start you won't sleep with me because I don't meet your criteria, (I'd like to btw), is it unfair?
Sex God
Quote by musketeer
But not a very good poll if a large proportion of sexually active females cannot vote, is it
You must play on Tony's team, non PC to be excluded. Not everyone can have everything, for a start you won't sleep with me because I don't meet your criteria, (I'd like to btw), is it unfair?
Tony who? :?
What does choosing who I shag, and saying your poll isn't representing what you think it is representing, have in common?
Sorry, not following
Quote by musketeer
Starting from first kiss.
If you are focussing on your regular partner, the first kiss is the one that you wake up to in the morning, that is the start of foreplay and everything builds from that kiss.
It might be days before you actually get round to 'finishing'. Foreplay is something that should be a constant part of a couples life, looks, words, touches, all of this plays a part in building up excitement and anticipation.
So 20 minutes seems a bit short to me. Try changing all the units to hours and I'll give the vote a go.
lhk
Kat
Orgasminator
Quote by KitKat
Foreplay is something that should be a constant part of a couples life, looks, words, touches, all of this plays a part in building up excitement and anticipation.
Kat
Perfectly said... God, I'm sooooooooo glad I'm married to GT 'cos he introduced me to the foreplay you describe. It's lovely!
Quote by WibblyWobbly
Foreplay is something that should be a constant part of a couples life, looks, words, touches, all of this plays a part in building up excitement and anticipation.
Kat
Perfectly said... God, I'm sooooooooo glad I'm married to GT 'cos he introduced me to the foreplay you describe. It's lovely!
Yeah me too, so totally agree. I'm cumming already just by the thought of the above.
Quote by bluexxx
What does choosing who I shag, and saying your poll isn't representing what you think it is representing, have in common?
Sorry, not following
Well it perfectly represents what I wanted it to, which was the reaction time for established couples. As to the connection, it's only because my question was my choice too.
