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A friend of mine disclosed to me that she could not read the other day & has asked if I could help her learn to read.
I feel honoured in helping her however I 'm a bit stuck as to where to start. Do I start with the ABC's? I've been looking online for some good exercises that I could print & use however they all seem to be based around children.
So my question is folks, can anyone help with some links or any advice would be very welcome
awaiting to take :notes:
Quote by hisandhers
A friend of mine disclosed to me that she could not read the other day & has asked if I could help her learn to read.
I feel honoured in helping her however I 'm a bit stuck as to where to start. Do I start with the ABC's? I've been looking online for some good exercises that I could print & use however they all seem to be based around children.
So my question is folks, can anyone help with some links or any advice would be very welcome
awaiting to take :notes:

I'll send you a PM with some links, Hers. They are for children but it matters not - the principle is the same for any age learning to read.
Quote by Freckledbird
A friend of mine disclosed to me that she could not read the other day & has asked if I could help her learn to read.
I feel honoured in helping her however I 'm a bit stuck as to where to start. Do I start with the ABC's? I've been looking online for some good exercises that I could print & use however they all seem to be based around children.
So my question is folks, can anyone help with some links or any advice would be very welcome
awaiting to take :notes:

I'll send you a PM with some links, Hers. They are for children but it matters not - the principle is the same for any age learning to read.
:happy: just seen you in here & I was hoping you could help kiss thank you hun
Quote by flower411
A friend of mine disclosed to me that she could not read the other day & has asked if I could help her learn to read.
I feel honoured in helping her however I 'm a bit stuck as to where to start. Do I start with the ABC's? I've been looking online for some good exercises that I could print & use however they all seem to be based around children.
So my question is folks, can anyone help with some links or any advice would be very welcome
awaiting to take :notes:

I had a labourer working for me for a while who said that he couldn`t read.
The longer we worked together the more evident it became that his reading skills were a little bit better than he had made out. He was able to work out warning signs and slogans on the backs of cars etc etc.
What was lacking was the confidence to actually say out loud the words and he was also worried about making mistakes.
The longer we worked together the more confident he became and less worried about looking stupid when he made mistakes.
I`m taking a wild guess that this is why you`re friend has asked you to help her, she feels comfortable with you and knows that you won`t take the piss.
So I`d start by gently finding out what level of reading skills she already has.
Hope that makes sense.
thanks flower. This is the reason why she has not approached anyone before in fear of being judged as being stupid. Year after year she has wanted to learn however not found the help - she is now 35.
I feel quite priviledged that she has been able to ask me It may help me with my bad spelling as well :giggle:
Many years ago I attended a course on teaching reading skills to adults, now a lot of it sadly forgotten. One technique we used was to get them to recognise just the main words in a sentence - adults have enough of a grasp of the language to fill in the blanks.
One easy task is to go through the kitchen cupboards or find any everyday item that are labled. Pick up packs of food and get them to read the lables, just the main part rather than the small print. They'll already know many of the words without realising it.
Concentrate on words that they're likely to come into contact with every day so that they learn these quickly. This will help them build up confidence to tackle more difficult words.
Hope that helps a little. Good luck.
There are plenty of adult courses to help with reading and writing, not meaning to be rude but wouldn't she be better going to a professional person whos qualified in this kind of thing? most collages run courses now smile
Quote by hisandhers
A friend of mine disclosed to me that she could not read the other day & has asked if I could help her learn to read.
I feel honoured in helping her however I 'm a bit stuck as to where to start. Do I start with the ABC's? I've been looking online for some good exercises that I could print & use however they all seem to be based around children.
So my question is folks, can anyone help with some links or any advice would be very welcome
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A particularly good place to start is
They can give advice on courses to take and as it's basic literacy i think these course are free/have grants available. They are the experts on this and will be able to help your friend. Lots of good links on there too.
Hope this helps.
Mr Classy
I've taught basic adukt literacy and numeracy at a local college. My advice would be to seek the 'Adult Guidance' person within your local college if at all possible. Though it was over 5 years ago now, I do believe it is still free.
We had issues with people being embarrassed about coming forward to learn, to be honest its probably the biggest barrier. However how about goping along with your friend to the see adult literacy bods? During my time a couple of people had friends along with them for confidence, we certainly in our group didn't mind. In fact you might find you have something to offer in the teaching line through going along...
Great that your giving your support - respect and good to hear. Many people who have literacy issues are afraid to come forward. What surprises most is the fact that when they do, how well they get on. Sometimes its the thought that its all a little like "when I was at school" syndrome. It so isn't either. When someone 'wants' to learn it makes it all so much easier.
Maybe you could experiment first to see what suits???
Many well known publishers have downloadable exercises and material for reading. It's always best to see what's available and what you think you'll need for your friend.
Usually these things are course-led and you can therefore get the right material according to your ability e.g. Beginner, Intermediate etc.