Join the most popular community of UK swingers now
Login

Lights on or off?

last reply
22 replies
1.3k views
0 watchers
0 likes
I work for a supermarket, and everyone on my department is female, so no doubt you can guess some of the conversations that we end up having at times!
Now, no one at work knows about my "second life" on here, and what i get up to at "the weekends", however, we was having a chat about as to if we "do it" with the lights on or off!
I myself(mrs hell) prefere it with the lights off, its not that i have a problem with myself as in the way i look naked(and on that note i dont love my self either lol surprisedppssmile, i just feel more comfortable in the "safeness" of the dark.
However, saying that, when i use clubs to play i know there isnt always the choice as to if you have the lights on or not. And this has never stopped me enjoying myself and "getting down and dirty".
So my question is, do you prefere the lights on or off when your getting "down and dirty" in the bedroom/living room/bath room or any other room of your choosing :lol: ?
Would you only do it if the lights were on or off depending on your preference or would you let it stop you?
Or are you not bothered either way?
I've never really thought about it - so thank you for starting a thought I'd not had before.
having thought about it I think I prefer subdued light. And that's ALL about how I look. LOL. But I do love the whole ambience thing that candle light gives. Loads of candles that it, at least 12.
Having said that, I don't think lack of the 'right' lighting would stop me having a great time with the right person - or people.
oooooh i must say i do like candle light, but maybe thats the romantic side coming out of me
Lights on, so I can see which bits go where and what I am doing wrong...
Ever tried to do a jigsaw puzzle in the dark?
;-)
Quote by Resonance
Lights on, so I can see which bits go where and what I am doing wrong...
Ever tried to do a jigsaw puzzle in the dark?
;-)

lol but thats why i like it! lol! i love the feeling around, fumbling in a strange sort of teasing way!
I prefer fairly bright lighting if the fun is being filmed..
But doing it in the dark can be more exciting, especially if there are more than 2 people involved.
I like to see what I'm eating
lp
}in edit: I do beg your pardon, I had been perusing 'stars', another forum I frequent for the Culinary Challenged who aspire to run and gain merit/esteem for thier skill and inventiveness.
oh lord! What did I post in thier "stuffing and wrapping" thread?{
hmmm......
not really thought about this until you mentioned it. I guess like everything its a good mixture on and off. But deep down thinking about it i think i prefer it off or mellowed down.
Maybe even with a few candles flickering in the background.
I like the lights dim personally, not too bright, not too dark, creates a nice ambient atmosphere I think!
I like the dark and it has nothing to do with how anyone looks lol. It is just that in the dark your other senses are hightend, touch, smell, taste all pick up to make up for the lack of sight.
biggrin
Lights on so I can see what happening touch feel and enjoy but I do like to close my eyes and touch and feel aand enjoy
Quote by The_third_man
I like the dark and it has nothing to do with how anyone looks lol. It is just that in the dark your other senses are hightend, touch, smell, taste all pick up to make up for the lack of sight.
biggrin

Thats coz your one ugly b****r, and you know we would run away scared if we saw you!! lol :twisted:
When I was married to my first hubby, I wanted the lights off all the time, as he was not nice about my body, and made me feel very uncomfortable about myself.
Now, its lights on all the time, dim or full on, we dont mind!
I also like to see a mans face when having sex, as I think it speaks volumes, and for them to see mine also!
I am sure on or off, we will all still be having fun! smile
I like atmospheric lighting although I find I often close my eyes anyway. MrG likes the lights on too. If we disagree about the level of lighting, there's always blindfolds :twisted:
Quote by Lucyandmike7
When I was married to my first hubby, I wanted the lights off all the time, as he was not nice about my body, and made me feel very uncomfortable about myself.smile

It is terrible when Myopia goes undetected like this. I hope he has since been to an optician, or has had a personality transplant, or both...
Oi!!! how am I going to pull if you say things like that!! I am gorgeous, I have the handsome look of Les Dawson!:2fingers: lol :lol:
Quote by Lucyandmike7
I like the dark and it has nothing to do with how anyone looks lol. It is just that in the dark your other senses are hightend, touch, smell, taste all pick up to make up for the lack of sight.
biggrin

Thats coz your one ugly b****r, and you know we would run away scared if we saw you!! :lol: :twisted:
Lamplight, firelight, moonlight, dappled light, that lovely filtering in through the closed white curtains of your Mediterranean hotel in the afternoon light ...
Most of my playtime is during daylight hours & if I do play at night I would appreciate some ambient light.
After all if I'm gonna play with someone I have have fantasied about big time & I have to travel halfway up the country to meet them I don't wanna do it blind! biggrin
But mind you, if I get to shag a certain gobshite in The Wales's I'm gonna bring two paper bags!
One for her & one for me in case hers fall of! bolt
Quote by TheLovelyOne
Lamplight, firelight, moonlight, dappled light, that lovely filtering in through the closed white curtains of your Mediterranean hotel in the afternoon light ...
:inlove: :smoke:
Quote by hell1970
oooooh i must say i do like candle light, but maybe thats the romantic side coming out of me

lights off and tons of candles for me :inlove: there is something about candle light redface surprisedops:
that makes having sex so .......oooooooooooooooh
down side is :shock: was so engrossed in what I was doing threw off my favourite jeans in haste and they landed on some candles :shock: burning a hole in them boo hoo .
steve x