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or maybe it's time you stopped tarting for PM's and left people to contact you if the wanted to .....not cos you were begging for it dunno
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or maybe it's time you stopped tarting for PM's and left people to contact you if the wanted to .....not cos you were begging for it dunno
that seems a little harsh..tis only a bit of fun confused
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or maybe it's time you stopped tarting for PM's and left people to contact you if the wanted to .....not cos you were begging for it dunno
that seems a little harsh..tis only a bit of fun confused
Fun?
Cant be having any of that here!
:giggle:
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or maybe it's time you stopped tarting for PM's and left people to contact you if the wanted to .....not cos you were begging for it dunno

smackbottom Not very nice young lady!
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or maybe it's time you stopped tarting for PM's and left people to contact you if the wanted to .....not cos you were begging for it dunno

Back of the net............ rolleyes
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or maybe it's time you stopped tarting for PM's and left people to contact you if the wanted to .....not cos you were begging for it dunno
that seems a little harsh..tis only a bit of fun confused
Fun?
Cant be having any of that here!
:giggle:quite :?
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or maybe it's time you stopped tarting for PM's and left people to contact you if the wanted to .....not cos you were begging for it dunno

Kate, that is very harsh, I wasnt TARTING, i was having a little fun as the forum has been rather strained of late and i was trying to lighten the mood.
I am mainly here to be nice, make friends and make people happy, and I am really hurt that you decided to publically criticise me for trying to do that!
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or maybe it's time you stopped tarting for PM's and left people to contact you if the wanted to .....not cos you were begging for it dunno

Kate, that is very harsh, I wasnt TARTING, i was having a little fun as the forum has been rather strained of late and i was trying to lighten the mood.
I am mainly here to be nice, make friends and make people happy, and I am really hurt that you decided to publically criticise me for trying to do that!
You dont need to explain like someone has had a bad day confused
That wasnt called for
Mrs Bone.....I didn't criticise you for anything, I merely expressed my opinion. Yours is as valid as mine and I welcome that.
I'm sorry that you see my post as a dig at you and if you are upset by it I apologise.
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or maybe it's time you stopped tarting for PM's and left people to contact you if the wanted to .....not cos you were begging for it dunno

Kate, that is very harsh, I wasnt TARTING, i was having a little fun as the forum has been rather strained of late and i was trying to lighten the mood.
I am mainly here to be nice, make friends and make people happy, and I am really hurt that you decided to publically criticise me for trying to do that!
You dont need to explain like someone has had a bad day confused
That wasnt called for
Thank you Heln, I appreciate your comments a lot. You are a very sweet person both inside and out.
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Do you ever get excited when u see your little red new mail thingy flashing??
I do.....my heart does a littl skip when i see it...

Dearest Bonedigger,
Just sent you a PM. Hope your heart likes it.
From,
Wunderhorse.
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Just at the moment - I dread it!! wink
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Well, what I do, if I've fallen out with someone, especially if I'm hurt, is block them. Then a few days later, if I'm feeling a bit calmer, I unblock them.
Unfortunately, if they have sent a message in the meantime, I don't receive it...
maybe not such a good plan after all...
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Do you ever get excited when u see your little red new mail thingy flashing??
I do.....my heart does a littl skip when i see it...

Dearest Bonedigger,
Just sent you a PM. Hope your heart likes it.
From,
Wunderhorse.
wunderhorse, thank you so much for your kind words, yes my heart did like it biggrin.
Cherry, I hope the message you may or may not have missed gets through, or if it didnt, maybe a different one with lots of smilies in it comes through instead.
Its not nice to be hurt is it?? Especially when you didnt deserve it in the first place, and it kind of makes you want to go away and hide sad
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Its not nice to be hurt is it?? Especially when you didnt deserve it in the first place, and it kind of makes you want to go away and hide sad

With you on that one. Mrs. B. :therethere: kiss
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Its not nice to be hurt is it?? Especially when you didnt deserve it in the first place, and it kind of makes you want to go away and hide sad

With you on that one. Mrs. B. :therethere: kiss
ty babes, that means a lot :kiss: :Kiss: :kiss:
well....
forums are for lighthearted discussions. not to be all serious and nasty. i have read most of the responses... and 1 took my eye. of which my reply wud be ... lighten up. we all swingers, not having to think meets n sex all the time. thats why forums are here ... fer gods sake,, use em wisely. if u dont agree to a point and u need to be vexxed, then dont fookin bother upsetting views.
lol.. ere fer a laff. the odd tit n ass.
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Thank you Heln, I appreciate your comments a lot. You are a very sweet person both inside and out.

redface thank you surprisedops:
Wondering when Mrs B saw mi insides :giggle:
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When my little red flashing new mail thingy is on ....it`s usually inviting me to look at a picture of a penis !!
rolleyes

So you look then............... :roll:
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Just at the moment - I dread it!! wink
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Well, what I do, if I've fallen out with someone, especially if I'm hurt, is block them. Then a few days later, if I'm feeling a bit calmer, I unblock them.
Unfortunately, if they have sent a message in the meantime, I don't receive it...
maybe not such a good plan after all...
It certainly blocks any chance of people talking things through and explaining what they mean.
It's not possible to tell whether you've been blocked but if someone doesn't read a PM on a live issue when I know they're on the forum, I would assume that's what happened and delete the message.
All of which goes to prove that the little red flashing thingy is good - even though you might dread them sometimes. :wink:
If you post on this thread does it mean you get lots of flashing thingies from ladies just like BD? :twisted:
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Helps to sort the wheat from the chaff, in a way - at least you know where you stand if you don't get a response. I've only ever blocked a couple of numpties. Well worth it.
sometimes, people can block you in a moment of anger and then regret it later sad by then it could be too late.
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sometimes, people can block you in a moment of anger and then regret it later sad by then it could be too late.

Their loss then. wink