hi
reading through the "friend or fuck" thread i wondered what your views on looks and personality are??
i have spent the most of the day near charring cross in london and i think i must have fallen in love about 200 times today lol, for me its looks straight away and for some reason i always presume that a great looking girl has a bubbly happy go lucky personality to go with it but experiance begs to differ...
the girls i get on most with i really dont fancy at all (odd maybe)
so would you guys/gals meet up (for sex) :shock: without knowing what a member of this site loks like just because you get along with them?
what do you think?
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if it was a meet i would have to see who they are first but looks/personality? hmm dif question..... physical attraction is always a winner when you see some one but i can chose personality over looks when i get to know some one. a good looking person who talks to me in a bad way and we dont get along isnt goin to be some one i want to fall in love with so i say personality is most important
yer i waffled on there i think probs dusnt make sense....but sure as hell did make sense in my head
yer i waffled on there i think probs dusnt make sense....but sure as hell did make sense in my head
no it makes sence!
TBH its a bit like that niki from BB (thats big brother not barebackyou dirty minded freaks!), the body of an angel but i wouldnt, i really wouldnt!
trouble is i i didnt find a girl attractive i couldnt do anything with that girl, no chemicals going round..even if i got on with her really well
TBH its a bit like that niki from BB (thats big brother not barebackyou dirty minded freaks!), the body of an angel but i wouldnt, i really wouldnt!
trouble is i i didnt find a girl attractive i couldnt do anything with that girl, no chemicals going round..even if i got on with her really well
Just a few from the search button then I got bored 
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/84115.html?highlight=looks%20and%20personality
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/81221.html?highlight=looks%20and%20personality
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/77640.html?highlight=looks%20and%20personality
:lol:
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/84115.html?highlight=looks%20and%20personality
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/81221.html?highlight=looks%20and%20personality
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/77640.html?highlight=looks%20and%20personality
:lol:
TBH it was more an attempt at getting to know people on here...i could start a thread on automotive pre compressor water injection or something which wouldnt come back in the search function but i doubt you really want to talk about that..
i guess sex is a small subject and just about any sex related question/answer/opinion could be found via the same filter and i guess thats the main coversation topic of the site
kind regards, chris
i guess sex is a small subject and just about any sex related question/answer/opinion could be found via the same filter and i guess thats the main coversation topic of the site
kind regards, chris
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TBH it was more an attempt at getting to know people on here...i could start a thread on automotive pre compressor water injection or something which wouldnt come back in the search function but i doubt you really want to talk about that..
i guess sex is a small subject and just about any sex related question/answer/opinion could be found via the same filter and i guess thats the main coversation topic of the site
regards, chris
oooh now your talking post away you have my attention
you don't have to post on the subject of sex, Its a general banter forum and most topics get an airing from time to time though we do seem to stear clear of religion and politics :scared: as for the links it was me being more helpfull that having a dig at your chosen subject thought you could read the views in them as well as your own thread
When it comes to looks and personality I have them both
well i dont know if you have looked through the forums but that isnt the case...thie topics are vastly those of a sexual nature as you would expect from a site that concerns swingers lol
anyway, if you inject the water before the compressor as opposed to after its almost like moving the whole compressor map, the turbo seems to have far more ability to compress at higher rpms than with a post intercooler WI system, it also tend to suck water through the pump progressively before the pump activates so it kinda builds with boost levels to an extent, its not as good as post turbo WI for detonation reduction though
intercooler effectiveness does drop as intake temps are lower when they come in to the intercooler so there isnt as much heat transfer
methanol injections really good for upping the octane and running lean mixtures!, deffo the way forward!
anyway, if you inject the water before the compressor as opposed to after its almost like moving the whole compressor map, the turbo seems to have far more ability to compress at higher rpms than with a post intercooler WI system, it also tend to suck water through the pump progressively before the pump activates so it kinda builds with boost levels to an extent, its not as good as post turbo WI for detonation reduction though
intercooler effectiveness does drop as intake temps are lower when they come in to the intercooler so there isnt as much heat transfer
methanol injections really good for upping the octane and running lean mixtures!, deffo the way forward!
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anyway, if you inject the water before the compressor as opposed to after its almost like moving the whole compressor map, the turbo seems to have far more ability to compress at higher rpms than with a post intercooler WI system, it also tend to suck water through the pump progressively before the pump activates so it kinda builds with boost levels to an extent, its not as good as post turbo WI for detonation reduction though
intercooler effectiveness does drop as intake temps are lower when they come in to the intercooler so there isnt as much heat transfer
methanol injections really good for upping the octane and running lean mixtures!, deffo the way forward!
I am liking this guy already
:lol2: :lol2:Quote by one guy from kent
trouble is i i didnt find a girl attractive i couldnt do anything with that girl, no chemicals going round..even if i got on with her really well
:thumbup: You saved me typing it
BTW.... Sheddy was trying to be helpful :wink:
Quote by AndyNudeUK
You have to have an attraction to someone before you can get dirty with them otherwise you must be desperate
ahh but what type of attraction? I find some people atractive because of who they are not what they look like. There is few people on here who I swoon over purely because of conversations I've had via PM or on the forum or via other forms of comuntication on the wip wap (TM PoshKate
) and I have never met them or seen a picture of them ooh and thanks Shireen
Casanova
Its a mixture of both for me. To be able to play there has to be a click but that isnt always about looks. Personality is just as important. After all, do i want to take my clothes off and have fun with someone i cant relate or talk to .......and on the other side i wouldnt want to if i thought the other person looked like road fodder either! so i guess its def about a mixture of the two for me personaly and the proportions vary greatly too!
Nicky
Nicky
Quote by sheddy
You have to have an attraction to someone before you can get dirty with them otherwise you must be desperate
ahh but what type of attraction? I find some people atractive because of who they are not what they look like. There is few people on here who I swoon over purely because of conversations I've had via PM or on the forum or via other forms of comuntication on the wip wap (TM PoshKate
) and I have never met them or seen a picture of them ooh and thanks Shireen
So would you be happy to meet them and have sex if you didn't know what they looked like?Sure you have to get like someone's personality too, you can't have one or the other it's a whole package :)
I hope that makes sense
Quote by sheddy
So would you be happy to meet them and have sex if you didn't know what they looked like?
Where in the original post does it mention sex ?
Here . . . . .
Quote by one guy from kent
so would you guys/gals meet up (for sex) :shock: without knowing what a member of this site loks like just because you get along with them?
what do you think?
Quote by dambuster
So would you be happy to meet them and have sex if you didn't know what they looked like?
Where in the original post does it mention sex ?
Here . . . . .
Quote by one guy from kent
so would you guys/gals meet up (for sex) :shock: without knowing what a member of this site loks like just because you get along with them?
what do you think?
BALLS :shock: that'll teach me not to speed read all the bloody threads
Right er well er yes well er ahhh ooooh errr in that case I genuinely can't answer for a few reasons when ever I've met people off of places like this I have never gone with the expectations of sex. I've normally met just socially and sometime sthings have lead on from there. But suffice to say I have never been shallow enough to go for just looks there needs to be more in it for me than that
er how did I do on getting outta that hole
ops: :lol: I couldn't vote as there's no 'large cock' option but.... I usually go for a mixture of all of them.. 1/3 looks; 1/3 personality; 1/3 large cock - if the cock is smaller... actually, no that isn't negotiable... if the personality is less than 1/3 then the looks or cock need to be bigger etc etc 
Sex God
Quote by AndyNudeUK
I thought this topic was about putting it in the hole, not getting out of it
and there was me thinking it was about looks or personality.............
Sex God
Got to be a mixture of both but personality is by far the dominant factor.
Another important factor is whether that person is turned on by me - bit selfish, I know but it's a real turn on if it happens and, obviously vice versa.
Another important factor is whether that person is turned on by me - bit selfish, I know but it's a real turn on if it happens and, obviously vice versa.
Sex God
Quote by westerross
Got to be a mixture of both but personality is by far the dominant factor.
Another important factor is whether that person is turned on by me - bit selfish, I know but it's a real turn on if it happens and, obviously vice versa.
:thumbup: :twisted:
Quote by westerross
Another important factor is whether that person is turned on by me - bit selfish, I know but it's a real turn on if it happens and, obviously vice versa.
Not selfish at all Choon.
It's (for me) a very important factor in anything other than "stranger sex"
We all know the light-hearted joke about the girls saying "I'm up here" when guys (or girls) are talking to the titties; but . . . . . .
On more than one occasion, I've had to bite my lip so I didn't say "Oi, there's a bloke on the end of that cock"
