Is there a certain age at which you can really be in love?
I ask this because my little cousin (who is 14) is currently heart broken after finding out that her boyfriend (the little swine that he is) kissed another girl at the xmas dance. She hasnt stoped crying and swears blind that she really did love him. Her mother keeps saying your not 14 you cant have loved him, your too young blah blah.
And I do agree to an extent that maybe she didnt love him but is there really a certain age at which you can love some one?
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Answer: see romeo and Juliet, Love knows no bounds and should not be a indulgence purely of the mature
i think i loved more at that age then i do now!..................its a very intense love at that age!
i would never take it lightly as a mum .........if my Girls say that they have fallin in love...i remamber my first love!.at the age of 14 it lasted a year!.....i was gutted .....no very gutted when it was all over!... i met mr debs at the age of 16!................. been to gather now.........( for Debs counts on her fingers!...) :eeek: ran out of fingers!....29 years!.....living to gather for 18!.......swinging for 18 :shock:
i would never take it lightly as a mum .........if my Girls say that they have fallin in love...i remamber my first love!.at the age of 14 it lasted a year!.....i was gutted .....no very gutted when it was all over!... i met mr debs at the age of 16!................. been to gather now.........( for Debs counts on her fingers!...) :eeek: ran out of fingers!....29 years!.....living to gather for 18!.......swinging for 18 :shock:
u r so right, we all loved when we r young...however after the pain we tend not to let ourselves fall in love till we are really sure. Hard to love or let yourself be loved. I lost my first wife cos i thought i loved her only to find i cared for her, but never loved her. The same for her to after she said i was busy working and not paying her any attention. She was right and we parted as mated. Now i wont let myself love or be loved, not for a while anyway. hmm its been 3 years and i do have a girlfiend but do i care for her or love her... dunno but she a fab lover and we get on great but still ant sure what love is z zzzzzzzz shit im boring myself here.
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Ah...teen love :P
So innocent and pure and ever so intense. Like you never have and never will love again. And boy does it hurt when it's over. That first heartbreak hurts like it's never ever going to heal. But it does and we love and hurt again, and again.
Today I'm felling kinda sentimental. Apparently us Libras are "in love with the idea of being in love". I'm not in love nor am I loved. And today I miss that.
But I'll spare you all my soppy shit. Best to log out and just browse today.
So innocent and pure and ever so intense. Like you never have and never will love again. And boy does it hurt when it's over. That first heartbreak hurts like it's never ever going to heal. But it does and we love and hurt again, and again.
Today I'm felling kinda sentimental. Apparently us Libras are "in love with the idea of being in love". I'm not in love nor am I loved. And today I miss that.
But I'll spare you all my soppy shit. Best to log out and just browse today.
I'm not sure I've ever been in love. I don't believe anyone has ever been in love with me.
I did have a girl tell me she loved me once, but that was in the school playground when I was about 15 and it was just an attempt to embarress me in front of everyone (to be fair I think she did actually fancy me but, for various reasons, we never got together).
I did have a girl tell me she loved me once, but that was in the school playground when I was about 15 and it was just an attempt to embarress me in front of everyone (to be fair I think she did actually fancy me but, for various reasons, we never got together).
I was told recently that you will in your life time meet 3 perspective lifetime partners and its fate if you actualy date them. After all your train could be 10mins late and you'd miss them on the platform, never to meet again. Not sure if I truly believe that, but sounds quite romantic though!! 
I was in love at 14 and ever after. I find it hard to understand the need to ask the question. I fell in love all the time as a young man. Not to say it ever lasted, or that I didn't dump or get dumped in return. But love yes, with all the glory and the pain, the best experience life has to offer. I would never put down a young person by saying it can't be true, of course it's true. In spades.
I often come home to tell the wife I fell in love across the deli counter or in the Estate Agents, and I'm sure it's true in the sense that it's not a lie. Of course it's unrequited love and if she's 17 there's not much chance. But enough chord strings to know that if age or circumstance were different I'd be trying hard.
I fell in love once "across a crowded room" with a girl from Chelsea College of Art and Design. I knew she'd leave with the man she came with so I got a date for the week after and left the party. There was nobody else there for me, cupid struck at five paces in one second. I can still to this day recall the clothes she wore, her exact look in profile when I first saw her that evening. We dated a few blissful months and then she got a scholership to go to Germany, don't know how her education worked out but she came back pregnant and wouldn't see me. We did have a final meeting, but something was wrong, perhaps it was the little body in the pram. Undoubtedly the lost love of my life, I never got over it. Took her home to Mum, the whole thing. Ah Celia, are you reading this, how has life worked out?
I don't think it's hard at all to fall in love. Throughout the ages people fell in love within very small populations and they didn't travel. To imagine that we are a complicated species in this regard simply isn't true, it can't be. Of course we muck it up as we get older with prejudice and experience, and we try to protect ourselves so we won't be hurt when in youth we just jump in, but the simple heart stopping desire thing that kicks it off, well that's round every corner.
I often come home to tell the wife I fell in love across the deli counter or in the Estate Agents, and I'm sure it's true in the sense that it's not a lie. Of course it's unrequited love and if she's 17 there's not much chance. But enough chord strings to know that if age or circumstance were different I'd be trying hard.
I fell in love once "across a crowded room" with a girl from Chelsea College of Art and Design. I knew she'd leave with the man she came with so I got a date for the week after and left the party. There was nobody else there for me, cupid struck at five paces in one second. I can still to this day recall the clothes she wore, her exact look in profile when I first saw her that evening. We dated a few blissful months and then she got a scholership to go to Germany, don't know how her education worked out but she came back pregnant and wouldn't see me. We did have a final meeting, but something was wrong, perhaps it was the little body in the pram. Undoubtedly the lost love of my life, I never got over it. Took her home to Mum, the whole thing. Ah Celia, are you reading this, how has life worked out?
I don't think it's hard at all to fall in love. Throughout the ages people fell in love within very small populations and they didn't travel. To imagine that we are a complicated species in this regard simply isn't true, it can't be. Of course we muck it up as we get older with prejudice and experience, and we try to protect ourselves so we won't be hurt when in youth we just jump in, but the simple heart stopping desire thing that kicks it off, well that's round every corner.
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Ah...teen love :P
So innocent and pure and ever so intense. Like you never have and never will love again. And boy does it hurt when it's over. That first heartbreak hurts like it's never ever going to heal. But it does and we love and hurt again, and again.
Today I'm felling kinda sentimental. Apparently us Libras are "in love with the idea of being in love". I'm not in love nor am I loved. And today I miss that.
But I'll spare you all my soppy shit. Best to log out and just browse today.
Maybe thats why I always gets so confused with love! Must be the libran in me too!
Would be so nice to have some or at least a nice huggle anyway!
I believe that every time you believe you are in love, that you actually ARE. Every time is different, after all.
I think this poor lassie needs her mum to hug her and tell her she remembers how it is, not tell her that she is a 'silly little girl'.
I hope I remember this, when the time comes, with my kids. My mum didn't, and now I know that she had herr life shattered as a young-un. If she had told me when I was a kid, what she told me later, I would not only have felt better about myself, I would have (and do now) felt so much closer to her.
I think this poor lassie needs her mum to hug her and tell her she remembers how it is, not tell her that she is a 'silly little girl'.
I hope I remember this, when the time comes, with my kids. My mum didn't, and now I know that she had herr life shattered as a young-un. If she had told me when I was a kid, what she told me later, I would not only have felt better about myself, I would have (and do now) felt so much closer to her.
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I love hearing about people who have been together all their lives. i tink its so sweet. My nana and grandpa were together from about the age of 15 or 16 until my grandpa died at the age of 60. I tink this is sooo amazing. I dont see myself managing this though!!!!
Life is full of Pot Holes, Rough Rides and Bumps. Marriage is the same.
We married in 1961 at Yorkminster, York and have felt all the bumps, pot holes along the way but are still to-gether and by choice not necesity and will remain so for a very long time.
We met not long after leaving school in 1956 and have stood seperation both during our single years (me in Merchant Navy) and in our married years (HM Forces) so absence does make the heart grow fonder.
Love :love: rules all other emotions.
I will leave it to the Maths people to work out how long lol
Fred (not counting years, but decades)
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I've come round to agreeing with the poet A. E. Housman when he wrote that each person falls in love only once in their life, and that if anyone claimed that they had loved more than once “anyone who considered that they had done so had simply never really loved at Just one all-consuming passion, whether it happened early or (as in my case) late, whether it ended happily or not, whether it was long or short-lived.
Mike.
Mike.
Well, my first EVER boyfriend was Patrick - we were 6 and at school together, and we used to go through the Argos catalogue and decide what we were going to buy for our house. and we were going to have a little girl called Lucinda (!).
I cant remember what happened between us, but i still know him and he's had MILLIONS more girlfriends since me!! i was the best looking though,lol!
Seriously though, i "fell in love" when i was 15 - he was called Tony and he had blonde hair, blue eyes big muscles and he was SOOOOO sexy! he left me for another girl though, i was heartbroken till met Kieran who i was with for 18 months, lol!!
I cant remember what happened between us, but i still know him and he's had MILLIONS more girlfriends since me!! i was the best looking though,lol!
Seriously though, i "fell in love" when i was 15 - he was called Tony and he had blonde hair, blue eyes big muscles and he was SOOOOO sexy! he left me for another girl though, i was heartbroken till met Kieran who i was with for 18 months, lol!!
