If a guy emails you that he was flattered and that you are a really nice girl it means he's not interested right?
Even if the drunken night before he initiated the kisses?
Just letting me down gently, right?
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Sex God
This so reminds me of me and harks back to the 'reading the signs' thread.
Just as I have no idea when someone is throwing me a "
come play with me" line I also have no idea of the subtelties of being let down gently 
feck off creep usually works quite well
feel for you hun, move on, if he gets back in touch you'll know, as you will if he doesn't
Just as I have no idea when someone is throwing me a "
come play with me" line I also have no idea of the subtelties of being let down gently feck off creep usually works quite well
feel for you hun, move on, if he gets back in touch you'll know, as you will if he doesn't
Quote by Pete_sw
This so reminds me of me and harks back to the 'reading the signs' thread.
Just as I have no idea when someone is throwing me a "
feck off creep usually works quite well
feel for you hun, move on, if he gets back in touch you'll know, as you will if he doesn't
im getting better with that, no reply after the 4th Pm is usually when i know
Quote by essex34m
This so reminds me of me and harks back to the 'reading the signs' thread.
Just as I have no idea when someone is throwing me a "
feck off creep usually works quite well
feel for you hun, move on, if he gets back in touch you'll know, as you will if he doesn't
im getting better with that, no reply after the 4th Pm is usually when i know
Yup i thought of the signs thread too. Don't neccessarily have to be drunk either.
One unanswered PM's enough for me to give in though i don't see the sign to send that one.
Quote by Scandal
Not necessarily, he might be a bit shy in the cold light of day and waiting for a hint from you as to how you feel.
Go for it and drop him a hint!
Or better still just ask him if he'd like to repeat the experience, this is a swingers site and you should feel encouraged to tell people you're interested. Good luck.
Quote by Scandal
Except I work with him. And have so far managed to unintentionally ignore him and have him overhear a conversation where i'm moaning that some guy I'm not interested in won't leave me alone.
Look at him right in the eyes with a big smile on your face and start a convo about something, anything will do
Edit: Life's too short not to, don't die wondering! :wink:
:shock:
I absolutely agree :thumbup:
Even if it goes all tits up (in the wrong way) - at least you'll know, and whatever feeling/emotitions the experience gives you - they'll remind you that you're alive
Jump all the way in, with both feet - BUT (and this is the important bit) - make sure you have your eyes wide open :wink:
So is this a chap off of here (SH) Petal, or are you refering to the man you work wth...or are they both?
Certainly on here I would have thought (physician heal thyself) that it should be ok to be quite direct and ask the guy straight off if he is still interested.
Its always better to have a definate *no*, than to keep hanging around hoping for a repeat performance....
It is all about that *signs* thread innit people?
I dont know what they, are for sure!
either positive or negative...
so, though I say to you Petal, muster up some courage and simply ask.... I wish I could do the same in my own life!
Argh
LP
Certainly on here I would have thought (physician heal thyself) that it should be ok to be quite direct and ask the guy straight off if he is still interested.
Its always better to have a definate *no*, than to keep hanging around hoping for a repeat performance....
It is all about that *signs* thread innit people?
I dont know what they, are for sure!
either positive or negative...
so, though I say to you Petal, muster up some courage and simply ask.... I wish I could do the same in my own life!
Argh
LP
Sex God
Quote by da69ve
If you work together, i'm assuming he is aware that you are married. Maybe that is what is bothering him...
blimey i was abit slow on that one! :shock:
even geniouses (? genii? whatever) have to have a day off occasionally dave :giggle: 
We work together. He's not on here.
And he was slightly bothered about me being married - he knew about that from the start. But that didn't stop him kissing me.
I was very very drunk - he said he was sober. So i'm thinking maybe its just the marriage thing, because his email said he was concerned about 'the situation I'm in'.
Btw, we didn't have sex - just kissed. But now I want more & am trying to figure out if he likes me or not. The married thing I can overcome if he fancies me.
And he was slightly bothered about me being married - he knew about that from the start. But that didn't stop him kissing me.
I was very very drunk - he said he was sober. So i'm thinking maybe its just the marriage thing, because his email said he was concerned about 'the situation I'm in'.
Btw, we didn't have sex - just kissed. But now I want more & am trying to figure out if he likes me or not. The married thing I can overcome if he fancies me.
Quote by petal24
We work together. He's not on here.
And he was slightly bothered about me being married - he knew about that from the start. But that didn't stop him kissing me.
I was very very drunk - he said he was sober. So i'm thinking maybe its just the marriage thing, because his email said he was concerned about 'the situation I'm in'.
Btw, we didn't have sex - just kissed. But now I want more & am trying to figure out if he likes me or not. The married thing I can overcome if he fancies me.
well i think i'll save my advice for someone who really needs it!
Hon, he kissed u when u were "very, very drunk", and he was sober. Even if YOU came onto HIM in your drunken stupour, he didnt behave very well.
But, that aside, I think he is trying to let you down gently. my advice would be to put it down to experience and move on -ESPECIALLY if u work together - I've been there and its just a recipe for grief.
Sorry to be so negative.
But, that aside, I think he is trying to let you down gently. my advice would be to put it down to experience and move on -ESPECIALLY if u work together - I've been there and its just a recipe for grief.
Sorry to be so negative.
Quote by petal24
We work together. He's not on here.
And he was slightly bothered about me being married - he knew about that from the start. But that didn't stop him kissing me.
I was very very drunk - he said he was sober. So i'm thinking maybe its just the marriage thing, because his email said he was concerned about 'the situation I'm in'.
Btw, we didn't have sex - just kissed. But now I want more & am trying to figure out if he likes me or not. The married thing I can overcome if he fancies me.
Petal
I'm not quite sure what you're looking for with this guy. Are you hoping for:
a) A shag
b) A regular fuck buddy
c) A relationship
d) Something else
Sex God
HLB,
Do we have to put A.B.C.D. in the right order??
If we get it right do I get a prize
Do we have to put A.B.C.D. in the right order??
If we get it right do I get a prize
Quote by dambuster
well i think i'll save my advice for someone who really needs it!
I'm slightly confused by that.
Are the rollyeys at petal24 or yourself ?
It makes a difference - at least to me.
by her first post i thought she was single and wanted advice on a guy that she liked!....she's married......so like i said.....i'll save my advice for someone who really needs it!.....does that make a difference?
Quote by goose35
This so reminds me of me and harks back to the 'reading the signs' thread.
Just as I have no idea when someone is throwing me a "
feck off creep usually works quite well
feel for you hun, move on, if he gets back in touch you'll know, as you will if he doesn't
im getting better with that, no reply after the 4th Pm is usually when i know
Yup i thought of the signs thread too. Don't neccessarily have to be drunk either.
One unanswered PM's enough for me to give in though i don't see the sign to send that one.
makes us wish we'd replied
Just my two penneth as normal, but
Each to their own of course, but what does irritate me is that if this thread had been submitted by a married man, the replies would have been, just lets say, slightly more direct.
We know this because we have all read them over the years. However, as this was written by a married lady, the responses have been, in general, the opposite.
Each to their own of course, but what does irritate me is that if this thread had been submitted by a married man, the replies would have been, just lets say, slightly more direct.
We know this because we have all read them over the years. However, as this was written by a married lady, the responses have been, in general, the opposite.
i was about to post something very similar, manolishi. so thanks for saving me a job lol i completely agree....a married man telling such a tale would have been shot down in flames......or at least given a grilling about whether his wife knows etc etc etc i personally dont mind much either way but noticed the apparant discrepency.
but noticed the apparant discrepency. Quote by Manolishi
Just my two penneth as normal, but
Each to their own of course, but what does irritate me is that if this thread had been submitted by a married man, the replies would have been, just lets say, slightly more direct.
We know this because we have all read them over the years. However, as this was written by a married lady, the responses have been, in general, the opposite.
:thumbup: .agreed!
