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Was reading an article the other week and thought i d ask for your views as it sort of relates the this discussion.
At what size does a dick redface fall under the category of being thick.
The mag claimed japs averaged wide and a certain african country the average was 2inchdont want to be accused of mis-representation lol so any views would be well received.
Pete cool
doh redface this was supposed to be a reply to metric cocks still im am new to this lol
Um.... Since when does Cock Size matter? i have only slept with 3 men (Daz being the latest and i've been with him 1 year tomorrow) and to me, Daz is the best, purely for the fact that he is the only one who has made me orgasm with tongue, cock or anything else!!!!!
And he has this worry that he has a tiny cock, due to the fact that he was exposed to porn in the younger years of his life, lol!!!
You men need to get over yourselves and be happy that you can give women pleasure, no matter what your size, if we had a problem, believe me, we would SAY!!!! well, i would, anyway!!
I reckon it is only as thick as the person who worries about it...?
What you have been given is what you get...a present from your god? You can have it re-adjusted, but seeing the documentaries, I think hitting it with a pick axe handle, and injecting it with god knows what substances, I would rather keep my stump....YOUCH!
well most guys seem to be bothered co og some macho comparasion thing but the main reason is..................thats what you girls care about!!!!!!!
I know in all your magazines and advice coloumns you say its all foreplay and roal and being nice and tender but you listen and I mean any converstaion with girls, even ask them direct and its all cok sizre and how hard he banged them. Girls even go out with guys simply coz they heard he has a big cock. I've read and heard form so many girls that want it "hard and fast", quieta few not even wanting froeplay and if the guy can't get it up instantly and bang them then he is seen as crap no matter waht else he does.
So all this "you guys need to get over ur cock size obession" is hypocritical.
I always thought that a big cock wasn't a prerequisite for "hard and fast" sex though.
Its along the same lines tho. Like women say its not size but what you do that counts. So that means that size isn't important and its ur technique and oral and foreplay as well as not slamming in there. thats all crap, they want big cocks that are shoved inot them hard and fast. Hypocritcal to me.
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Its along the same lines tho. Like women say its not size but what you do that counts. So that means that size isn't important and its ur technique and oral and foreplay as well as not slamming in there. thats all crap, they want big cocks that are shoved inot them hard and fast. Hypocritcal to me.

Well there's nothing like a major generalisation to really prove a point is there? I have to question the ladies of your aquaintance who are so limited in their expectations if it is indeed the case that what all women want is 'hard and fast'. But then perhaps, it is the limitations of your own experience which should be widened?
The man who combines finesse with passion is more likely to be asked back for round two than the 'wham bam, thank you ma'am' neanderthal. Frankly, size DOES NOT matter!
Sappho
Didnt expect such a heated response to such an innocent ?
I certainly am not consious about my size i know im not built like a porn star was just all round performance and the pleasure i get from fullfilling a lady in what ever way works for her is most important.
But refreshing as it is to hear some fems claiming size dosent matter and the guys shouldnt be obbssesd about it ,just take a browse through the couples and female adds and more often than not vwe we 8in+ are more in evidence than not so whose attitude is misplaced.
Any way im confident in my ability got new batteries in my tongue and no im only average but happy in the knowledge i have never had any complaints and always got invited back for a second performance redface smile
Pete
Um....... total CRAP if you ask me, I would rather have a man with a tiny dick who takes the time to find out what i want in bed than a man with a huge cock and no idea what to do with it!!
I find that men with big cocks often have egos to match, and that is SUCH a turn off!!
And a man who "slams it in hard and fast" is just a total waste of time as far as i'm concerned, i would much rather have a slow, long, "Love making" session than "a quick shag". and Daz feels the same!!
Dont get me wrong, i'm not some little frigid prude who doesnt believe in sex or anything, i love a good rogering as good as the next girl, but i think you men need to get over yourselves and enjoy women enjoying you. most women are mature enough to talk about what they want, how many of you men know a woman thesedays who is prepred to "lie back and think of england????"
Im a bit confussed daz and lou what i was trying to say was i agree with your point of view ,every1 is different at it is more important to find what works with the partner at the time was just pointing out a large no of adds are shallow enough to emphasise size.
wham bam thankyou mam has its place but the type of session you refer to is def the best way to be.
Amen, Lou and AMEN! I have to agree with every word! Any man with an erection can have sex, but if he doesn't know how to use it he may as well stick with a bread bag and a tin of swarfega.
Sappho xxx
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Amen, Lou and AMEN! I have to agree with every word! Any man with an erection can have sex, but if he doesn't know how to use it he may as well stick with a bread bag and a tin of swarfega.

Sgt Bilko makes a note in his Diary:
Top Tip for today - a bread bag and a tin of swarfega. Thinks: Now is that the Swarfega with the gritty bits in?? :shock: :shock: Wanders off to his van to hunt for the Swarfega happy in the knowledge that the loaf in the bread bin is almost finished!!! :shock: :shock: redface surprisedops: :oops:
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Any man with an erection can have sex, but if he doesn't know how to use it he may as well stick with a bread bag and a tin of swarfega.
Sappho xxx

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That's quite an image. Sappho, you are not only divine, but wickedly eloquent with it.
Oh, and there's this, er, mate of mine that wants to know if you put the swarfega in the bag or the other way about...
Well it may be a genrealisation bu tits an accurate one.
I'd love to find a girl that wants a "love making session" and appreciates foreplaya nd oral and telling me what she likes.
But I'm telling you, listen to any group pof women talking or ask them direct and its all on size and then u ask them what they like in bed and its them wham bam style sex.
Perhaps the 'wham bam' contingent would like to conduct trials on the most effective method? I wonder if peanut butter would answer for the less mechanically minded? Perhaps not, they'd never get round to the trial because they'd be so busy choosing between smooth and crunchy I suppose.
Yuk - never has a thread been hijacked with such a disgusting image! Apologies to pj2 - it was an interesting debate up to this point!
Sappho - who prefers Wolf Blass Shiraz Grenache and raspberries
Archangel, how wide is your sample?
Its amazing how emotive this subject has become but with although toing and frowing about size does or dosent matter nobody has acctually given there opinon on the actual perfectly inoccent for reference only ? at what size do people consider a dick to be thick
still nothing like a good debate
Have fun and stay sexy no matter what size you
A hope full playmate Pete cool
well countless numbers of girls and women on the net and friends that are girls and friends of friends and magazine articles etc and one girl who I actually had sex with said she liked it hard and fast and another girl I had fun with said she didn't like oral or foreplay and just wnated straight sex.
its all bits and pieces but bits and pieces from alot of areas by various girls so u know.
I hope there are girls out ther that like more.
well countless numbers of girls and women on the net and friends that are girls and friends of friends and magazine articles etc and one girl who I actually had sex with said she liked it hard and fast and another girl I had fun with said she didn't like oral or foreplay and just wnated straight sex.
its all bits and pieces but bits and pieces from alot of areas by various girls so u know.
I hope there are girls out ther that like more.
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Well it may be a genrealisation bu tits an accurate one.

Total codswallop! A complete oxymoron! How the hell can it be accurate? Have you personally interviewed a complete cross section of women from all walks of life and sexual interest?
I'd love to find a girl that wants a "love making session" and appreciates foreplaya nd oral and telling me what she likes.

I'd lay a bet there are more out there than the 'fuck me for a fag and half a lager' crew. You are showing your own lack of experience here and attributing the experience you have had to half of the human species. Be realistic!
But I'm telling you, listen to any group pof women talking or ask them direct and its all on size and then u ask them what they like in bed and its them wham bam style sex.

Have you read, let alone taken into account, any of the threads in this forum? For instance the Sexual Pampering thread to name one of the most recent? Well, this woman is telling you directly, at the risk of repeating myself ad nauseum, that size is not the issue - unless it's of brain. I really do not believe I am alone in that assumption.
Archangel, I'm sorry to get personal, but you really need to expand your horizons as well as your experience of human relationships before you can pontificate on what women want, expect and desire.
Sappho
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I wasnt digging at YOU specifically, hunny, i just feel that if men spent less time worrying about their size, and more time on their technique then the world would be a better place for us girlies, lol!!
Ask Daz for tips if neccessary!!!, lol lol lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! As far as i'm concerned he can do no wrong, but i'm biased, lol!!!!!!!!!
It doesn't chane the fatc that I have heard and talked to and read countless women that say all those things, so it is accurate to me.
I know theres the sexual pampering thread and I know women say they want all that. Thats why I aimed to be that way, I aim to please the owmen and not care soley for my own pleasure. But as I said I read and talk to and hear about what women want and it is contary to what is said many a time.
God, I'd love to find women that would. And yeah myabe I am inexpericneced technically but it doesn't mean I haven't talked to and expereicned girls that want all the wham bam and big cocks.
I have have spoken to and read so many women that want and only wnat big cocks, as that guy said, look at the ads on here. How many say 8 inches and above, 8 inches and above, I want a massive cock in me etc etc.
Give me a women that want sexual pampering, foreplay and oral, lots of it. I'd be in heaven. When I hear more form girls about not caring wat the size is and wanting to be treated well and not the wham bam style then I'll bleive it more but it has to be said that a lot of women are just as shallow as guys are.
Glad to hear it guys if i can practice the tricks he teaches me on you then enlighten me lol redface
Nice pic by the way a better close up than mine
Pete
I'd agree with some of the respondents here that technique is more important than size. I've only got a very average 6", but also have a very adept tounge & long fingers so have never had any coplaints from ladies. (in fact one told me i was a bit big for her, obviously a fib but boy does it make you feel good lol). BUT you only have to look at the ads on here, it's amazing how many say WE or VWE or VVWE or specify things like no-one under 8" , I think there's even one that says 10" minimum, so is it any wonder we have a complex about size? My first and rather uncharitable thought to that is my god you must have a bucket fanny (sorry but it does seem that way doesn't it?). One thing that does help is experience, I've been swinging for over 20 yrs & taken part in some groups & gangbangs, in that time so you get to see a lot of naked erect men close up & personal & i can say from experience that 6" ish is definatly the norm so don't worry guys it's us in the majority. Just make sure you always satisfy the lady & she won't care how big it is. One other thing & i've been asked to pass this on by a friend, if you ever go to a bukkake event try not to cum in her eyes, I'm told it stings like hell (sorry ann redface )
I'm sure there are women who want only a large penis and fast hard penetration without much foreplay. I've never met them. Archangel, I find your comments very puzzling: it's like we're living on different planets, and have experience of women of two completely different species.
We must also be reading different versions of SH. On the first page of "women seeking men" ads, there are five ads requiring well endowed men (and two saying that she'd prefer it, but it's not essential). That's out of thirty.
Archangel! sweeping generalisations seems to be theme, so another one. how many women, in your experience, cum through penetration????? and how many through foreplay????
hope it doesn't reflect on MY size, but few of the former, and nearly all of the latter!!!!!!
so????
<<<<< watches what little rep he had disappear>>>>>
Archangel, having read through all your previous posts and your profile, would it be rude of me to say that you are probably not old enough to use this site? It would?? Okay, I won't say it, but I will still think it!!!
You seem to court controversy every time you post, but I get the feeling that you don't intend to. It's just your inexperience shining through. So let's have a glimpse at the world of Archangel.

Occupation: Student Would that be at a Primary school or a Secondary school?
MSNM So let's have a look at some of your quotes just from this thread:
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It doesn't chane the fatc that I have heard and talked to and read countless women that say all those things, so it is accurate to me.
So there!!!!!
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God, I'd love to find women
I can believe that!! smile :) :)
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I'd love to find a girl
Now that's more realistic!! cool 8-) 8-)
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I hope there are girls out ther
I'm sure there are some somewhere!! :shock: :shock:
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Give me a women
Now say please!! rolleyes :roll: :roll:
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I haven't talked to and expereicned girls
Now we're getting to the truth!! :) :) :)
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I am inexpericneced
Yep!! wink
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one girl who I actually had sex with said she liked it
confused :? :?
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and another girl I had fun with said she didn't
lol :lol: :lol:
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I want a massive cock
Okay that's enough now!! :roll: :roll: :roll:
So, I rest my case!!! :shock: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
(Sorry Archangel, just a bit of fun!!)
rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
you're a bad man Mr Bilko
Brilliant !!!! lol
Mr Bilko your a star.. that post was a stunner n has lighten up my evening!! well done that man