Quote by poshkate
From your lastest update the only advice I can give is for you to walk away from the situation......quickly. I hope also that she doesn't know where you live.
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Cuckolding - complicated emotions, complicated subject. Scares the hell out of a lot of people - including the majority of swingers - so in many cases it's advertised on sites as NSA sex and the other party may never even know (as you did not) that they are in this arrangement.
Part of the "thrill", either for the wife or hubby or both, is usually the wife teasing hubby ( where the guy was looking at you in the pub?)
The other guy MAY be Bi, but then again he may not. For an entertaining insight into this scene have a look at Stanley Kubrick's film Eyes Wide Shut.
I can understand your point of view that you were not informed about it - essentially someone else was being a voyeur into your sex life without your consent. However, at least they came clean with you and gave you a choice. Chalk it up as an experience in life and move on if it is getting too heavy - which it sounds like it is!!:boxing:
Part of the "thrill", either for the wife or hubby or both, is usually the wife teasing hubby ( where the guy was looking at you in the pub?)
The other guy MAY be Bi, but then again he may not. For an entertaining insight into this scene have a look at Stanley Kubrick's film Eyes Wide Shut.
I can understand your point of view that you were not informed about it - essentially someone else was being a voyeur into your sex life without your consent. However, at least they came clean with you and gave you a choice. Chalk it up as an experience in life and move on if it is getting too heavy - which it sounds like it is!!:boxing:
Quote by Srne
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I recieved an email an hour ago asking for a meet up with both parties and politely declined stating I was happy to have sexual contact with the female in the way we had been previous but that due to the nature of how things had turned out I didn't think that going down the road of 3 somes with them would be what I wanted.
I have recieved an email from the husband being generally very aggressive, saying he wanted to know exactly how many times I had seen his wife, exactly what we had done and where. She has since rang me saying the guy is going mad saying she is "hiding things" and this only goes to show that my first initial thought that this was a strange situation was bang on.
Otherwise why all the lies, why not just advertise for a cuckold situation etc? We live and learn I suppose, but to those that mocked and said I was whineing.......Hmmmm maybe I know a little more about situations that I'M involved in
I can understand you being upset and feeling deceived. My reaction to the earlier posts was - even though it was not quite what had been explained, this sounds like it could be fun, now that the husband has joined in so to speak, opening up all sorts of other possibilities (each to his own on that I guess).
However, your latest info puts a completely different complexion on it and sadly, I agree that you are right to drop it like a hot potato, write if off to experience, remember the best bits and look for someone else. I wondered whether you would have got involved if you had been told at the outset that she saw guys and told her husband about them.
An important lesson is how discretion and security can't be taken for granted. Someone who we trusted once took some fairly graphic pictures which we were a bit uncomfortable about but were given all sorts of reassurances, only to later discover via a mutual contact that they had been widely circulated. We take much more care now.
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Quote by flower411
So ...you shagged some bird thinking that her partner didn`t know and now you find that he did know ...
Can`t see the problem ....sorry
Im with flower on this one
This is exactly the kind of scenario the wife and I may like, we would however have made it clear from the very start. cant see any real harm done here though.
In response to the op I read both your posts, I think to a lot of people they don't get your concerns. Yes it is about two adults consenting to have sex, but you never had sex as two people as there was a third party involved.
She was honest about being married, maybe you should have thought longer and harder about the consequences about what you were getting into at that stage. Hindsight however is a wonder thing.
Like other here say it is about NSA fun, but I have always believed in honesty so people can make an informed choice.
You now find yourself in what could be a delicate position whereby they have videos of you which could now be used against you if they wish. Luckily it seems you have a copy also, judging by your posts.
I am a female from a couple, in the past when I was meeting hubby would at some stage talk to the guys beforehand with me, all on cam together face to face to reassure them we were in this together. I have always felt it is about putting the guy at ease as much as them putting us at ease to invite them to share in what we do.
I feel the couple you saw(as it was a couple) even if they were a cuck couple, were not totally honest. Some would say it is your fault I believe it is 6 of one and half a dozen of the other. If she had said she was single and then you found out she was married I could understand you more, but maybe the lesson to learn from this, is next time you think you are screwing a mans wife behind his back, just wonder if they are in fact screwing you to.
If they had an open relationship and lead their lives that way, then maybe you should have just asked to have seen them both on cam and had a brief 5 minutes together. So you can establish if he fact there is consent on both parts. If they didn't want to do that basic requirement maybe you should have walked away.
She was honest about being married, maybe you should have thought longer and harder about the consequences about what you were getting into at that stage. Hindsight however is a wonder thing.
Like other here say it is about NSA fun, but I have always believed in honesty so people can make an informed choice.
You now find yourself in what could be a delicate position whereby they have videos of you which could now be used against you if they wish. Luckily it seems you have a copy also, judging by your posts.
I am a female from a couple, in the past when I was meeting hubby would at some stage talk to the guys beforehand with me, all on cam together face to face to reassure them we were in this together. I have always felt it is about putting the guy at ease as much as them putting us at ease to invite them to share in what we do.
I feel the couple you saw(as it was a couple) even if they were a cuck couple, were not totally honest. Some would say it is your fault I believe it is 6 of one and half a dozen of the other. If she had said she was single and then you found out she was married I could understand you more, but maybe the lesson to learn from this, is next time you think you are screwing a mans wife behind his back, just wonder if they are in fact screwing you to.
If they had an open relationship and lead their lives that way, then maybe you should have just asked to have seen them both on cam and had a brief 5 minutes together. So you can establish if he fact there is consent on both parts. If they didn't want to do that basic requirement maybe you should have walked away.
