Hi,
I know many people on here object to playing with married men whose don't play with their partner. and consider it cheating
I am separated and last had sex with my wife 3 years ago. I left the relationship because she had a violent temper and nearly broke my arm with a maglite. Legally I am still married so the question is do people feel it is acceptable to play with me?
Q
Hi, such a sad story. Personally we are happy to meet either single or married men. All we ask is that people are open at the meet for sex (and hopefully a friendship) what people do in their private life is not for us to frown upon. Strangely enough, we actually prefer to meet married men. Generally speaking they live a relatively stable lifestyle which suits us fine. Sincere best wishes in your search D&S x
We agree, much prefer to meet married men as they are steady and don't want anything other that what's agreed. Life's too short to judge.
Personally, I wouldn't knowingly play with a married man - even if he is open and honest with me about it. Being open and honest with me is very different to being open and honest with his wife. If I was that wife, I would be devastated to find out that my husband had been shagging about behind my back! I am not a marriage wrecker, I am in this for fun, not to be dragged through divorce proceedings if she ever found out!
'Married' and 'separated' are two very different things I would have no problem playing with the latter.
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I prefer my wife to have affairs with married men rather than singles. Married men are mostly only after the sex not to replace their wives. I feel it less threatening to our relationship.
Different people have different views on this subject it seems. In the case of Mr Quiet, I think that he would have been perfectly justified having an affaire without telling his wife. But by the sound of it, this would have been a high risk strategy whether he told her first, or she found out afterwards. That magnate could have been on his head. In his case being married is just a legal formality now. Stay safe and good luck Mr Quiet.
My partner always choose guys who are married or in a long term live in relationship and their partners do not know about it. I am not quite sure why as she never explained. I think part of the reason might be that they are much less likely to go around talking about it, as she is a very private secretive person. She never talks about personal matters or about her love life to anyone except me and hates it when women start talking about private matters to her and usually stops them.
