This profile is a work in progress. Added to and amended to I will add further photos in due course.

I am a tall, slim and fit mature white professional gentleman with a good head of hair and nice teeth and generally look young and fit for my age.

We are in an open relationship but do not engage in swapping, group sex or same room sex together.  We have always played the field separately, much to my disappointment.  She is very private, hates being watched or heard by third parties and hates watching or even hearing others.

I on the other hand, are the opposite!   She is also much more cautious about her private life becoming known to people. She hates social media and does not use it. Her modus operandi was to quietly work her way through work colleagues who are married or in long term live-in relationships .

I, on the other hand avoided work relationships and rely on pubs, clubs and parties. I am not very good at social media, and feel more comfortable and I'm better face to face or chatting on the phone.

I recently lost my "other woman" to the Big C, which I was heartbroken about and have been grieving for this year and still are. As a result I took a break from the scene.

Rules imposed by my partner on me are: 1) not with mutual friends. 2) Not with her sister. 3) No overnight stays. 4) Not in our own home anymore (sadly). 

I don't post photos online that can I can be identified in or email them, as one never knows where they might end up. I wish to be discreet for professional reasons. However, if you are definitely interested, I will invite you to view private photos and a face pic.

I like going too the Bristol Gardens Spa in Brighton and would be up for meets there. Also if anybody is coming down to Brighton or another coastal resort in East or West Sussex for dirty weekend maybe we could meet?  I also like parties.

I like women who are slim through to curvy of any race or colour. A nice round bum is lovely. I enjoy threesomes, foursomes and moresomes, outdoor sex, daytime and public sex, watching and filming. A couple or a single woman for regular meet ups would be lovely.  If a single woman would like to team up with me in order to meet with couples in 2 plus 2 encounters that would be great. Also if a single woman would like to try parties or gang bangs but feels uncomfortable about going alone I would enjoy being her chaperone / escort / driver.

I am straight and having given the matter thought have concluded that I am not bi-curious. I have never been turned on by a guy, no matter how intense the friendship.

Whilst I and my partner used to love barebacking years ago and I loved creampies other guys left for me, safe sex is a must  for both of us these days.

I am still trying out this site to see if it suites me.  As I am only a basic member, I can't message you direct, so please excuse the winks. I am not using them because I am lazy and if you respond I will be able to send you a proper message. If you respond to a wink, I can then message you. Swinging Heaven limits the number of messages that can be sent by basic members, so if I don't reply immediately, this will be the reason I don't reply.

Message me your email or contact details and I will reply.

It would be nice to chat on .

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