Having sex with your woman after she has been with another man is really intense, both physically and emotionally and I usually produce a lot more cum.

My partner always choose guys who are married or in a long term live in relationship and their partners do not know about it. I am not quite sure why as she never explained. I think part of the reason might be that they are much less likely to go around talking about it, as she is a very private secretive person. She never talks about personal matters or about her love life to anyone except me and hates it when women start talking about private matters to her and usually stops them.

Different people have different views on this subject it seems. In the case of Mr Quiet, I think that he would have been perfectly justified having an affaire without telling his wife. But by the sound of it, this would have been a high risk strategy whether he told her first, or she found out afterwards. That magnate could have been on his head. In his case being married is just a legal formality now. Stay safe and good luck Mr Quiet.

But what if after discussing it with the wife and explaining the situation, she still is not interested in a sexual relationship?

Who knows, maybe she has been having a long term affaire and that is the reason? Or maybe it is something you are doing wrong?

If someone really doesn't want sex with you, or doesn't want sex at all, there is no point trying to convince them to have sex with you or try and emotionally blackmail them into doing it.

For me, the best part of sex is seeing and hearing my woman cum loudly. If that does not happen, there is absolutely no point. You might as well just have a private little wank.

If the issue can't be resolved satisfactorily through discussion, the next step is to ask her if it is OK if you take a mistress. If she flatly refuses to allow you, the next step is to consider separation.

In my case there was a time when my partner had a lover and got so involved that she lost interest in me. The balance was restored by me taking several regular mistresses, sometimes two at a time, plus a few one-night stands.

After my first away game she immediately reverted to being just as turned on by me and eager for my cock as before. Indeed, there was nothing she liked better than fucking me after I had been with another woman.

But one thing changed. She doesn't really like me going down on her any more (sadly). She says it is too demeaning. I know she made her lovers eat her cum filled pussy, as she told me. So maybe she doesn't like the possibility that I might be eating their cum as she thinks it is humiliating.

My partner never allowed me to watch, join in or usually even enjoy a nice cream pie, although I did enjoy one or two but these were rare occasions. I am not sure if this was because she would feel too much of a slut and be ashamed, or whether she thought it was a step too far and humiliating for me.

But my enduring wish and fantasy has always been to share her with her lying between me and another guy. We would kiss and caress her and then take turns to fuck her, make her cum and fill her with our semen. I would like to kiss and caress her boobs as the other guy thrust into her until she came. When one of us was done the other would enter her and take over.

She can cum as many as 10 times on the trot and maybe more, so both of us would have our balls wrung dry.

I can but dream!

I have enjoyed eating my own cream pies out my woman's cunny many a time, with my cum mingled with her pussy cream. She has also enjoyed tasting her pussy cream and cum off my wet cock many a time.

I suspect that I unknowingly ate another guy's cream pie once or twice when I have come home after my woman's lover has been with her all day and evening and she hadn't told me.

Usually she would rinse out out her pussy after she had been with another guy and never allowed me to enjoy cumming in her cream pied cunt. But on one or two occasions she just fell asleep in bed after he left her and I arrived home eager to fuck her.

Such sweet joy to cum in a pussy full of another man's cum. So creamy.

I would leave a good cream pie in her on occasion for her latest lover to enjoy.

My main woman always wanted to fuck me as soon as possible after I had been with one of my other women.

I have always been able to do this since I was a teenager, but never could control it. When I was young it happened after screwing all day and running out of cum. I used to screw so much it made my balls ache and feel as if they had been wrung dry. These days it happens probably because having sex on a daily basis, I just run out of cum and it will happen first time. If I hold off sex for a few days and then have really exciting sex I cum loads again and flood her.

Years ago, one of my mistresses used to like getting dressed after sex standing with her back to the French doors with the curtains open in broad daylight. She would bend right over to pull on her panties. One next door neighbour would have had a very close and clear view of her wet pussy if he had been standing in his back garden near the house. There was a black guy in the first floor flat behind who would often stand and stare out of the window for ages, just day dreaming. One day she commented on this. I think she put on a display just for him. Knowing her, she might even have gone round his flat after leaving me. She was as bold as brass.

I have eaten my own cream pie out of my partners' pussies many many times, but not knowingly done so with another guy's cream pie, although I think I probably have a couple of times without knowing it. Usually my current partner would rinse out her pussy if she was expecting or wanting me to go down on her, but maybe sometimes?...

Shitfaced - email me again. Unfortunately I deleted your email without keeping the email address. She is hot! I love that shaven pussy.

Shitfaced - email is all lower case

Wow, what a woman. I would love to join you both in a bit of double vaginal penetration and come together in her.

I have had fulfilled and unfulfilled cuckold fantasies. I have left lovely cream pies for my partner's lover and come home to his. On one occasion I got home early before her latest lover had left and she let me and introduced me to him. She was only ewaring only a T shirt which only just covered her crutch, with cum trickling down the inside of her thighs, having fucked him all day on the sofa and when I rang the door bell he was shooting another load in her she told me later.

Likewise she always wanted to fuck me as soon as possible after I had been with my mistress. She would want me to re-enact everything I had done with my mistress with her.

But she never agrees to me joining in or having a 4-some mix and match. I would love to watch being taken multiple times by a young black stud with a huge cock and then slide into her afterwards and cum. But no deal. She is scared of enormous black cocks.

HornyMarried lady, I would love to fulfil your fantasy - and your pussy!

In 3-ways, it is always best when both members of the couple are fully engaged at all times. That is what makes it enjoyable. And of course the lady must be treated like a princess. If she is really interested in being a total slut, then guys should treat her as the queen of sluts and honour and respect her majesty and obey her royal commands.

Yes, I am up for it!

In a hammock in a palm thatched beach hut whilst two other couples were in the other rooms with only thin wickerwork walls between us. The woman of the couple on one side would come very loudly every night, as did my girlfriend of the time and she loved listening to and watching that other couple through the gaps in the wickerwork, whilst I fucked her doggy style.

In a long distance coach. In the back of my brother's car whilst he was driving. When a teenager in the back of my parent's car with a girlfriend whilst they were in the front seat and my dad driving. On the top deck of a bus.

This is something I developed the capability of doing when I was quite young. During a massive sex session after cumming many times, my balls would be wrung dry. Sometimes this meant that I couldn't get another orgasm, but often I could carry on and shoot blanks. It can be just as physically enjoyable as when I shoot a load.

Anybody interested in setting up a mature Brighton and Hove Swingers group to chat online and meet in the flesh in a kind of swingers social get together and / or speed-dating?

I would be up for meeting there on a Friday, if any couples or single ladies are interested.

I would be up for it if you think my profile meets your criteria. But I have a very busy calendar so fixing up a mutually agreeable time might be tricky.

I also love my partner being fucked by another guy. Unfortunately she has never let me watch let alone join in. However, I have had mistresses to compensate and have enjoyed sloppy seconds when I have arrived home just after her lovers have left her, or when she has got back home from a meet or car sex. And she always wants sex with me after I have been with another woman and sometimes wants to re-enact what I have done with my mistresses.

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Have to say that there is nothing so hot for me as watching my wife (Asian) kneeling down and have a white cock slide in and out of her mouth while I kneel behind her playing with her tits and asking her 'are you enjoying sucking another mans cock' ...and she replies ' I LOVE IT!' .... and it's particularly hot when she is riding him and I ask what else she wants and she says ' I want another cock up my arse' .... WOW!! Having enjoyed dp and dv what I have yet to experience is to watch her with TWO white guys pounding both her holes while I watch and give her my cock in her mouth! I know she'd love to try this but it so difficult to find 2 decent looking, well endowed guys to meet on the same day!! I live in hope.

Wish I lived in the West Midlands!