Masturbation..

10 Apr 2008

Watching 'Girls guide to 21st century sex..."
'Masturbation is good for your health' .. they state.
And we all do it wink

I have a friend who is adament that she has never in her life masturbated! :shock: and even more of a shock she can 100% guarantee her hubby has never had one in all their 13 yr married life! :shock: She seems to think that because she's married they don't 'need' to be doing that.
I disagree, the most healthiest of couples will masturbate either together or on their own. I think it's great, I love it! I think it's a great stress reliever.
What do others think? is this girl unique or is she a secret masturbator??? lol

10 Apr 2008

I didn't until I was around 24ish.
I still can't do it on my own with my own hands. I have to use toys. I can touch myself if someone is there, either watching or doing something else to me.
But me and my hands never meet alone. :shock:

10 Apr 2008

I think Flower hit the nail on the head, masturbation is still seen as , maybe people do think they shouldn't feel the need to do it if you have a healthy sex life, I personally do it because I do have healthy sex life, the more I get the more I want.. I'm just greedy perhaps? cool

10 Apr 2008

Quote by splendid_
I didn't until I was around 24ish.
I still can't do it on my own with my own hands. I have to use toys. I can touch myself if someone is there, either watching or doing something else to me.
But me and my hands never meet alone. :shock:

That's really honest of you. Do you know why you haven't ever used your own hands or is it just one of those things?
Do you think (and I'm not reflecting on you here Splendy...), that there are people out there where masturbation depends on their upbringing??

10 Apr 2008

I don't think it is as simple as being a .
I was always more than open to the idea..... and still am.
I just couldn't do it.
I actually got a video off a friend to learn. redface

10 Apr 2008

HI
I think lots of girls can go without masturbating, some girls I have spoken to, say that they hate sex and they only do it to make babies or as a duty to their man! But still don't enjoy it. :shock:
But as regards men...... There are 2 sorts of men, wankers and liars.
Me, I love a good five finger shuffle!

11 Apr 2008

I'm a wanker, not often but I am redface

I can be for a number of reasons, including Ians not here and I need to get off :twisted:
Sometimes its for a giggle. If Ian is working at his desk and we are talking online, I might just explain exactly what I am going off to to just so it drives him mad and leaves him sitting at his desk unable to get up :giggle:
Sometimes I use toys, more often I don't. Sometimes I go weeks without bothering, sometimes 2 hours :lol2:
I have no hang ups about it and if I wasn't straight, I would be offering Splendid a few lessons :rascal:

11 Apr 2008

Quote by flower411
Yeah ....it probably is a lot more than !!
That just happens to be my current experience
I have another aquaintance who says that she has never had an orgasm when she`s with another person but can bring herself to orgasm very quickly when alone ... and that`s without artificial aids ...just fingers .

that was me until I met Jay, it could of course coincided with the fact I'd finally met a man I was comfortable enough with to relax in that sense. smile

11 Apr 2008

Masturbation, I have my eyes to think of! Know where did I put my glasses?
OK I admit it redface

before, after and instead of surprised

ops: It is, as someone said, fun.

11 Apr 2008

I was masturbating before I even knew what it was! I have no hang-ups about it .. which is just as well because Pom's job takes him away from Monday to Fridays every week so I'd be fit to burst by the weekend if I didn't have my battery powered buddies.
I see it as a complement to a good sex life - not a negative statement about it.

11 Apr 2008

Quote by Dawnie
I'm a wanker, not often but I am
I can be for a number of reasons, including Ians not here and I need to get off :twisted:
Sometimes its for a giggle. If Ian is working at his desk and we are talking online, I might just explain exactly what I am going off to to just so it drives him mad and leaves him sitting at his desk unable to get up :giggle:
Sometimes I use toys, more often I don't. Sometimes I go weeks without bothering, sometimes 2 hours :lol2:
I have no hang ups about it and if I wasn't straight, I would be offering Splendid a few lessons :rascal:

your post proberly sums up myself and old master bates wink

i can go weeks without or less than a matter of hours.... and as he works away sometimes needs must - (sometimes for the feel good factor sometimes for the letting off of steam)And sometimes after sex if im still feeling rather randy :giggle:
I use fingers occasionally but mainly toys. i find i have to be really really horny for my own fingers to get me off but others work fine. Until i was 18 (when i purchased my first toy) i had never masterbated or wanked or whatever terminology you wish to use, not even fingers. i dont have any hang ups about it - to me its a fact of life and most sexually active people do it

11 Apr 2008

Quote by jaymar
Watching 'Girls guide to 21st century sex..."
'Masturbation is good for your health' .. they state.
And we all do it
I have a friend who is adament that she has never in her life masturbated! :shock: and even more of a shock she can 100% guarantee her hubby has never had one in all their 13 yr married life! :shock: She seems to think that because she's married they don't 'need' to be doing that.
I disagree, the most healthiest of couples will masturbate either together or on their own. I think it's great, I love it! I think it's a great stress reliever.
What do others think? is this girl unique or is she a secret masturbator???

How can SHE be that sure? :shock: I think he is def telling porky pies!
Some peoples sex lives are just so on and off, and they dont tell each other any fantasies. I had friends years ago where they had been married for over a year but had NOT had full sex. :shock:
Some couples talk very openly but...others dont talk at all. Its lights out and roll on and roll off.
Of course we masturbate, and I would say that every guy does, no matter what he says. As for women I did know a female years ago who said she never had, but then it takes more to get a woman aroused than a guy.

11 Apr 2008

i dont do the solitary stuff, havent since i moved in with rose..make of that what you will..
staggy

11 Apr 2008

Quote by Whipsnspurs
i have twice this morning just looking at pictures of guys on here :twisted:
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Yes! a girl after my own heart.... wink

13 Apr 2008

I can't remember a time when I didn't masturbate... redface

Sometimes I don't for a while and then there are days when I do it several times. Sometimes it's a toy thang, but more often than not just me and my imagination!! :twisted: Ooooh, simple pleasures!

13 Apr 2008

OF course I do .....who else would have sex with me redface

I do have to say that watching a lady bring herself to climax is one of the horniest experiences you can have imho. :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: