mature swingers

22 Sep 2008

Hi everyone,
I am constantly amazed at how many youngest there are trying to get into swinging and then demanding to meet young hip swingers. I am sorry if that sounds ageist but I can only talk from experience's I have had recently.
In one chat room I watch as a discussion broke out demanding that a national and very popular swingers club only allowed in people up to the age of 35.
I have been swinging on & off for almost 30 yrs, and have meet some wonderful people of all ages. But! Hand on heart I have always found that mature swingers are more relaxed at ease and more comfortable in swinging situations. Perhaps the easiest way to explain this is to say. Younger people have more egos.
Apologise if this offends anyone and I do truly mean that.
I am friends with several swingers who are well past their mid 50's and a few people who are into their 60's.
So my question for this forum is. How many more mature swingers are there out there and should we start a regular mature swingers get together.
Bluetone

22 Sep 2008

How mature is "mature"?
John & Shel

22 Sep 2008

A concept dear to my heart.
In our 40s, 50, 60s, 70s, at a time when we were supposed to be pipe and slippers instead we're feeling sexy and experimental!
And why not??!!
Bring it on I say!
(Waits hopefully..)
wink

22 Sep 2008

I think if you do a quick check on the average age of the members of this site,you get in the mid fourties.
I'm sure the 20 somethings and other ages are in the minority but that may change over the years, well it will do cos, they will get older and then they will soon be in their fourties and moaning about the young whippersnappers wink

22 Sep 2008

We tend to agree, we are mature (50's) swingers and have met all ages although it does appear the more mature are more relaxed and confident. We are now used to comments at clubs like "there are only oldies in there" when in the jacuzzi etc, or "where are all the young ones"?
However, we enjoy ourselves and like to think we bring joy to others, as some of the young men we meet keep telling me.
Elizabeth

22 Sep 2008

Quote by bather
"where are all the young ones"?

Hiding away in the older bodies :twisted:

22 Sep 2008

Since this lot are, oh so rude I'll just say
:welcome: to the Cafe!

22 Sep 2008

Quote by helnheaven
Since this lot are, oh so rude I'll just say
:welcome: to the Cafe!

You love us rude though!
Welcome though, Bluetone smile

22 Sep 2008

Quote by Freckledbird
Since this lot are, oh so rude I'll just say
:welcome: to the Cafe!

You love us rude though!

Wouldnt have you any other way lol

22 Sep 2008

Quote by helnheaven
Since this lot are, oh so rude I'll just say
:welcome: to the Cafe!

You love us rude though!

Wouldnt have you any other way lol

Not even semi-recumbent? :twisted:

22 Sep 2008

Quote by Peanut
Since this lot are, oh so rude I'll just say
:welcome: to the Cafe!

You love us rude though!

Wouldnt have you any other way lol

Not even semi-recumbent? :twisted:
Dahhhrling....that is soooo last year wink

22 Sep 2008

Quote by helnheaven
Dahhhrling....that is soooo last year

Me to a tee then rolleyes

22 Sep 2008

Quote by Peanut

Dahhhrling....that is soooo last year

Me to a tee then rolleyes

:therethere: kiss

22 Sep 2008

Quote by helnheaven

Dahhhrling....that is soooo last year

Me to a tee then rolleyes

:therethere: kiss

Dank ew
Now bend over and brace yerrself lass :P

22 Sep 2008

mature
ripe
...like cheese
lp

22 Sep 2008

Quote by __random_orbit__
mature
ripe
...like cheese
lp

Is that squidgy brie or ronking stilton?
Think you find quite a few of a certain age around here. Join in and enjoy.
.

22 Sep 2008

Quote by westerross
mature
ripe
...like cheese
lp

Is that squidgy brie or ronking stilton?
Think you find quite a few of a certain age around here. Join in and enjoy.
.
as much as I dont like it... 'ronking' stilton appeals as a label.
Im not all that continental you see... except for maybe croisants... and they dont work with age ... or do they?
lp

23 Sep 2008

Quote by __random_orbit__
mature
ripe
...like cheese
lp

Is that squidgy brie or ronking stilton?
Think you find quite a few of a certain age around here. Join in and enjoy.
.
as much as I dont like it... 'ronking' stilton appeals as a label.
Im not all that continental you see... except for maybe croisants... and they dont work with age ... or do they?
lp
S'awright - you only have to have continental fer the brie or camembert. P'raps some melted and drizzled on a croisaant would do??
.

23 Sep 2008

Quote by westerross
mature
ripe
...like cheese
lp

Is that squidgy brie or ronking stilton?
Think you find quite a few of a certain age around here. Join in and enjoy.
.
as much as I dont like it... 'ronking' stilton appeals as a label.
Im not all that continental you see... except for maybe croisants... and they dont work with age ... or do they?
lp
S'awright - you only have to have continental fer the brie or camembert. P'raps some melted and drizzled on a croisaant would do??
.
That's it, I think you triggered my reflux...
...damn this age thing, I so used to like rich and fatty foods rolleyes